People often say that the authorities ' fans, this is the case! two chess, next to always complained that the wrong, should take that a step further.
And turn to him, he would often go wrong. Lose even worse.Why is the authorities who live! guard we change perspective!-to a third party perspective problem!
Empathy: when you puzzled, you don't think what I like! but think of it this way, if my friend made the same mistake, I'll give him any suggestions! he wants to do is the best, to find someone to help solve these problems, can anyone help me friends! in order not to make the same mistake again, that he should pay attention to what!? what experience can profit from!?
This completely to the identity of a third party to think
Benefits:
1, not easily influenced by emotion, judgment more objective comparative calm mood;
2, the idea has condemned State of liberation, attention turned to solve the problem above;
3, emotional relatively stable and will not be changed and will not be caught weakness, strong self awareness comparison;
4. comparative calm mental Outlook, confidence, and give the feeling of real stability;
5. in General, on the comprehensive support control better, good judgment and strong, stable, handling things straight in your head.
(Practice editing: Gan also)
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