Find him playing with genital, frighten him then touch up will indent the belly.
He began with the phenomenon of experimentation, heard tell of experimentation can damage the body, even after the cannot complete sexual intercourse, and so on. This made him feel panic.
When he realized that he had married many seminal emission, mental anxiety, fear and shame, wedding night couples sex life failed.
Later also as the penis cannot get an erection but cannot successfully complete sexual intercourse, and wife blamed "incompetent," and "only the table", both emotional and harmony.
When he later whenever sexuality was tensions, erectile increasingly difficult.
He told the doctor that he often more dreams, palpitations, general weakness, memory impairment. The doctor gave him after checking the reproductive system is not found, then the organic diagnosed psychogenic impotence.
Erectile dysfunction is a common one of sexual dysfunction, it is the male sexual demands, even frequent strong sexual impulses, but cannot get an erection of the penis, or erectile gravis, or erection hard but not lasting and cannot enter the vagina, or has not yet been inserted after vaginal ejaculation is weak, unable to complete the normal sexual intercourse.
But due to excessive fatigue, illness or nervous at the beginning of more, occasionally a few times you cannot get an erection is not sexual impotence.
Some people never able to normal erectile and finish, this is the primary sexual impotence; some people past the normal sexual function, then an impotence, it is called secondary sexual impotence.
Some people are due to the body's physiological cause impotence, others are due to psychological factors cause impotence, there are also people who have these two reasons, respectively called organic impotence, psychogenic impotence and mixed sexual impotence. According to clinical investigation, psychological factors are the impotence of the most common and most important reason, approximately 85% of patients with impotence is due to psychological factors. Cause impotence of psychological factors mainly:
① to intercourse with the fear, fear of sexual intercourse will hurt the woman's body or its "from";
② on masturbation with guilt or fear, self implies that masturbation is impotence;
③ intercourse environment, worried that someone else knows;
④ the couple feeling uncomfortable, distrust or suspicion;
⑤ worried you cannot get an erection can lead to the woman.
These factors can cause impotence.
When the male is sexually excited state, high in the brain and spinal cord control nerve centres, so as to control the parasympathetic excited over parts of arterial dilation, increased blood supply to the penis, allowing the penis to become hard erection.
And erection of the penis and the surrounding muscle contractions and blood pressure vein, returning, stranded in the sponge the body of the penis, allowing the penis to a certain period of time to maintain the status of hard erection.
After orgasm, sympathetic start excited, artery contraction, venous return and with it the Elimination of obstacles to the penis.
Some people are worried about sexual intercourse fails, strongly expect normal erectile too, but because of the stress, anxiety and fear, inhibiting the parasympathetic excited, results but cannot get an erection, causing impotence, and increasingly severe and frequent.
Treatment for impotence should take different measures in different etiology.
Organic treatment of impotence to its primary diseases such as diabetes mellitus, hypothyroidism, testicular diseases, genital malformation, nervous system disorders, etc.; mixed sexual impotence, both from physical and psychological treatments, including kick too frequent masturbation, sex, sexual intercourse to appropriate restraint; on the psychogenic impotence "heart disease" to impose different "heart medicine."
Fear of pregnancy, should take effective and easy contraceptive measures to eliminate fear and worry.
The woman should give the husband the necessary encouragement and comfort and understanding, to active cooperation. Too much of the blame, urging, blame and dissatisfaction, you can only add her husband's psychological burden make him more anxiety, nervousness, sexual intercourse, the more you want to complete, but the more frustrated. The man should be relaxed and happy mood to treat sexual life.
The sex life as a pleasant gaming, entertainment or walking, your mood will naturally much more easily.
And sex life as a reluctance of obligations, sexual punishment, victimization or on their own emotional and sexual ability in "test", is not conducive to relax. To establish the confidence, to eliminate sexual anxiety and fear.
Relatives of patients with impotence family, colleagues not to discriminate against, irony and rebuked them to reduce their stress.
On the application of impotence could also focus on training, sexy Hypnotherapy, Biofeedback therapy for the treatment. Sexy focused training is a form of behavior therapy, it is divided into several steps:
First, the coordination of both sides of the awareness and relaxation anxiety (3-5 days): to more introductory to both physical and psychological knowledge, male and female sexual response characteristics and sexual practices, etc.
Husband and wife in this period cannot be separated, to eliminate sexual intercourse, failures of anxiety. At the same time to do some simple relaxation training, further eliminate anxiety and tension.
Second, non-sexual, physical and emotional Exchange (3-5 days): the last step is completed, the two sides should lie naked, kissing, cuddling and touch the whole body, but not touching the breasts and sex organs, both parents are of verbal communication.
These activities aim to raise the body parts of sensibility and not meet the needs of sexual intercourse, or sexual intercourse.
Third, touching of genitals and application masturbation technique (2-3 days): in this phase of the both parties want to find their own best stimulate sexual organs.
Male best stimulation point General with the penis instead of the penis head, women were more to the clitoris and vagina.
In touch with each other to sex organs should be mainly nonverbal implied in order not to dilute the oyster pleasant enjoyment.
This stage is still not to have sexual intercourse, but to try to experience physical and psychological euphoria, and gradually the concentration of the sexy sex organs.
Fourth, by Chuck a wife in rhythm to erectile penis.
When an erection but hard to stop Petting or when the woman and intimacy, let erection subsides. After repeated over and over again, to be a hard and long-lasting erections, take female host pose for probing the intercourse activities. When the two sides to the satisfaction of sexual excitement reaches climax, then take both sides like positions sexual intercourse. After several days of repeat, formed a new band sex mode.
Use hypnosis therapy in the treatment of impotence, by psychologists and doctors.
First of all to patients and their spouses a detailed analysis of their psychological and physiological causes of impotence, give the necessary explanations and comfort, the Elimination of both sides on the sex life of misunderstanding and fear, and requested a temporary separation between husband and wife.
Secondly, on patients with hypnotic suggestion to relax and fall asleep, to improve the patient's emotional, eliminating anxiety.
Once again, when the mood to relax, hypnotic state on its release erection of the penis. After some time, Hypnotherapy, penile function to get a good recovery, excitement and erectile function.
(Practice editing: Chen Dong ping)
