Nine measures will allow couples to bid farewell to the "seven year itch"

Many couples married for years less importance to dress themselves to attract each other, previously not found shortcomings will be rendered without any reservation, it is easy to lose on each other's freshness and expectations.

This is the great harmonious couple life, long down potential crisis will make people think that dull. So, after marriage, more attention should be paid to appropriate cosmetic appearance, beautiful and sometimes demonstrated occasionally wild million amorous, in "bed" dress or sloppy.

1, mentality of adjustment

In everyday life and his wife to remain cheerful, philosophic, and maintain a sense of humor, but not spirits, depression, closed their own.

Communication with each other, enhance understanding and love, so as to establish additional amenities.

2. implicit language Exchange

Appropriate language, you can let the spouses feel his importance for you; and spouses on sensitive private topic closely exchanges, such as "when will you will have an orgasm?" "

You on the most sensitive parts of the where to? " And other issues will make each other produce reverie, which in turn is stimulated. But pay attention to the language and the environment warm and privacy, language and expression to true and sincere, language and tone never too far, if there is no implied to be clever.

3. strengthen the spouse of the olfactory stimulation

Whether male or female on olfactory stimuli are extremely sensitive, do not let the unpleasant smell defeated the "compatibility" for this trait, appropriate spraying is not too strong but very warm and seductive perfume, allowing spouses to soul dreaming about this on two emotional exchange between people and the close relationship necessarily benefit.

4, all-round physical intimate contact

Both birds according lyin ' people in each other's arms, or boldly embraced, is a good way to seduce, so that spouses have conquered and occupied you might desire, thus increasing the other's desire.

Of course, physical contact should include the various parts of the body, such as head, hands, legs, feet, etc., you may be in an unexpected place found spouse "nature" sensitive points and inspire each other more "nature".

5, to less than many

Married for many years the number of couples sex it is inevitable to make adjustments, not compulsorily and their frequency of sexual intercourse when married not complaining, but should be more focus on quality.

"Mini don't win wedding" is a high quality of life of the couple's feelings about how important it is.

6, sexual skills useful to try and explore

Most couples may take a long time only one or two fixed positions to the participant who has always been active, long-term down more easily cause sensory deficiency, so you can use female host, back into place and lateral position, let the wife to try to do Active side, both sides are easier to reach the place of meeting; change sex, consciously in the living room, sofa, rug, or hotel stay; short conjugal separation, or you can reach the small don't win wedding.

7, accept no longer "very hard" penis

In fact, for most couples, the erectile hardness as long as they remain at 60% ~ 70% can meet the needs of their sex life.

In addition, men penis such "make people unhappy" changes may also be extended when time and improving the quality of life. Keen will realize a couple is the secret.

8, to slow more rapidly

As man continues to mature, the rhythm of sexual excitement and the sexual intercourse speed gradually slows, the climax of the time.

This change from seemingly reduced sexual ability, in fact it makes man and wife of sexual excitement process more close, easy to make the fascinating step of husband and wife. This wealth to slow actions on emotion's wife more attractive and easier to burn up the wife's enthusiasm, you can make a man feel to each other after the great joy and pleasure.

In fact, "a seven-year itch" issue, couples each other should calm down, a careful analysis of the cause feelings of indifference and the reasons for the failure of sexual life within the family, and make the necessary adjustments that might work.

These collaborative treatment measures in order to love, is a true litmus test of the couple, but they also really close couple emotion and feeling "nature" of a "cure-all" that many couples will appreciate. This trick "100 trial of sorts," most couples will gain lasting happiness, which in turn makes life more colorful.

(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)