Couples: sex sensitive topic

Couples should often communicate on sexual issues, but because of differences in perception, psychological factors, many of the problems or are unable to reach or to speak.

Following several sensitive issues you will encounter? let us come together to listen to the doctor's answers and recommendations.

First, although the husband to make every effort, but I still have sex after a loss.

Do I have any error?

No problem.

To many is not very good. Men will instinctively know how to do it, but women are too embarrassed to ask her husband which parts need to touch, when the husband has not been done, they will be very disappointed.

In fact, you can tell how should he, or unknowingly guide his hand touch you desire to touch the sensitive parts of the body, and express your pleasure, encouraged him to continue.

This kind of interaction for the benefit of the husband and wife living in harmony.

Second, I had kids, the husband will love me?

Wife, husband lost production and "turn" is quite normal, but fortunately this process is very short, which is a few weeks.

This does not mean that his wife in their eyes losing attraction, chiefly on the wife's considerate. They know that his wife had just experienced a pain, do not want to put pressure on it. Psychologists believe that this time, the couple to focus on children is very natural.

However this special stage will soon be a thing of the past.

Communication between the husband and wife, it is particularly important that the wife should not only take care of the baby, but neglected to her husband's care and warmth. Otherwise he would have been "abandoned" feeling.

Third, the book says the average sexual frequency as husband and wife, 5 twice, but we have a few months before having sex, we have a problem?

There is no.

Sex frequency varies from person to person. Each couple will experience the life of a clone. Sex has intermittence, suspended, when hair now. This is mostly caused by external factors, such as the economic constraints, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, children, and even some disturbing subtle psychological changes will also have an impact. The so-called warm thoughts sex yi said it is this reason that you can't be in stock when there is interest in making love plunge.

4. If the kids see us making love will not be very scared?

It is best to avoid letting children see.

Because it may cause their sexual awakening of consciousness, and the children imitate adults do sexual game. If you really can see, it is necessary to carefully explain to children, told him not a cow, this is the expression of love for all. Never attempt to tell him only a man can do it, it will provoke his curiosity.

5. the way of making love will be harmful?

If you are in some way, then there would be no danger.

But don't take you feel uncomfortable or hurtful ways. For example, oral sex or anal intercourse must carefully and pay attention to the health or cause harm, caused by the disease. Some female libido in menstrual period when excessive restraint exuberant, but useless. As long as the attention to health, time not too long, there would not be a problem.

The short edge sex and sexuality, the edge is sexual attraction between the sexes, the expression of sexual needs and motivation to neither want to hop behavior.

As gender sexual intercourse, have attracted the tendency of the handshake, conversation, the man in love, couples with sexualised temples and every mill.

(Practice editing: Chen Dong ping)