Sex life in six major burden mentality

According to the information that the divorced persons, about 40% for sexual life not harmonious and completely lost husband and fate, integrated experts of sexual health knowledge, compare, you sometimes feel that sex is a burden? 1. do not push partner row copulation.

Men's and women's sexuality has some differences, and individual sexual ability will also increase by age and natural attenuation, and this is, of course, libido is also affected by work, emotional, health, men's and women's libido differences always exist cannot require consistent partner, otherwise you may make one becomes machinery, long time of losing "the turn".

2, the law and do not have to be too rigid and sex.

Sex too law into the "system" and scheduled, quantitative, Sentinel, etc, are too rigid or sexual intercourse, sexual life become angry, excited degree is not high, and even make your partner feel bored, sex is a kind of meeting between husband and wife, and easy to bring your partner to have a sense of tension and stress.

3. do not often get sex jokes.

Couples sex will always be explicit signal to the other party shall respond positively to the open points on the sex joke can add fun, but be moderate, as always in emitting erotic on inappropriate signals, like the "Wolf", real sex, the partner may misconceptions and jokes aside, causing conflicts, love and desire.

4, having sex after bathing.

Genital mutilation, sexual health is important, the former spouses should clean the external genitalia, as just after unprotected intercourse, bathing simple clean lines, and you have your own sex, always after rushing into the bathroom or request partner immediately wash may therefore lead to a lot of unhappiness, the lack of "sex", after playing will show are the quality.

5, can not be too much for a new challenge to sex.

Couples having sex in the open today become more alive, many have seen the "adult movies" or describe the details of the book, sex will inevitably want to try that might make life more interesting and more happy. However, be aware that different concepts of the husband and wife sex, if partner on this very difficult to accept that they will pay attention to maintain consistent, or excessive way taken gradually change slowly, otherwise it will enable partner thought, wondering even unpleasant, but do bad things "good."

(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)