Men's five of fear

I. afraid wife complains that the sex organs of size

Men on their sex organs size worries, with women on their own fear of breast size is the same strong, unmarried men, because there is no sexual experience for their penis size have to worry about is not surprising, but married men fear that their penis is too large or too small are not unusual.

In particular, some newly married husband and marriage often still does not let the wife met her husband, sexual intercourse, often afraid wife complains that the size of the penis, in fact, male penis length deviation as if one is high there is short, and really belongs to morbid gigantism and dwarfism is indeed very few, similarly, morbid penis is too long or too short or extremely rare. It is generally believed that erectile back in 7.8 cm to 20 cm are normal, relatively short, too long penis, sexual life, as long as attention to sexual intercourse positions, are without prejudice to their sexual harmony. Therefore, when the couple having sex, when sensitive wife unaware of her husband for his own sexual size worries, the correct approach is to tell him about your sex life and there is no significant impact, as long as her husband put, you will feel good. This will greatly enhance the confidence of a husband.

Second, the fear of not knowing when the wife needs more touch and stimulate the

A husband has thus doctor said: "we make love, my wife usually own hands touch vulval; sometimes, I also used hand to touch her, but she put my hand away, does she prefers instead I caress her?"

From women get an orgasm by how easily, female self stimulate natural than husband touch easier access to physical sexual satisfaction, but love is the thing, mutual masturbation, mutual stimulation, the sexual life of the whole process, which is far better than a perfect alone. Therefore, the wise wife should give the husband the guidelines.

3. fear of erectile strong enough

Male erectile function love to many factors: the pressure of working career, life, feeling overburdened the estrangement between husband and wife, and so on, will make the poor penile erection, or even without these factors, more than 30-year-old male, also occasional erectile poor performance.

Many men will therefore suspected sexual function, some will blindly take various aphrodisiac kidney drug to save their "weakening" of sexual function. In fact, compared to 18-25 years old this segment of the male sex drive most thriving period, a new male will feel sexual desire is reduced, but the control of capacity. Therefore, at this time his wife's attitude is most important; if the wife with suspicion, complain or mocking tone he said her husband, can only make the problem even more serious. The best way is to select the husband better mood, or erectile dysfunction good morning, caressing his genitals, or you can let him for vaginal stimulation, this husband won't worry for erectile function.

4. fear wife camouflage climax

Live in couples, couples sexual response, sexual information can stimulate the mutual induction, mutual, party acquired response will thrill to the other party was great.

Take the husband, the wife make love when you can get an orgasm made him stronger to sexual stimulation, will let him have a male pride and achievement. However, if we know each other's orgasm just a disguise, it would greatly damage his pride, his sexual interest, perhaps some women think that since their sexual response to her husband so important, then, in themselves do not want to put into sex, or physically unwell, pacify my husband is fine; that is, as some researchers believe wife in front of fake an orgasm, the husband as if she said before guests courtesy, if you do not reach a climax in sex, the wife can explain to her husband: "today I am feeling bad," or "I'm too tired, but you have sex and physical contact also makes me feel real", said the wife, husband through and will understand.

V. fear wife not getting multiple orgasm

From the sexual physiology, men in sexual excitement reaches a climax when the characteristic performance is an ejaculation ejaculate, once over, men enters phase, should not have any sexual stimulation are there will be no response.

The male is sexually refractory period, this is the evolution of a self-protection mechanism that should not have a period, the male sex organs within the body of the semen, the accumulated tension in the muscles to relax, for the next sexual excitement. However, women are not should not have a period, a number of popular science books often have such a word: female orgasm with continuous repeatedly achieve potential. But this is a "potential" and not "inevitable". Often there are some husband complained: "I would like to let his wife can achieve orgasm several times in succession, you can often backfires, sometimes two people to do so. "In fact, the female orgasm after response differently, the vast majority of women need to continue the warmth, caress, make sexual excitement slowly declining, this is a kind of" post play "process; some female orgasm later if given appropriate, appropriate stimulation can satisfy once again acquired, but the General level of excitement than one at a time; in addition, there are a number of female orgasm, the whole body, including skin, sensitive parts into a hyper-sensitive status, just couple cuddling, whisper, refuse any stimulus, such as giving the caress, instead of feeling uncomfortable, stimulation of the treble. Therefore, do not be able to continuously achieve numerous female orgasm theory the temptation, where both spouses to share their happiness in sex, intimacy, orgasm suffice.

6 is afraid of their own sex time is not long enough

Long time having sex

Short there is no standard, men tend to think that the longer the better, they think the longer description, the stronger their sexual function, sexual skills too, at the same time, the longer you will be satisfied with the wife, therefore, the comparison between men in sexual capacity often brag how long between the time the sexual intercourse. In fact, there are two errors need correcting: first sexual intercourse and there is a difference between having sex time, sex time is from both sides of the former Hee are ready to begin until after sexual intercourse, the two sides through mutual masturbation sex scene after completion, the entire process is to make time, this process can last several minutes, even longer. There are couple morning Pro before going out with a cross-road to go home early in the evening, the meaning of the Convention is to "tonight we had sex, sex, broadly speaking time should be started from the morning. While sexual intercourse time is the male's penis into the vagina to complete the ejaculation, that time is not like most people boast of so long. United States-researchers find statistics, General United States couples, most of the time intercourse within 5-9 minutes. The sustainability of dozens of minutes, even longer than one hour of men are there? perhaps, but it can be said that very little. Second, even if men can be sustained during intercourse more than an hour, then, such a long time really necessary? male ejaculate too quickly is the premature ejaculation "," male premature ejaculation "worry there, and for the late release of the person does not seem to have to worry about, but if the male penis in vagina TIC more than half an hour, and they have no intention to be controlled, without ejaculation, this situation persists, not only can be diagnosed as" late release ", even without any suspicion of ejaculate. Plus, female sexual satisfaction, it does not, and the length of the male sex. Therefore, men do not superstitious to sexual intercourse, the longer the better, if you feel that you cannot continue until you are satisfied with his wife, then the increase after the play before playing and time, or in the sex in the number of new components, to try new ways, sex will let your wife.

(Editors: Teng Yun)