Prevention of mental disorders of old maid when

Inferiority: this class of women believe that over 30 also alone keep empty boudoir is disgraceful, and fear of others interested tone asked his marriage and his despair, that love will never visit, t: from this and love.

Accordingly, they either leave their heart close together, not to pursue, even if the true man comes, will be "10 percussion nine not open".

Either you are to the other extreme, in the community, parents, friends of pressures and impacts, taken with the current practice, hastily find a do the job.

Closed mind: these poor women have always been reluctant to communication in marriage initiative on the issue, or even unwilling and married colleagues.

From then on will own in the individual small world, like being alone, so communicative scope become very small. This psychological fact greatly reduces their partner opportunities. In fact, the wait for a check on a willing mind, will only make themselves become very aloof, also makes a substantial portion of their interest to men. Furthermore, marriage is a two-way selection, if you wait, the bidirectional became one-way, not at least a half-chance?

Psychology: some older women, previously a partner and the requirements are too high and lost a lot of opportunities, this was a lesson that became reality.

But they scattered his high standards keep more stringent and think "now, we can't let people joke", this mentality makes them more carefully selected and must meet the desired requirements. They love the idealized, lack of realism, and hope that their love is like the description of the romantic novels: bluish-white delicate style, Prince charming swooped; at first sight, the flower of love suddenly miraculously high shine. Notice that the marriage is not a feast Serenade, but truly live, down-to-Earth and mate choice, why waste your youth in a dream?

Old maid is spent, although it was late, but also have the right to flowering.

Although they have this or that mental disorders, but their psychological but deep inside an ordinary person can hardly noticeable psychological tendency that need specific sincere love. At this point, if you have the appropriate male, be careful of thoughtful and meticulous care, we can ignite them deep into the fire of love, open their hearts.

However, the real Savior or old maid, if their bound ourselves deprived of love and be loved, it will only make the tree of life prematurely.

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)