Man: it's both fall in love with two women?

"He said, he fell in love with another woman, love can this really be? men fall in love with two women?"

A woman crying out to psychological experts so. Her husband told her that he fell in love with another woman, however, he still loves her.

Start the second motive of emotion

In fact, when he had the second love, he also hoped that her maintain that good children, parenting; and when he does not love the smooth, or the woman is not affected by him complete control of the former, he begged her not to divorce.

In short, he wants to make her understand that it is not his fault.

Many married men, requires two or more women, so as to make them feel safe.

More married men, neither be able to handle light marriage, nor can properly respond to new ladies cut — and two women in love, he seems to be very difficult, and one part, and the marriage with another.

Not like two women men

Can be concluded that such a man unlikely love two women, or don't love any woman.

Obviously they sexually attractive to many women, hope they care about him, then to him — he will his libido or sexual needs to be understood as "love".

However, he does not love a woman

These men of emotions (emotions blog, emotional about it), had not consistent with what reaction mode.

They will not take the initiative to solve this triangular relationship, nor does or does not wish to use extra energy to the development of two love. They are not mature narcissistic mental, fear and women produce true romance. He would rather have a mess of the bed, even though no woman had to sit back and enjoy as an honest partner and establish a relationship of equality, intimate and tension ordered life.

On the wedding and a thorough understanding of the woman

For many men, they are most afraid of things in General is trapped in a happy marriage.

On the one hand, they fear with a see through his partners share life, on the other hand, they did not want to give up a think of themselves as heroes or baby woman. When the reality of life so that they do, they always tried to run away and lead a youth's free and easy life. Nevertheless, they might not strong enough, or not enough courage to really run away. They often dream of love dream of their own, like a cannot be separated from the mother of a child, they always want to get enough comfort and a sense of security.

In his wake before, as his wife to stay at his side could help him, but if he thinks he can love or being in love with two women, this is meaningless wishful thinking.

When he saw their real essence, he has been hurt into his life of women.

Man does not select difficulty

In the middle of two women, he would not be difficult to choose which one woman, because they are attracted to him and make him afraid.

When he had two women, he feels safe and meet, and when he and a woman to get along, he very lack of self-confidence, and thus very restless. In fact, he needs is the psychological counselling, not a woman.

Men and women must understand that a man in love with two women, regardless of which party uses the word "love", there will be potentially misleading.

Remember, love is not just a general feeling, but also their pay and mutual attachment, as for the "love is a selfless devotion", then perhaps it's just a great talk.

(Practice editing: Chen Dong ping)