Thursday, December 30, 2010

Kids grow up, they become susceptible to anxiety a

  

When we in the eyes of the little girl grow, will begin in the face of how to learn and how to make friends in their lives ... in the face of their loved ones, simply do not know how to make friends? so learning and friends often anxious to little girls.

In the normal people want to come to the children even if there is anything good, cry all the time.

As everyone knows, today's enormous social pressure is transmitted to children, they unwittingly caught in the vicious circle of anxiety. But some little girl because of the innate sensitivity, introverted, and anxiety problems evident. Where learning and friends both issues most likely to make a girl feel anxiety.

"Do not know what the child has been very good grades in the original, mental quality is also good.

But recently, one to the exam before the sick, the old shout stomachache, want to go to the toilet. "For holding this type of problem parents, Deputy Director of the hospital psychiatric physicians have already got used Sun Chun cloud. "In recent years, these problems are more and more children. This is typical of children's anxiety. "Sun spring cloud said," learning anxiety "has already affected many children's daily lives.

"In those scores very well or badly reading achievement of children, this anxiety evident, girls are often more than boys, so early, but also more prone to problems.

"Sun spring clouds that they were afraid to ask questions in class teacher, always worried about exams, have fear of the exam, or even a Psych is going to faint. "Before some anxiety is normal, but if this situation lasts two to three months and still cannot relieve, is a disease.

Examination or learning to produce anxiety, partly because the score is too heavy; on the other hand, it is because expectations were too high.

Once this anxiety, girls are more important. Since childhood, girls tend to see things very heavy, and if things are not working towards their expected development, it is easy to let their lack of self-confidence, self-esteem and thus long-term depression is in a depression, tension, fear of the State. ”

In addition, the girl on the interpersonal relationships of anxiety is often far more serious than boys.

Due to their natural sentimental, narcissism complex, heavy, interpersonal is easily demonstrated undue stress and anxiety, and fear of strangers or can't communicate with people. This is a problem if the long-term are not addressed, will become a stumbling block for the growth of children.

Of course, since children are not fully characterized and wanted to get rid of anxiety and distress is also entirely possible that the most important or parents to put the mind.

Sun spring cloud believes that it is first necessary to create a family atmosphere, with all the emotions to care for children. Encourage children to deal with different people, experiencing the problem, tell children the solution and let her out myself, but at the same time should continue to focus on its process.

Secondly, on the child's ability to have an accurate expected to constantly tell kids "as long as we do our best to just fine", greater attention to the learning process, rather than twice-once.

Finally, if a child has really started to worry, you should try to help them relax, do breathing exercises, if you still cannot alleviate anxiety, must promptly seek specialist advice.

(Editors: Cheng Yu-Shan)

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