As already said to develop adolescent education because the old concept of the existence of serious resistance. Many of the facts, not to break the old ideas, it is impossible to adolescent education.
Spring period sex education first to break the old ideas
As already said to develop adolescent education because the old concept of the existence of serious resistance.
Many of the facts, not to break the old ideas, it is impossible to adolescent education.
Sexual activity is the human instinct is the offspring of normal behavior.
One of the Confucian classics of the "book of rites. Liyun pointed out:" eating men and women, people of how to save. " Information on the substance of Engels reproduction called: "two kinds of production", which are descriptive of the problem had nothing to mysterious. But man is a social identity exists, all operations are affected by the social system and ethical guidelines. Feudal ideology long-term impacts caused by ignorance and prejudices rooted, "nature" was not on the issue. Lu Xun in 1934 wrote: "Mr. Science can't help with your children, they proved to him day and night, the road is not always like" Maung (snappy, a thought which rows "). Human relations between the sexes is a measure of the degree of civilization human civilization development level of scale. We want to have sexual scientific developments, be forward with Socialist ethics and scientific civilization to do away with the old concept of knowledge, new ideas. Currently have the following the error argument:
Introduction to the "No."
Believe the children, men and women's issues they naturally will know, without the need for education. This understanding is wrong. Adolescent children eager to know the nature of knowledge, and have certain requirements. But the child did not fully understand the nature of the moral norms to be followed. If you do not give a positive help, children will visit since "," may be directed to the wrong road. For this area without scientific knowledge, do not occupy the socialist morality, non-scientific, pornographer, low-level disreputable goods will occupy it. The reason is clear. As parents, teachers, if you seriously think about this question, it will shudder.
"Closed insurance theory."
Think men and women, closed to insurance. In fact, this is just a subjective desire, physical requirements and psychological changes is an objective existence, is closed. Moreover, because of the role of "reverse psychology", the more they closed more evoked the note and the pursuit, but is not the legitimate pursuit. Of course, some people know the closure effect is not good, but mistakenly believe that closed than not closed properly. They simply do not understand the role of education and guidance. "Closed insurance on" even "evoked positive education as" confused very necessary education and the limits of "induced", this is even more wrong.
"Emergency".
Is the universal approach, they may not "problem" that there was a problem to solve is still not late. This is "teach yourself" and "closed after the failure of insurance". Some people on the "problem" of children often take criticism of the way, the child does not understand, no sympathy. In fact, there is not a "problem", just the opposite of a nature between the draws, but some people have to go to cause problems. Once a problem is really trying to blame the children, are still not from painful consequences in understanding adolescence education important preventive role.
These arguments, the actual source is the same, just can't talk about problems, sexual problems can not say, sexual bondages and mysterious.
On the imprisonment of knowledge has a long history. Not only parents, teachers lack sufficient knowledge to help children, many of the medical staff did not have enough knowledge to help the masses and the patient.
Thus, if the old ideas do not break, sex and sexual ethics education cannot be carried out, the adolescent education cannot be achieved.
Developing sexual education must be serious, consider the effect, in line with the realities of sex education in China and the capitalist countries, in the introductory knowledge, focusing on sexual ethics education.
On sex education to adolescents in know how reproductive system of Anatomy, Physiology and developmental stages of various phenomena, as well as the physiological changes; but also to enable them to understand the behavior of Socialist ethics and meaning of self control and know how to correctly deal with sexuality is an integral part of Socialist construction of spiritual civilization. At the same time, also make them aware of sexual freedom in the West of decadent lifestyle, personal, social and national harm caused by.
In different age groups, unmarried and married persons need knowledge in specific content should be different.
On a small number of married sex life of the problems encountered by individual counselling to resolve. Knowledge presentation must take full account of the objective results, seriously engaged in. Due to the unmarried and married ' needs vary greatly, for text materials must be very careful.
Sexual education in China has had a good start, the family planning Association of October 1986 in Taicang County held a seminar on sexual education, Shanghai describes nearly 100 secondary schools for sexual education accomplishments; Beijing, Hengyang, Jinzhou, also describe them in schools and rural sex education experience.
All for sexual education units are achieved satisfactory results. The original object to the education of parents and teachers in listening to the introduction of sex and sexual ethics education content, are advocating this education evangelist. Some parents participate in class and school work. Students learned about content, to a certain extent eliminates the curiosity and anxiety and fear; self-esteem, self-respect, dignity and self-reliance of requirements and capabilities. Shanghai a middle school sophomore 170 men and boys in puberty education is not carried out, each playing before or who have dense exchanges account for 87% of the total number of persons, education was reduced to 3%. Many schools youth through "good first step," "Science heroes to students"And other educational activities that lead students to embrace the lofty ideals, to focus the learning success. According to Shanghai the first a 147-year students of the investigation, carried out before puberty education, 68% of inattention, the education of students in class after 92% of students are attentively. The students learned the reason to control her own feelings of desire is to mold their noble sentiments and start to do it.
Adolescent sexual education on hold
Pay attention to cleanliness, as menstrual supplies as shameful to disinfect, in a dark corner placement, to hide.
No girl students in physical education or work, sorry to say that their own holiday, so reluctantly, to engage in violent activities, or even take part in sports competitions. This increased menstrual disorders, dysmenorrhea, condition, affecting both the impact on health and learning. Serious is fear, bleeding or long-term amenorrhea was also a matter of parents and teachers.
In short, sexual education of importance and urgency, as well as missing required sex education severe consequences, yet aroused the attention.
Therefore, to the young generation's health and their future life and happy and sexual education is imperative.
The main elements of the sex education
Adolescence adolescent self-awareness, personality gradually formed stage.
They urgently need them this period features, giving care and assistance. They urgently need parents and teachers to help them open the treasure house of intelligent, guide them to think, solve problems and guide them to learn to live as soon as possible on the social, historic responsibility entrusted to them.
Puberty is life, and moral concepts forms a critical period.
Some people go after in acts on social or health problems can often be traced back to this period of absence of guidance for education and scientific knowledge. Therefore, this period of education for young people to embrace the ideals, the formation of correct moral concept, develop good organizational and learning ability, has a very important role. During this period the formation of the personality, character, habits, work style and deepest, often affects the lifetime. We have over 180 million students, help them successfully through puberty, give full play to the period of education can play a role in relation to the young generation of healthy growth, China's modernization of material and spiritual civilization. In socialist modernization of General layouts, Socialist construction of spiritual civilization has an important strategic position, and adolescent education will be the Socialist construction of spiritual civilization of strategic measures.
China on the ideological and moral education of young people are more attention, but in the ideological and moral education, ignoring the sex and sexual ethics education.
This is precisely the importance of adolescent education. As a result of the long-term effects of feudal awareness to issues as restricted to sexual equate with ugly dirty, as long as mentioned in issue would be blamed and even dare to speak of moral education. Due to the stresses of sexual morality cannot be abstract, must be based on scientific knowledge and social ethics, but this is not to say, thereby seriously affecting the ideological and moral education.
At present the situation of young people?, female adolescents with male features gradually clear at the same time, they also has psychological undergoing drastic changes.
From higher grade boys and girls between prone to alienate the emotion of that kind, started to change for specific interest and curiosity, like cause specific attention on their own. This naturally appear in contact between men and women, mutual or unilateral hug adore, write notes, whisper, etc. What this means in practice is just their sexual Misty period of a pure longing of the opposite sex. In this period they physically close to the rapid development, adult, and psychological childish, immature, emotionally sensitive instability, there is no coordination, imbalance. Them in this period are in great need of help for parents, teachers, to resolve these contradictions of disparate or to help them use reason to control or guidance of feelings. Due to their psychological is still very immature, so they put "I and Hello," "us", and so deemed to be in love. A middle class 42 students, is thought to have 12 to puppy love, in fact most of them are just "me and you", and there are several couples just because of the relatively close, while other students because they have a friend, just specify them is also "a". These conditions can only show the children in need of help, parents and teachers guide them to understand what is friendship, what is love. But parents and teachers are often surprised by this kind of friendship as a puppy, not ideological guidance, but accusations, repression of their normal intercourse, even harsh harsh attitude toward them, thereby causing the children antipathy, undesirable consequences. Parents, teachers ' motivation is, of course, for the sake of the children are good, but because of a lack of understanding and adolescent characteristics and heterosexual contact, that is "not good" old ideas, fails to give the right guidance. If during this period to help them understand the relationship between man and man, especially on gender relations on the code of conduct to be followed; help them exercise will, play to the initiative; and their vigorous energy can be directed to help their intellectual development and good character formation.
No adolescent education, practical is unchecked, the next generation of Socialist construction of spiritual civilization vital period in ignorance in easily placed in the past.
For the so-called natural tide adolescents, in an ideal, ethics, nature, to the loss is not seen. In fact this work not only need and will have very good results. During puberty occurs or another problem, though it was only a very few, but their severity was amazing. Recently, Xinhua (China daily) 1987 January 5) held in Beijing in juvenile crime seminar, sociologists and researchers urge parents and teachers to work together to create the best educational environment. Reports that the Beijing last year offenders in 22.3% is under the age of 17, which is student 42.8%. Less in BeijingYear juvenile 57.1% are students, most of them in 12 or 13 years old when they conflict with the law. Shanghai information indicates that the guilty of sex young, female, mostly in the 14-15 years old, male, mostly in the 15-16 years old. Result of crime is multi-faceted, but if you pay attention to the adolescent education, a significant proportion of cases that can prevent.
Therefore, sex education and sexual morality is puberty education vital components, must not be overlooked.
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