According to the survey of 2256 people, at present, China's wife in common psychological mistakes has three.
Myth 1: dedicated errors
This first performance on their physiological structure, function and reaction inadequate awareness and understanding.
In recent years, with the family planning and women's health care coverage, wife for contraception pregnancy and women's disease knowledge than in the past to increase a lot, but due to the limitations of traditional practices, there are still more than half of the wife didn't know women most sensitive sexual position, 40% of the wife does not know or are unsure what female orgasm.
At this time because of knowledge are difficult to obtain?
No, although married middle-aged women from time to time, murmured having sex, but the vast majority of comments on how her husband is, very few people talk about active learning of knowledge, scientific knowledge can be used to filter the privately circulated information (mostly false) of women is even more rare.
Why is needed but not learn?One of the main reasons is that very many wives think, now that I have fulfilled the obligations of dedication, he should take responsibility for contributing to the harmonious, in case of problems, has nothing to do with me.
With wife simply said: "this kind of thing, entirely met a good husband. "There will be increased to a" fundamental problem is the transformation of men. ”This pure devotion towards sex, at least may bring several adverse outcomes:
1, having a gross abuse of the husband, wife or even lack of inner power to resist, and lack of knowledge and of its changes.
2. a general sexual life not harmonious, wife easy too much excessive blaming her husband, but easily aggravate conflicts.
3, even though sexuality is smooth, simple dedicated wife also difficult to experience fun and value, but will produce a cold and distant.
This naturally also exacerbate poverty, eventually forming a feeling.4. even more harmonious, wife or lack of continuous improvement of internal power, if easily cause both sides of mental fatigue.
Myth 2: image errors
Traditional ethics emphasize the women have to be dignified, a plaster words will destroy the woman's life.
In fact, this would mean in terms of female sexual relations should be in compliance with social norms, but in the feudal of detention under the influence of many people it wrongly enlarge the couple's sex life, seems to be in specific acts, expression and sexual response, and the wife should not be rendered, or crazy, or is obscene. First page 1 2 3 next last
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