Thursday, December 30, 2010

How a woman 40 rulangsihu

This topic comes from one of my colleagues, she has this year 40 years old, one day she suddenly ask everyone: our age aspects of things into the inertia of the mass, in particular in family life, less clutter, more didn't change, everything is ticked, you suddenly realize that couples lack of them, like rusty many, understand, ask us what exactly source so?

Everyone and their mother.

Yes, a cross into the middle of this road, threshold, a unique sense of urgency will let you to.

If there are 100 m race last 30 rice flour, in order to achieve greater success, regardless of cause, wealth or any other purpose must at this stage do Sprint. So the vast majority of people buried in his work, even the day and night. Youth small couples that Kiss I I, attached end of life, even if they return home, still can not be separated from the Office of those who worry about things, there are in the mood to say what those lingering? family fun is decreasing, lighten, warm warmth and cold. Although most partners with pot more than 20 years of living together, nurture, and wife of sufficient to sustain a family all normal activities, but emotional wasteland was quietly extend.

Middle age, for most women, husbands in their life has become the spiritual pillar.

Therefore, they all previous failed effort to produce an ideal and comfortable family environment, and to the husband more relevant and interested in, but forge ahead with husband often turn a blind eye to this, even the occasional word of praise. They can't afford the time to accompany his wife to spend a carefree holiday, not even sit down and chat are rare non-Hun. Many family tragedy of seeds sprouting up in this way also.

Middle-aged people are at the crossroads of emotion.

Although the middle-aged crash family, will be able to successfully get rid of emotional crisis, emotional intimacy of mutual understanding. Therefore, the number of middle-aged couples often has no Nai in emotional wasteland suffer bitter for compromise. This reveals a middle-aged friends should be adjusted carefully.

Middle age, efforts to make health between husband and wife, is living a happy and successful basic guarantee.

The so-called health feelings through deep between partners, so as to achieve emotional satisfaction and sublimation. In the family, husband and wife of a party to the other party of the more profound emotion understanding, mutual feelings will be more healthy. The lover throw aside wrapped up work must not be incompetent husband or wife, and was destined to be affected by interference from the family. In contrast to the rich lovers but also to enrich your own life, sacrifice some time is worth it, and will be rewarded with bit.

Middle-aged couples should rethink their lives, to pay attention to the connecting link between the mind.

A harmonious and warm family will ironing due to age and tired of wrinkle and, in the middle phase, for the next stage of life to lay a solid foundation.

(Editors: Hui)

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