The deficiency of sweat is
Wrote in his book, caused by depression in adolescence in love, in fact, in the 15% ~ 20% of young people will have early symptoms.
If the children become increasingly lonely, sleep, diet and behavior change, and so on, these symptoms such as persists for more than two weeks, it is best to take them to see a psychiatrist. United States experts last advice: youngsters not prematurely fall in love, should actively seek their own interest, hard.Recommended
To learn how to protect their own emotions
There is no doubt that at the time of puberty emotions become unpredictable.
Life's first turning point comes quietly. Young people are no longer kids, old life system began to disintegrate, must all give up, but the new system has not yet been fully established.When emotions become your life in a strange attraction.
You will not hesitate to this new generation of feelings of joy and excitement. But you will find that this feeling would in some cases the re-use of your emotions. You can completely buguanbugu to "love" in the name of the parties, who were treated to control himself.In fact, this is very harmful.
Cause: due to the development of the body, especially sexual maturity, puberty teenage body a great deal of energy savings, easily excited too, causing emotional imbalances; on the other hand, their nervous system is far from being mature, not be well control and regulation of emotions, so before that.The solution is: better for long Assembly slowly, but far not thirst by hydrolysis.
Now there are several ways: solitude, and their own emotional dialogue, accept their emotions, timely change their ideas. To his girlfriend or good friends instead of simply vent their grievances.Early sex impede love
Everyone thought that love to a certain extent can only be sexual.
However Australia young specialists Belinda-Hanford more definite answer: in love and sex too early, it will hinder you further fell. In order to be happy and healthy love, you need time to work together to disport, mutual understanding and learning to take care of each other.May you and your boyfriend when go to the step of variance, but you must work together to solve the problem.
Remember: a boy in love, he will love you more than his own, if you choose to take your time, and that he will be waiting for you.Parents give children who help the most
Parents are the ones who love you (maybe not the most understanding your person), with this in mind, you never know until you do the parents (this does not include dingkeyi family).
You would think from adolescence onwards until now and parental conflict; you also have the wrong place.Parents are experienced people, many of the things in life, but in a very similar outburst of adolescence, parents experience often become hinder rather than help.
You take a completely different life with their parents, but you will find that most people live a different life, few people have the courage to live a different life, but costly. As it turns out, despite the existence of the generation gap, parents are often give kids help most people.In fact, this is also the feeling with provable.
Parents sometimes play a thankless role: from mind on their own children have too much not scientific expectations; in spirit, too many self-sacrifice; physically, to racing and earn money.Imagine you can let the children a day in the life of their parents, to get the bus, going to work, to deal with complex transactions, returned home, there are the stem of the housework, and emotional aspects of children's experience.
And parents, try a day children's lives, learning, dealing with exam stress, parents, teacher of nagging scolding, adolescent body annoyance.Estimation of both parties will have a profound feeling, if with such profound experience of restoration of normal life, I wonder if life would become much better.
(Practice editing: Cheng Yu-Shan)
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