Working women are not married?

Celibacy as a social phenomenon that is increasingly attracted widespread attention. As for the single reason, it is not one or two words can explain it clearly. By following a few white friend's monologue, we might be able to explore the reasons for their choice of single-

Miss Zhang (a computer company sales rep):

I think, instead we called a "single women and men", it is better known as "single men and women" more appropriate, because no one can truly succeed in physically, spiritually lonely existence.

I am very disgusted with some of the media to a single as a trend to description. Now, there so many single men and women, and evolution of the concept, the concept of family life. Now young people are increasingly only on their own responsibility, all the code of conduct are self-centered (perhaps money mentality?), which become a responsible person. Such people, who are willing to put his life to his (her)? then is from married friends, relatives and friends of family values — — now many married men and women to marry Rue, always on unmarried friends big spit them out of the marriage. See this "terror" of marriage, who will dare to this fiery dance? "as a matter of fact, I think that men and women chose single (single), the most important thing is afraid of no freedom, tied down. Regardless of the cause of a strongman, life open, or "fleeting bitten by a snake, you are even rope" or double parallel lines-(not that you can't see you, she can't see you) are all more or less have such concerns. I think the next five years, do psychologists may be a very profitable business, because suffering from marriage phobia are their patients.

Leaf Lady (advertisement creative):

I choose single, first of all because I can financially and mentally are having to rely on men; and it does not rely on men, but can make me feel real.

I'm not advertised free, feminism woman, I just want to choose your favorite way of life. "Marriage," this word means that responsibilities and together, but I admit they are more vulnerable to temptation, when I find myself constantly influenced by the surrounding temptation, when I am not sure I can and when a person with me all my life, I would never choose to get married, I am not a person who is responsible for, nor does it need to be responsible for me. I have been very appreciated Karen Mok sentence the words: "love is the spiritual opium, or boring pastime at the end of the century. "I like the opposite sex friends. I will let love to equip themselves with increasingly empty heart. However, the marriage is like two boring game. Together with its two own a rather dull and boring.

Miss Hu (senior insurance agent):

I have no boyfriend (a boyfriend or sexual partners? to be elegant!) but I think it's single way for me.

I have long been the age of 30 and upright, graduated from University, have experienced too many people and events, no longer like a spring chicken; what love as believe. "Forevermore, rock-solid" zhengzheng oath, as if seeking only from fiction. The vanity of the world that everyone become a utilitarian, even the soul can never say transactions, more love and marriage. Sometimes looking at the opposite laughed brilliant boyfriend, I don't know if he is to me, or were otherwise figure to me. I'm not quite able to believe the opposite of the truth. Because sometimes I don't even own feelings are not sure, select single sometimes is a helpless.

Ms. Ling (a business clerks):

They say that woman is there a guarantee that such security is the economy and the children.

But modern women economically is fully capable of independent, but the idea of rearing old or young people who have been denied by now, the purpose of marriage is left? in that case, the single will be a better choice? especially like my character absolute polarization (extremely quiet, extremely crazy). Allow me to believe that a person could give life is very tired. With its future divorce to each other's minds and lives of trauma, now for self-protection and do what you want, make your own wants to make friends, do not have to go to meet other people's way of life. Live already not easy, why should also go to the pursuit of a hypocritical way of life?

Ms. LI (a foreign enterprise sales manager):

I had a failed marriage.

The setback in my mind for the next big shadow, long gone. My ex-husband is my college classmate, zhigenzhidi. Once batai, part of us that no one expected to divorce. I chose single, because now people are too difficult to figure out, one by one the reality. You think that I and my ex-husband then solid emotional foundation can be destroyed, but never said to go to someone else.

Miss (a foreign staff):

Celibacy is not a mistake, it seems to be understood as bitter words with music advocacy.

Perhaps to some extent, it is mixed with pieces of real life. With the development of the society, more and more people live alone, gradually developed a unique living environment. Particularly those from the men's rights under the yoke of the liberation of women, increasingly felt the value and importance of its independence, the temporary celibacy also became the currently preferred way in life. Perhaps there are some people in that unique inadvertently voluntarily became the team. Single men and women seem to be enjoying the fun of single life and liberty, the pressures of life also in different degrees, in the life of his (her) to be more rational to use"Career and family is at the same time," the problem. Although sometimes have worried and afraid of real-life epidemic "contagious," but in the face trying to escape the siege to withstand pain situation, the single is also considered a panacea. On the men's single, people often give an understanding of sight and thousands more plausible reasons. And more single women were, apart from bitter to sweet and sour in the cold and warm buffet self-knowledge, also have to take out a lot of energy to resist unwarranted pressures and those not treated fairly. Most single female career, become the envy of strong women. But for this kind of envy, and some women will be transformed into a dynamic, gradually become a living landscape in another pieces of fragrant roses; while another part of the temporary single women envy envy, five thousand years of tradition, still expecting somewhere that seems to have been arranged in strong and warm haven Bay. As a single, I hope that God will give the single women this strong. Because, with a strong heart and strong willpower, to have no regrets in life.

Through the above several white friends of monologue, it is not difficult to find, create single were there so few: busy career fighting but have no time to marriage, Merry, divorced, fear of being hurt again; tired parents arranged marriages to celibacy as a means of protest.

Celibacy as a social phenomenon that is quite normal that people should not be with colored glasses to see single men and women, and the spirit and flesh pale marriage do transactions, lack of passion zombie marriage, popular crazy fights marriage, I prefer single!

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)