Surprised! husband unwilling to disclose the secret of sex

Although men having sex more often on the initiative, to play a more active role, but you can know that man has refused to reveal the secret of "sex."

As a wife, husband's sexual secrets understood, to add to the boudoir taste is undoubtedly the great Barnyard IK.

Men are afraid of being rejected.

When your husband on your issue of signal, he's not just the sexual demands, he is in the subconscious, said: "we must accept me. "If you say:" no! no! " , "I'm so tired" and the like, he will feel pride was hurt. At this point, the man might lack the normal tolerance, suddenly produces a feeling of dissatisfaction. If you often refused his sexual demands, he probably would have stopped this courtship behavior in emotional problems may occur. Worse, he may be someone there to seek sexual life, get a sense of "accepted."

Not totally rejected the finding of the husband, is not to say that you must follow him, but should understand this is man's weak points, you can say: "I love you, but the work was too tired today, tomorrow morning?"

Or said: "I'm a little interest, we only hold, later to see how I feel?" In short, you have not yet been "into the State", you can use the language he mildly, he will feel better, categorically refused or excessive blaming verbal are inappropriate.

Marlboro more proactively.

Wife to occasional acts as a "sexual assault", because the man was very fond of women show her sexual tastes, they turn to women "," exposed often expressed great enthusiasm and curiosity, by the wife to mobilize men's sexual awareness, often receive unexpected results. In addition, if a man always acting as your sex life of active roles, he may have felt the same, the lack of new ideas, but also to take the risk may be rejected. He likes you too can be in his position, so you will understand his sexual signal acceptance that it is very important.

Marlboro is a bit of humor.

Funny men relaxation stress. Men often feel responsibility of pressure, they need a laugh to relax. So when your husband tries humor some and you refuse to participate in it, he will feel you on his lack of understanding or even think you're judging his behavior and performance. Woman in bed together with her husband and bed, mocking or yourselves performance some humorous speech and behavior, life will have more fun, and made him the "compatibility" fun multiplication.

Man and he often don't like to talk more.

Research has shown that men in sexual intercourse, usually don't like to talk more with his wife, when you say: "my dear, I like to feel," but you hear some sounds may be short and vague words. If you lie, you always talk about living or working in some trivia, men may demonstrate some impatience, at this point, you may be affected by the cold.

In fact, he is too invested in the right hemisphere of the brain nerve center and language features cannot work.

If you ask him and he felt that he may prefer to remain silent, the conversation may distract his passion. Of course, this does not mean you can't talk, but not because he didn't make a disappointment.

Men prefer a Visual stimulus into the State.

In General, the vulnerability of visual stimulation for men and women vulnerable to auditory stimuli. This is why boys love watching erotic excitement, but the girls love read romantic novels, this means that a man's sexual impulse sources mainly your appearance, this also explains why men like to watch women's body and wear. Therefore, you should occasionally wear some charming clothing. If you used to turn off the lights of the participant, may wish to change, or open a soft light, or in the room point some candles because your husband for their visual effect and stimulates impulse, then let his eyes "feast" in your body. Perhaps this is what you should do the simplest and most passionate about.

Men's erectile and not always to sexual intercourse.

Penile erection is due to its stimulating effect, might be due to sexual desire, but also may be holding back urine, underwear too tight small. In addition when I woke up early in the morning will also assume that their husbands erectile, if it means that he entered the erection of the "status", this will only cause problems in your relationship. If you are not sure, just ask him how? for example, he hold you wake up in the morning, he asked him to stay or just want to hug each other? so he'll easily make a choice, and your concern is full of gratitude.

(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)