Five reasons not to go to bed and intimate

Every man wants to have a mate. But you are not considering your lady beauty is really just need a friend? woman tell you: why not put your buddy into bed with.

That night, my male friends xiaoliao caught me asked me: "come on, baby!" I do not know this is totally enjoy pleasure or the bottom of the crime.

In fact, the day we all drink too much. Also, when I was half-lying in his bed, only wearing a t-shirt with round neck and very short shorts. We are the friends of the Decade, living in the same city, often in together, it can be said is a young man, but this does not mean that men and women friends. I pushed him, "go away, you jerk ..." I refused, but no resistance.

In the morning, xiaoliao finally errors, he sat on the bed and started to curse his "I'm a pig!" depressed mood in Cadence.

"Forgive me. I'm just a man. ”

Pigs, men — no matter what, he has been kept xiaoliao oath, not touched me.

Fortunately, I and xiaoliao exceeded heterosexual friends ever since it is difficult to overcome in the trap, until today, we still would not go to bed's confidant.

It is true that men should not be looking for from a female friend of met.

We can offer your help is much more than that. After all, this world consists of two gas composition of yin and Yang, the so-called male thinking alone will not solve all problems.

1, with her eyes and see things

That means, you will get a more objective perspective of things.

A few years, I have many different types of woman talking about me and xiaoliao relationship. As a man, you feel very uncomfortable? in fact not the case.

"The men always questioned the woman answers, but never to think they are based on what position then said," gender relations have pointed out that, "If you look carefully, you will find high-resolution, girlfriend and female friends views very often are not the same, not lovers of woman would be more objective, this guy more power.

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2. you can want

And female friends talk is usually not secretive or having to hide your real ideas, and get along with his girlfriend in love great is a little different.

As a female friend that we love and cherish that feeling — sharing and assistance. At this point, sociologists and also early conclusion: women in non-lovers of the opposite sex friends benefit relationship, but in sharing, communication, and intimacy, the men than women have more, in today's society, on man's more favourable psychological support.

3, you will learn to listen to

Women love to talk, chat, and in particular their feelings and you stay with a very intimate and very pleasant.

Perhaps you might find annoying, but at least it won't make you feel than listening to your girlfriend bla more annoying. This time, you are accepting them on you are unable to use the value measured by listening to the training. Listen to a lot of important, needless to say, you know, but I guarantee that you will rely on the one hand in the future to win more sexy woman willing to accompany you to bed, and career success.

4, the chance to

Of course, not and female friends to go to bed, in addition to the man can get from a specific friend benefits, there are female friends that set of obstacles.

In addition, I have another xiaoliao "intimate" Jack.

There was a friend of mine asked him, "do you think she is great, she likes you. You two infants got quite good and is single. Why not come again?, "Jack said, some things if you do, just back to the past, he did not want our relationship only confined to bed. You know what I was thinking of? who try not just to meet my one moment you kiss me?

And 20 years ago, now it does not involve sexual relationships of the opposite sex friends generally much, apart from the opening of the cause, there is a reason why is because men are always confused friendship and love.

Maybe the girl was in love with you, but dull you don't realize that the time will love into friendship.

Want to let each other into sexual partners, the opportunity is gone.

5. you have been married to prepare and others/

Women are jealous love, has no place in the eyes of a third party, whether they are genuine goods girlfriend, wife, or already have a relationship with you mate.

If you are married, your mate is also possible to accept reality; if you are not married, but also no fixed girlfriend, hope that friends and relatives to introduce to you girl, you can ensure you confidant does not claim to be your "girlfriend," but rather "female friends"?

(Editors: Geng secondary side)