Secret: the women really want?

In ordinary life, many women have been fighting a happy label: they are precious to her husband, pretty boy and flourishing career.

Some women don't even need any cause, as married good enough without having to worry about others, inside and out, they have more than the ordinary person can own time and money. However, they are still a lot of people feel life shortcomings, always want to change something. United Kingdom feminist writer Lucy · Calvin DIS recently published a new book, the pursuit of happiness ", trying to explain the problem.

Missing on the life of the passion

Women really want? the vast majority of men in the world are asking this question.

Women every day, ask yourself: "I? my life what places make a mistake?" men want to please a woman, but always demanding thankless: buy a birthday present, dinner not woman, buy underwear not yet a woman like style. At the same time, the woman who looks at her life always think: "life must not be like this. "Even those who seem to have everything woman, ask yourself:" why do I feel life is boring? why am I unhappy with everything? why am I on a daily basis because such discontent and struggling? "

Many of their own destiny, not satisfied with the women, are on their own expectations too high, but in reality it is difficult to reach.

Just like a few days ago my friend Claire said, "over the past 40 years, I have been trying to figure out who you are, your really want. Now I understand, but I'm not sure whether this is what you want. "Many women complain that they want to do more, the less satisfied.

They want to look after the children, family, cooking, cleaning, to be kind to your partner, to entertain friends, but also to allow energy to meet the requirements of the husband.

Weekdays, they always feel exhausted. Very often, they feel that they have no access to other people, even strokes and troublesome. You can buy for the woman of the world's best cars, the largest diamond, however this does not help them make the tired tired of feeling. Material things change does not come to life's passion.

We had many people thought escape? I used to think, only those in order to survive and to clenched every penny to do their best to maintain the balance of female will be satisfied with life.

A few years ago, I was a single mother, once in the supermarket shopping, since cash paycheck while credit card also exceeds the limit, I have to put all the merchandise back to back on the shelf. At that time, I wanted to cry, let the tears scour all the frustration and anger. At that time, I was alone, no one loves the fighting, nor the strength to love, but also as a bottle of milk and prudently — all of this makes me feel so tired.

I do not dare to go to Sunday in the Park, they look so happy.

Sunday for single parents who are lonely. I saw happy beautiful mother and handsome father and the children play and thought, "what my life would not be like this?" then I firmly believe that these cherished, pairs of people is the embodiment of happiness.

Just want some changes only

Then one day, my busiest in North London, a Starbucks coffee, meet some pretty woman.

Their hair beautiful skin smooth, elegant, a look at is the kind of woman happy.

From their talk, I learned that they just send their children to expensive private schools, and later also go to yoga classes.

Watch their no modification nails, ordinary casual wear and one does not have any hair style speak of hair, I was really upset of taste. At this point, they complained that the sound came suddenly.

They complain about life and everything — their Nanny is no order, cleaning fees are so expensive that marital life is so boring.

"I almost see her husband's face.

"A woman said:" he's a workaholic. "Another woman nodded.

"I saw her husband, he was too tired to speak too lazy to say.

"The third woman said. Just nodding Lady also agreed.

Next, they began to discuss how they are being appreciated.

A talk to the topic, they will never end. They say that the husband no longer cherish them, love them, they have lost interest. Some people complained that her husband could hardly understand themselves.

"I want to be more than this.

"One said. Perhaps they don't want more, but would like some different things. To conclude, these women feel life lifeless and feel abandoned and lonely. Wonderful and easy life — they used to think this is what you want, in fact is not that they really want. When weekly tennis, massage, nail beauty of life practice, everything becomes ordinary.

Preceding this lady went on to say that she had been infatuation a construction worker.

"I was curious about the way of life. "She said," sometimes I really want to walk away with him, because I do not know what they need on top of that. ”

Why do we confused what they want?, perhaps, that is, human greed is endless.

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