How to adjust the sexual impulse in adolescence

When young men and women by friends become lovers, especially into attractive excited, sweet and happy amatory stages, the boys often forgets himself, it seems that everything around, there's only a love of hot and feelings of euphoria.

And beloved girl interdependently, two love Valentine, Cece, meaning a spongy, lads easily produce sexual impulse.

Sexual desire is a specific target trend unit inner strength, is a normal phenomenon of sexual psychology.

Men after puberty, hormone secretion, constantly physiological function of a catastrophe, the reproductive organs and their functions in speedily maturity.

Love, and sex-related perception, emotion, memory and imagination, unusually active mental activities.

Girl's eye teeth, slim figure and aromatic atmosphere, in short, the girl to the young man of vision, taste, hearing, touch, smell brings all the excitement was aroused his sexual impulses.

If you put feelings than do oar, the reason is the rudder.

Only the agreeable, love boat to reach the other side of happiness. Premarital man encounter may it is this ability to "manage".

Sexual impulses sparking waves, makes the guys lost, confused, or even "boats" subversion, stranded.

Only the strong will to calm the waves, young man, sail.

Premarital sex is romance is contrary to social ethics of deviance, its love of development is very harmful.

One is the premarital sex is the wrongful conduct.

In our country, sex is a statutory right of the husband and wife, is an important part of the conjugal life, it must be legally protected, will never be anything between a man and a woman can easily occur.

The second is the premarital sex easily lead to frustration.

Love the future, or lovers Jill, or have parted ways. If a sexual relationship, once there is a Don Juan in search of new, or because of some other reason but to break up, it will cause the other party and the fight against serious setbacks. On the woman's youth, will bring more pain.

The third is the premarital sex can cause both sides of the psychological disorders.

Players tend to be in tension, promoting State to have sex, and in most cases, the young lack the necessary knowledge, this kind of sexual life is very difficult to talk about happy harmony.

Not only can cause the wedding night sex fun, lets have some girl on life's not normal views, such as that sex is a pain to maintain cleanliness, unhappy, and sexuality have tired of fear, resentment, and resulted in frigid, affect the normal sex life after marriage.

If you accidentally pregnant, and will bring the parties into an awkward situation, early abortion even though security, but after all, will give the girl brings physical and mental pain and loss, some dangerous complications can result. Fourth is the premarital sex may result in married life.

Some guy holding the "anyway, the future is the idea of" husband and wife, no registration of marriage to have sex with the girl.

But after the girl's trouble getting exposure, Guy aggrieved became the "health meter" cooked rice, regret or too late, reluctantly get married.

Similarly, there is a girl in the man under lightly sweet bow to each other, although it is not ideal, to take into account the reputation, also had to make compromises, and yoked.

This lack of marriage, is not happy.

Then the young man in love how to adapt their sexual desire?

First of all, you should get rid of the "nature" of mystery.

Due to historical reasons, people talk about "sexual" in the pale, "sexual, pornographic or" thinking in some deeply rooted in the mind. So, young men should read some introductory knowledge of a book, enhanced restraint capacity of sexual desire, reduce the "compatibility" of mystery.

Secondly, the young man will exercise should be strengthened.

Sexuality, to adopt appropriate measures for reminders, implying that his, to relieve the sexual impulse. In addition to and girls showing love, and she attended together with some useful social events and recreational activities to distract attention from towards sex, make love. You know, true love, should be "mutual respect and noble, not only is the emotional impulse and impulse". In love, understanding, caring for each other, give the charm of a new passion, to use reason to measure depth of passion. A non-sexual love of wide range, so his erotic more noble.

Third, and the girls get should be appropriate to reduce excessive plays if fate and the intimacy of the action.

From Physiology, touch, Kiss, hug, the easiest to stimulate men's sexuality. So, the boys want to be good at self-denial. As Sara soil than Asia said: "love and the same carbon, burning have managed to make it cool. Let it any combustion, it will put a heart burn. "Because of the sexual act is involved on their own responsibility, also means responsibility for others, the more impact on society. Love will control level is a measure of love is mature.

Fourth, the proper use of masturbation.

The young men in sexual passion, stage reached "fanaticism" and not be able to control, as long as masturbation as a hobby, and does not endanger others and society, it is regulated and divert a sexual impulse response method.

(Practice editing: Cheng Yu-Shan)