How to face sexual impulses?

　　

Reading Guide: everyone has been puberty, after puberty, the teenage sexual function very rapid growth and become mature, and often generating the interest of sexual knowledge, but because of the failure to carry out in very good youth sexual education, there are some of the mystery and psychological sexual ignorance. And in this kind of psychological and immature love psychological, sexual ethics, civilization, a lack of understanding often hold back from the temptation of adverse factors, which in turn can easily produce sexual impulses, to the end can cause a transgression, result we cannot imagine the consequences.

Sex of physiological development, accompanied by psychological and behavioural changes significantly, the most prominent features are specific to produce a hard to eliminate the interest, a kind of love, longing, intimate feelings, sometimes also occur libido impulse.

But such feelings are usually not, however, to any one specific but are more susceptible to feel satisfied with the peers of attract. This kind of sexual psychology and behavior, from biology to reflect the trend of sexual development, soon to have mature offspring of fertility. However, teenagers themselves often don't know this kind of psychological and behavioural change is what it means? this is known as the unconscious instinct of survival.

Survival instincts are humans and animals have in common a survival talent.

For example, eating behavior is a survival instinct, appetite is driven by the animals eat psychological motivators. Loss of appetite, the animal does not have the motivation and behaviour of eating.

Animals do not know the sex and reproduction, is driven by the desire to pursue closer, through specific desire satisfy sexual behavior gets.

Raring also implements the offspring survival activities. So the behaviour is the progeny of the survival instinct, not an instinct, animals would become extinct.

The original human sexual behavior in the eating and the two survival instinct and animals and without distinction.

Contemporary people if totally lacking knowledge of nutrition and growth, they eat and sexuality on the lack of awareness, or even like the original person or animal blindly and without reason, just by the appetite and libido driven to action.

Adolescent sex between love, intimacy, even sexual impulses, is affected by the propagation of instinct.

Adolescence adolescent psychological and behavioural changes and it is for this reason.

As the progeny of human survival guarantee strong libido impulse level than the other physical desire.

Biology in the evolutionary process by the fittest of natural selection, and formed a strong sexual temptation drive animals, including humans, to reproductive life instinct. Sex, sex is the concrete expression of the survival instinct, which we could not resist, but can manage. In recognition of this, young people will be able to more clearly understand their origin and sex-related causes of mental activities, this behavior will also be able to give consciousness and reason.

When young men and women by friends become lovers, especially into the excitement, sweet and happy amatory stages, the boys often forgets himself, it seems that everything around, there's only a love of hot and feelings of euphoria.

And beloved girl interdependently, two love Valentine, Cece, meaning a spongy, lads easily produce sexual impulse.

Sexual desire is a specific target trend unit inner strength, is a normal phenomenon of sexual psychology.

Men after puberty, hormone secretion, constantly physiological function of a catastrophe, the reproductive organs and their functions in speedily maturity. Love, and sex-related perception, emotion, memory and imagination, unusually active mental activities. Girl's eye teeth, slim figure and aromatic atmosphere, in short, the girl to the young man of vision, taste, hearing, touch, smell brings all the excitement was aroused his sexual impulses.

If you put feelings than do oar, the reason is the rudder.

Only the agreeable, love boat to reach the other side of happiness. Premarital man encounter may it is this ability to "manage". Sexual impulses sparking waves, makes the guys lost, confused, or even "boats" subversion, stranded. Only the strong will to calm the waves, young man, sail.

(Practice editing: Cheng Yu-Shan)