19-year-old girl: my man disillusioned

The deficiency of sweat is

· In vitro ejaculation for men health benefit

· Winter health copulation is grasping the proportionality

· 7 things can help feminine mammary glands prevention

· Women's menstrual period how dead "strange disease"?

· Winter health eating chestnut bushen gluten 　　

"I am 19 years old, had many boyfriend. But now, I am man disillusioned, but those looks handsome comparison attractivity of girls.

3 years old, his parents divorced, was very little Mama told me that ' man is not a good thing '.

At that time, I also do not believe that, then go through things, over and over again verify the mother.

Now I have a year not been in love, men have no interest in root of press, I think that their sexual orientation has changed.

The surrounding there are also some classmates are gay, communicate with each other. They have a lot of people think that he is gay very fashionable, I didn't think that fashion, just like and homosexual intercourse. But until now I haven't found a real gay ' lovers '. Online chat, there is also a lesbian meet find me out, but I haven't the courage.

Homosexual attachment is only temporary status

To this end, the Beijing sunshine huaren counseling room consultant song Yu Mei believes that homosexuality and same-sex attachment is differentiated.

The former refers to and same-sex sexual activity took place between, while the latter is not.

Cause why same-sex attachment mainly has following several aspects: first, the children were young, affected by family impact is considerable.

If the parent relationship problems, you can make the child on the marriage and love of the deviation.

Secondly, in order to prevent children puppy, many parents in child is very small, we will remind them of the specific "don't and excessive contact" so that they more learns and exchanges of experience.

Finally, today's kids prematurely exposed a number of new concepts, and their young minds not yet possess the ability to distinguish between things.

They deliberately imitate some looks "personality", just to get someone's attention.

The concept of strengthening children not

Puberty has homosexual attachment is a normal phenomenon, but parents, teachers and some radical approach, it might make them "self-fulfilling prophecy".

As parents, children and homosexual friends or too close, without too much worry, do not put the concept of "gay" imposed on them, because in this way, but will keep the children that they are real gay.

In fact, as the children grow older, they will gradually become "normal".

For those who are single-parent family of parents, not always in front of the children said ex-husband (wife), and do not speak ill of strengthening child psychology to the resentment of the opposite sex.

(Practice editing: Cheng Yu-Shan)