How to prevent sexual harassment of minors

　　

Teenage sexual disturbances are common in domestic and foreign, sociologists, criminologists will this phenomenon is called "campus sexual disorder," and "sexual disorder" in the Office. On girls for sexual harassment of people, often use dependencies or colleagues environment. Student sexual harassment on campus, mostly from the male teachers, neighbors and acquaintances. For this type of sexual harassment if not timely and effective exclusion, most likely developed as a sexual assault.

Junior students Xiao Liu has for some time has been felt very disturbing, original, she served as the math class representatives, and the Association of mathematics teacher Zhang, Mr. Zhang often after school will Xiao Liu left alone, sometimes the "talk", sometimes let Xiao Liu help registration results, start mathematics teachers often feel Xiao Liu hair, says she's pretty, Xiao Liu didn't mind, but then the math teacher not only talk, frivolous, speak some off-color language, but also began to grope, Xiao Liu was the seriousness of the problem, not only strongly resist and warned that if this is going to tell your parents and principals, which makes math teacher can't two-time.

After every math teacher called Xiao Liu help, Xiao Liu always accompany students. This, Xiao Liu attitude deterred math teacher, but also make the math teacher could not separate and Xiao Liu together, thereby effectively avoided sexual harassment from math teacher.

In the face of all kinds of sexual harassment, girl, the Xiao Liu, positive action to face sexual harassment prevention, even in the face of reality against sexual harassment also should let things be afraid, the mobilization of all wisdom, judge, judgment, thinking strategies, different strategies and measures.

The following anti-harassment proven methods for girls.

1. be vigilant, upright.

In real life, a girl in fully display their beauty, clothes, wearing a tan over-exposure chest exposed back or mini-skirt like costume; a girl wearing unusual behavior; girl and frivolous to hear compliments, flatter, praise, easy on the handsome men, rich people, celebrities, etc., at first sight, or deliberately show their youthful charm and so on, these girls can easily cause male sexual stimulation, eventually becoming the target of sexual harassment. If the girl to decency, can effectively prevent their own become objects of sexual harassment and sexual harassment in.

2. clear attitude and tell each other.

Girl in the first sexual harassment, should clear attitude to each other, this kind of attitude that way can be a silent categorically rejected, or is it clear beforehand, the requirements of the other focus their actions. Some girls repeated sexual harassment because of sexual harassment on the outside, noncommittal attitude and ambiguous, and some will touch your hair and face, some men and women, as a teacher, senior citizens, leaders like yourself, don't think that's discretion, reverse that, objectively speaking, strengthen each other's mental sexual harassment. Here you should tell the girl for sexual harassment, girls don't overly shy, with great courage and strong voice, take yourself to respond to the threat against intruders, and prevention of sexual harassment.

3. distant relation, reducing exposure.

When a girl found someone with hostile intentions, harassment, should take the initiative to avoid, as far as possible to alienate him reduce contacts and exchanges. You can also attempt to be sexual harassment of people suggesting that their hate attitude, you put your attitude that was explicitly rejected and firm, tell someone, you are very tired of words and deeds, if he insists on will have serious consequences, is detrimental to him. This may indicate their attitudes, but also to reduce and prevent the unnecessary trouble. If the teacher-student relationship, relationships, and other relatives and friends, it is necessary to continue to travel, should also be in public, to increase contacts between transparency and openness.

4. a fair comparison, not greedy.

Girl's own personal psychological and behavioral deficiencies can lead to their victims, to this end, the girl must respect and always pay attention to their image, note the Elimination of psychological and behavioral flaws, the most important thing is to eliminate small gains, especially ideological aspects to achieve pure upright, don't rely on color to get personal self-interest. For example, in the outside do not accept the invitation of the opposite sex, don't accept any gift of others.

5. dare to ask for help, to sever ties.

Was the harassment of girls should be timely to parents, teachers or reflect on the Organization, depending on outside forces to help each other, education, rely on friends and family of strength to protect themselves, and put an end to sexual harassment. At the same time, you can help other students, colleagues, mutual care, monitoring each other to protect themselves. Maybe some parents worried about her daughter in this particular environment and dependencies of the future will become sexual objects, or you can take the transfer, such as relocation, to sever the ties with each other, and fundamentally prevent abuse.

6. outwit, protect yourself.

Girls beware the misconduct of the adult male harassment, once a exception, timely reports for departments and staff. Out, especially in unfamiliar environments, if there is a strange men chatting up, don't ignore it. It is necessary to pay attention to those malicious trailing ' and, if necessary, the measures taken to avoid. For some unavoidable contact person, if it is found that he has sexual harassment attempts to take various measures to resist. If you reach a certain degree of sexual harassment, and girls helpless, or patience, you should report to the police, the criminal law sanctions.

(Practice editing: FUNG)