Mature sex woman summary of common principles

Master the sex of the learning process, often is not a single learning, not the occasional once learned everything, but is a series of observation, to try and improve the process.

Some women, the spouse is their most important sex teacher and mentor; another woman, through reflection and trial alone has their wisdom and skills. Their experience is diverse, but all over again-the same conclusions: learn to accept yourself is to learn the cornerstone of love, at the same time, their experience has the some common principles.

Make love not only the technical skills of the master?

Sara dew is a 30-year-old violinist, and Kevin married when she was 23 years old.

She felt that other people will have sex, she does not, in order for the husband, she read lots of books to learn the technique of sexual intercourse. She made every night at different sex positions, so Kevin may be satisfied. On the contrary, Kevin think somewhere out of the question. One night we frankly asked: "do you like and I have sex?" Sally dew embarrassed, thought after Frank said: "no, I don't like. "Kevin asked her:" you want me to do something to make you satisfied with the changes? "suddenly awakened, Sally dew point on their own in this respect, sex is just a stereotype in the book, write a program to do, and not in accordance with their own feelings, desires to do so throughout the process, their sex is too tight, too dull, did not enjoy the joys of nature. Later, they took during the lifetime of the active and passive manner, the woman, she completely forgotten ourselves, with confidence and enjoy the joy of love. The result was very satisfactory to both sides. By Sara dew to recognize a new philosophy: love and sex, lies not in what you do, but what you are feeling. The sex life of the model is not a single?

In addition to the night bed that regular sexual life, you can have all these impromptu, very glamorous life.

Sara Lucy recalls, one day after she had just shower, bath towel around his body, walked into the living room, Kevin is sitting on the sofa watching TV. At that time was unknown in a good mood, she would lie here Kevin arms with the intimacy of a private conversation, then fun like playing with him, a result attracted very enthusiastic to make love in the spring. Although entirely improvised, but exciting. Sara Lucy said: "I'm so glad because I see myself have started his charm. Things too. I had to break the conventional sex feel a little less, but Kevin said so well, that's great. This makes me a new sex life. If Kevin on the sex life slightly complained, I will always put this kind of diverse sexual mode of burial. ”

Although sexual education experts often advise people not to give his own life wore this or that "yoke", but some prejudices still hold many people.

Such as men must have sex on, is to have intercourse; sexual intercourse has to have an orgasm, otherwise is to lose, only vaginal orgasm is the real orgasms, and so on. These seemed to be "normal" elements of sexual intercourse, contrary to what is wrong with. In fact, these are not the spouse for each of the elements of each sex. "Sex life" has a broader, more content and mode contains unlimited joy, waiting for the spouses of exploration and discovery.

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)