Ruthless or ignorance
The couple met in computer classes.
Mr. Lee is the monitor, who is smart, computer knowledge, hands-on practice, not girls classmates around him for help, his passion for people, who comes. On the eve of the examination, Miss Zhang at several laws of McDowell, Mr. Lee on her patient counselling, make her smile. Perhaps Miss Zhang who read a lot of "hero to save us" story, Mr. Li has quickly become the heart of the "Prince charming". The couple eventually wedded. However, shortly after the marriage, Mr. Li Zhang Miss impressions to a big turn 180 °. Miss Zhang said: "I didn't know that marriage, he is actually a selfish, ruthless. ”
Miss Zhang told the doctor that, in the process of making love, she is very caring husband, a note out of her husband's intention and State of mind, her husband's sexual response to what point, the next step is going to do, she would have a pretty good idea.
She said that when a husband and she hold, No 10 minutes, the penis would be erectile. She is very well aware of her husband's desire has been to draw, with the desire for sexual intercourse. She actively cooperate with her husband, the husband's satisfaction as possible. She felt that her husband should be like her, to his wife's sexual desire and sexual desire and sexual response to which step, there is a clear judgment. But to her dismay, her husband often she hasn't sex desire, have begun to sexual intercourse. She felt that her husband do not consider wife's sexual desire, is a selfish, relentless performance.
Mr. LEE has the feel of hard to argue.
He felt the sex life of the process is taking care of his wife's mood. In the life of each stage, he is in fact his wife did not oppose, to the next step. But his wife finally has said he "selfish, relentless," this is really a great wrong.
Mr. couples from the situation analysis, Mr. ruthless than ignorance.
The so-called ignorance, that is his wife's sexual response and knew nothing of sexual feelings. In sex, Lee thinks about his wife's sexual response, in fact, he always start from their own feelings, to determine the attitude of the sexual intercourse with his wife. Therefore, he made a lot of errors.
For example, Mr. Lee told the doctor that he was in life, first flirt with his wife, the wife of vaginal is to be moist, he having sex, and only when the wife did not object to the sexual intercourse.
Mr. LEE's examples, Mr. Lee on female sexual response characteristics of poorly understood. A normal female sexual stimulation of 10 to 30 seconds there will be only vaginal wetness as a sign of early sexual arouse, if only by vaginal wetness would take it that the wife made ready for intercourse, it is too arbitrary. Mr. Lee said that his wife did not object to the performance of sexual intercourse, also is one kind of ignorance. Some women, particularly female with traditional values, not willing to use language to express their sexual feelings, is not willing to identify themselves to the husband. There are a number of female sexual requirements were very vague, it can be said that even her own are not clear. Therefore, the husband to learn the characteristics of these women, we can really understand his wife's sexual feelings.
Listen to the doctor's analysis, the spouses are aware of their own misunderstandings.
Found the problem, the husband and wife living also gradually improve.
Manager's wife's sexual subordination
The husband of Mrs is a clothing company Manager.
In recent years, Mr. Liu's company has a great development, Mr. Liu's home are also rich. Neighbors are to congratulate Mrs. Liu, Liu's wife has said no difficulties.
On the one hand and "from Mr. Liu raiser", her mother was often praised Mr. Liu is a clever man of the future must do something, not when the Government is making a fortune.
Married, wife more than they think her husband everywhere, so carefully waited on her husband, her husband what on your own. Over the past few years, the husband as a Manager, became famous by can, Mrs scrupulous. She heard that some managers pockets up later, outside looking lover, so she is careful not to get upset by her husband, become an excuse for a lover to find out.
Liu's wife told the doctor that she had sex with her husband, she has a lot to worry about.
She felt that her husband and wife in sex for flirting time is too short, she hasn't entered a State of sexual intercourse with her husband started, she'd have it told her husband, even points out the necessity to extend my husband flirt time before sexual intercourse. But she is afraid that her husband on this discontent, even categorically rejected. Once she'd told her husband that she likes the stimulation of the clitoris, but she hesitated for a long time, and think of the husband that impatient attitude, loses the courage with husband exchanges. She is not afraid to tell her husband, she has been a long time without reaching an orgasm; to please her husband, she even pretend to achieve orgasm. Obviously, Mrs. Liu sex life, full of fear of being abandoned by her husband. The whole idea to consider is to suppress their own requirements, passively let the husband alone grasp of control. She is always in a State of subordination.
Who should read her sexual pleasure to assume responsibility
The doctor complaining of Miss Luo husband, married for two years, and I don't know how to care for his wife, his wife two years have never reached orgasm, husband doesn't know.
Doctors and miss a detailed conversation.
Learned from the interview, Miss a good dad, home of the great things he is father of deciding, from out of Guanxi to guests at home, from housing to sewing clothes, inside and out is an ACE. -Miss after graduating from high school, when the workers went home and also let my father gave her a shampoo. In the eyes of Miss, my dad is the backbone of the family, the father is a bundle of energy and conquer the world.
Robert Lady looking object, it is the father to model, to find one like her father then able man
。 Ms. Rowe and married to Sir, I find that Mr. other aspects to good, is the sexual aspects always could not make her happy. In the units, a few good little sisters asked how her to Mr., Ms. Luo said yes, but face always make people feel she has some sorrow. Little sisters feel a little wrong, but asked to ask ask not what results. Alas, such a thing-how to export Ms?
The doctor asked her husband to Miss Luo.
Mr. Xiang has a heap of trouble. Ms usually little Jack Rowe, home size problem to her husband out of my mind, these are hard not backward. But in life issues, there is no same Miss independent, I hope win this husband Pack to Mr. embarrassed.
It seems that in the eyes of Miss not only think making money breadwinners are men, and even sex lives became a man's responsibility.
Therefore, the validity of his own Miss stimulation is not concerned, not to care about their own sexual response, on your own requirements do not know, she's just long waiting for her husband to solve her problem. But the result is that she is disappointed. She constantly complaining that her husband, the husband feel wronged: what is wrong himself?-lady should be recognized that women want to have a satisfying sexual response, will play their own sexual potential, in life to have a certain degree of autonomy.
The doctor told Robert Lady, the wife achieve sexual pleasure, and not exactly husband, she did not take the initiative to seek sexual pleasure, but also a responsibility.
The consequences of the sexual yield
Europe is a pampered childhood Miss, Miss, desiring to her home.
Into the factory workers who after ceremonially knows her character, making her as little as possible, so more contributed to her big brat.
Miss Europe attracts factory engineer Mr. CHENG, first and foremost thing is good-natured, Mr. Zheng can accommodate her.
After marriage, Mr CHENG is also the sex accommodate her to make her happy.
Europe Miss quite content with that. But a long time, the EU found Mr. Zheng Miss on your sex life gradually lose interest, although he still try to make Europe Miss satisfaction, but I can see is very reluctantly. Because of her husband on the sex life of little interest to the wife's interest in sex are also reduced. Finally, Europe Miss and husband for several weeks after only one time. Miss Europe began to doubt whether her husband had an affair outside, but after some reconnaissance, also did not find any leads. Ms listen later ' girlfriends advice, went to consult a psychiatrist.
Doctor Miss listening to Europe, and later the narrative to her husband, Mr. CHENG.
Mr. Cheng said that the wife would like his before each time to make love to extend prior flirting and touch of the time, Mr. Cheng met her; his wife asked him not so quick to ejaculation, he also tried to do it. But the passage of time, he felt that this has become a fixed pattern, a very tedious mode. He also said that sometimes he after a long period of flirting and caress, already can't wait to request access to the intercourse, but his wife insisted he wait; little by little, he felt very tired, tired of this approach, therefore, he gradually such lost interest in sex.
Doctors warned Europe Miss, she hoped that her husband every time that accommodate her sex life, this idea is unrealistic.
Her husband is not a robot, his mental state and physiological status and not always to places are the same, even a yield to the husband, sometimes want to use their favorite ways to end sexual activity as soon as possible; in this case, the wife would not meet, unpleasant, but his wife should understand that. Couples not only in everyday life there is a mutual compromise, also in life there is an issue of mutual accommodation.
The spouses to each other's requirements have correct understanding, in order to maintain the harmony of marital sex.
(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)
