Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Love addiction: difficult to say the temptation

Love addiction is often repeated collection of heterosexual-used items, and items as sexual excitement and satisfaction of the only means of phenomena. Most patients are male, female patients, mostly heterosexual, occasionally can be gay (both proportional 78: 1) to see, even with a glimpse of sex acts.

Case Tip: starting from 15 years old, I have been a desire — to the world of the tampon is put into my house, every night pillow with their beautiful, fragile, delicate white body to sleep.

It gives me pleasure, beyond the woman body brings me happiness. Many years passed, and now I have a career of the man. Can I still love the pads, I love them more than the love of all ... Unbelievable taste 15 years old, my favorite, like class a quiet girl. Her name is Li Ching, and I was at the same table. Her micro-volume hair, big eyes, skin, in my mind is an Angel.

Although we are very close, but as few as strangers.

I would like to get close to her and tell her I love her, but I have not the courage. Every day I would Li Ching didn't come to the classroom, wipe her table and stool. As long as the Li Ching a smile to me, can I get tangled up with excitement, happiness filled with his own body. That day, she and I were on duty, room left me and she, in her seat, too caught up with homework. After a while, I hear Li Ching cried, face ran up shy of mortification: "Oh my skirt" I turn aside, saw her skirt with a red piece of blood. Li Ching distress bewildered, anxious face drips down to tears. I see her this way very distressed, you do not know how we can help her.

"You can to help me buy a tampon? at the school gate, I cannot go.

"Li Ching looked at me and almost cried out. I hesitate to ran out, ignoring the embarrassment that sell directly to the aunt bought a pack tampon. Aunt gave me a light green, soft bag, I put it in the bag quickly and then run back to the classroom. I put the bags and gave Li Ching, and then take off your coat, used clothes cover her body behind her to the bathroom. At that moment, that white is called "tampon" thing in my mind made deep overweening. After graduating from junior high school, Li Ching with her mother to settle abroad. I entered the city's key high school, but always think of Li Ching, then think of the soft pads of purity, could have to go to the supermarket to buy many of the tampon. I successfully entered your favorite college. After college, I did the first thing is to find a variety of reasons to hold school dormitory. Then the teacher row however, finally accepted my request. I'm in a school not far from the place rented a room, there are not too many.

Since then, I love the tampon is not more.

I'm not content to just hold a tampon to sleep, I would like to have the whole room filled with sanitary napkins. So, I converted to various supermarkets, time and again to purchase separately. Fear of the encounter, so I often skip class, or wait until it was too late to buy. I did find a girlfriend, because I can't get rid of this unusual hobbies, I often feel that pain, want to seek help, but always unable to say. Therefore, more often, I can only one face of the euphoria of bewilderment and confusion. Expert comment:

This love of the General subject to sanitary pads for social and cultural environment, the psychological abnormality and lack of sexual knowledge, curious and awareness of certain issues.

This is not a boring show, but a sick immature sexual symptoms of psychological metamorphosis, namely Psychiatry called "love addiction" of mental illness. This disease mainly manifested in the often repeated collection of his favorite things, and as a result of sexual excitement and psychology meet. The vast majority of the male patients, General first to sexual development. Conditioned reflex behaviorist, love addiction initially and cause sexual desire in women there appear to be obtained separately later. This article was initially the main character like tampon is and the 15-year-old caused his sexual impulses of female companionship, only then he alone holds tampon is also capable of generating excitement. For those who love the psychological addiction, it is first necessary to be able to face up to their own illness, frankly accepted formal counseling and therapy, can bring about an early out of love addiction and the shadow. Love addiction characterized 1. try to collect their preference of specific objects. At the risk of theft, reputation, risk of future bleak, unceasingly searched, if he can not get these things, they will produce anxiety and mood.

If there is a college student, has ever stolen over 100 female underwear.

In the early love addiction, occasionally stealing phenomenon, from time to time, taking advantage of steal a dark and no one, to clothesline to go down. When love addiction developed to the extent that theft would become the regularization, every day is going to steal a time, or you feel uncomfortable. Last King to lose your head, broad daylight through one girl's dormitory, grabs some underwear, the result was caught. He will be stolen female underpants are knitted on number and cut a small hole in the Middle, at the side of the text written on obscenity. 2. love addiction patients on specific itself of no interest to libido specialized links to articles. As for these articles is what people are irrelevant. While normal fetish psychology is on the contrary, is a kind of "love".

3. patient's side touched, look, smell them, in a variety of ways to reach the climax of music.

As some patients in masturbation or intercourse also with these items. 4. love addiction is a habitual behavior. And suffering from' Stealing of fetish and psychology is quite complex, contradictory, no catch, often feel anxiety, tension and anxiety, once successful, although the psychological being met, but often also from hate their own behaviour and self-reproach, remorse, depression, pain, inferiority psychological conflicts. Therefore, often have to turn over the heart, no mistakes.

(Editors: Mr Chow Yick-WA)

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