Of the first kind woman suffering from mental

First, expect a long-awaited baby at all times.

But on a small number of women who are not happy at the moment, even to the spirit and the body is. Listen to their inner feelings —

Lamps: the boyfriend and I nuzzle, boyfriend often spontaneously laments: "and you are really comfortable, but if one thing more, feeling perfect (perfect).

"I certainly understand what her boyfriend is, in fact, he has more than once to me too. And I have, despite heart finds him, but every time the "close combat" critical moment, I still can't help childhood neighbors big brother suddenly pulled out his furry, meat pockets of ugly things a curtain of nausea, I instinctively pushed her boyfriend ... Fortunately, I am very fond of her boyfriend, he said: I'm a good girl, he will respect me until her wedding night sweet. I really have the statements in which the suffering.

Famille: I am just over 19 years of age, due to the small farmers at home, physical practice using Bang-Bang, but I do not like other girls wazi, monthly to the "it".

But Grandma said that it did not matter that some women are going to come later, married perhaps. At that time, I wanted simple, not better, save trouble yet. However, last month to get married, get married, her husband got half a day, but you can only get in a little bit. My husband said that there seems to have things stand. What's going on?

-Judi: I'm a lonely girls, got married two years ago.

After two years, but little belly. There are three unfilial subjects, without issue. After the Spring Festival this year, the husband's parents finally laoshibajiao couldn't resist asking us down a good check on the body. Who knows, but is also checked. The doctor asked us what the participant, we answered truthfully, doctors hear immediately stared. We only know that we have never really been houses — with no knowledge of what we should think outside friction ejaculation is sexual intercourse. At that time, I wanted a hole in the ground, so that I go to in diamonds.

Doctor commented: according to the survey, the vast majority of women at once life is not satisfactory, and the discomfort and even pain.

But most women would soon be able to adapt to, but because of the spirit or a few physical reasons, delays in normal sex life and that seriously affect the lovers of feelings, or even cause infertility. These women mainly manifested in the sexual intercourse of fear, not insert, vaginal sexual intercourse painful cramps, etc.

1. sexual intercourse fear: refers to face sexual intercourse or is about to insert, you can't help but fear state occurs.

Show panic, anxiety and irresistible mood, as indicated in the lamps. They are mostly in formal suffered sexual intercourse before and spiritual combat trauma (e.g., rape, sexual abuse, etc.), or when the initial sex seen severe pain, a small number had not appropriate sex education, exaggeration of obscenity, pain and hurt himself said.

We have had such a patient reception, wedding month still does not have sex.

After each coating solutions, is embraced by her husband, her heartbeat, breathe, and stomach cramps pain, stiff limbs, then flung open the husband. After repeated carefully asked her in 10 years old, once on the way to school, has been a knife-wielding gangs hijacked to no one in the Woods. At that time, her fear, the pain almost fainted. So each time you have sex after marriage, she can't help but think of groin pain, outlaw of torn hideous face and clear. Understand the crux of the matter, we her many psychological counselling and guidance, and finally resolved the issue.

2. vagina spasm: when the penis into the vagina, the pelvic floor muscles and spastic contraction of vagina emerged, not more relaxation, with systemic stiffness, penis stuck to unplug, this situation is rare.

Mostly because the spirit is too tight, the wife plus insertion pain induced. Approach is a psychological treatment, progressive touch the perineum and the use of lubricants, if necessary, antispasmodic drug prior to use.

3. vaginal anomalies: including imperforate hymen, congenital absence of vagina, vaginal diaphragm, etc.

Imperforate hymen, during puberty, because the blood cannot be discharged, backflow into the pelvic cavity, abdominal pain, under a cyclical interval of time equal to the menstrual cycle. These women could not have sex, but the process is simple, just rows of Hymen incision.

Congenital absence of vagina, uterus or of a majority, not only have sex or reproductive capacity, such as ovarian function fine without any discomfort.

Practical manual vaginoplasty, to solve their sexual lives.

Complete vaginal diaphragm, blood cannot discharge that occurs periodically by abdominal pain; incomplete vaginal diaphragm, may be no symptoms, but just having sex with penis plug cannot be deep, color, may be the presence of incomplete vaginal diaphragm.

In this case, the possible diaphragm resection.

4. don't understand sex: like ' Judi, due to a lack of sexual knowledge, does not know how to have sex.

Previously, he has heard that someone at the navel, sexual intercourse, make out a big joke. However, in modern information society, this couple has been very rare.

(Editors: Yuan-Kee)