There are differences between men and women libido by adjustment of harmony and happiness

There was a man said to me: "I am married with wife for 16 years, life has been very enriching, but sex is always not really happy that the problem is always my first initiative, but she never active too.

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The husband described is exactly what many of the experts refer to as the "libido differences" phenomenon — when a party has shown a very strong sexual desires and the other party has not, party to the enthusiasm and the other is the opposite.

A typical example is an engineer and his wife, the engineer libido exuberant, hate not having sex every night, every time I had just finished with his wife and immediately want to love the next time when you start.

While his wife you want each month had passed the 3 ~ 4 times in life, like many women with low libido, sex is only over a long period to be excited.

"In the first 15 minutes, I have a hard time excited.

"She told me:" I simply do not know that they like or dislike about your sex life. "It is what causes the differences of gender sexual desire?

Some experts due to physiological factors such as marital problems, when the repressed sexuality education.

Although these factors will have an effect on the libido, but does not fully explain the differences between male and female sexuality, sex hormones, in this context, also play a role. The researchers found that men and women have the same hormone secretion, just a different number.

Testosterone has long been considered a male hormone, in fact, it stimulates libido in men and women work.

The amount of testosterone secretion in men than women high 11 times more, this is perhaps the more exuberant male sex drive. The female body in testosterone on sex drive is also having an impact. In a 30 female survey, researchers found the secretion of testosterone in women, the more the more strong sexual desire, sexual excitement keep longer.

But most couples sex hormone secretion normal correction their libido differences? first will strive to shorten the awareness on this issue.

Many couples sex differences stem from different perceptions on sex, in fact, when the spouses learn each other's ideas, they usually own the previous ideas to a big change.

A 34-year-old's massage therapist, she gave birth to her first child after lost interest in sex.

She and her husband finally simply had a conversation about the sex life of Frank solves this problem. She has however as easy sex as holiday, while her husband is normally considered sexual life not only his physical needs, but also involves psychological factors.

"If we have a period of time not having sex," he told his wife, "I feel that not only are you isolate it, and it was around isolated.

"Since that conversation, this new mothers become more willing to have regular sex lives," since I know our sex life after her husband what it means, I am more willing to have sex with him. ”

You and your spouse or you can restart your sex life and beauty, the following method may be useful to you: on the advice of the strong desire to be more loving someone you love each other more, he (she) sexual desire will be more strongly, more orgasm.

To learn to adapt to each other if someone like y'know during the day, you may not have any inconvenience, but the other will receive more sexual pleasure.

Transfer a surfeit of attention when you full of energy, libido every day is too strong, you can look for sex outside of grievances, through other channels diversify their energy may be able to eliminate you and your spouse differences in sexual desire.

With a loving look at each other not to artificially reduce the other's desire, and sometimes changes in libido is fatigue, older and less sex hormone secretion.

On the low libido, advice through our own efforts to stimulate the libido and sometimes each other is not possible to do everything, but you must inspire their libido. For example, wearing a sexy clothes, and the other a hug or Kiss, because of your lack of spontaneous sexual desire, so you should learn how to stimulate it. Through these efforts, I believe you will find excitement.

Carefully snap the feeling of sexual impulse because you don't like each other that will soon have a strong sexual desire, look and feel of the continuity of the slightly when you feel sexual desire, want to hold it don't drop; or find their own sexual impulse of cycle: in the day which, when exposed to sexual desire? in what place?

After you hear anything? or bubble filled with foam bath time? carefully catch these information and guide them, and you will easily impulse.

In the search for appropriate life love low libido opportune time many people once you taste the pleasant after sex, becomes like making love, the problem is that they don't have a lot of motivation to make a sexual impulse.

To resolve this problem you can only select certain special best of time caused by sexual desire to have sex.

To their own confidence if you are willing to meet each other's requirements, will stimulate your sex drive, this indicates that you are a lovely, ready to give in, sexy couples. Believe that you and your partner will create a long beautiful harmonious sexual relations.

(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)