Comprehensive analysis of male and female sex FAQ

Several times a week do love "normal" is not always to be "both on the top" to change sex?, multiple positions is enough High? must enough "law", sex is healthy full? ...

In most of the "media violence", we love the increasingly high demands, for example, requires more skill, longer, stronger Visual impact ...

But with the constant self requires standards, we leave the "xingfu" farther — those short forgo endless sex standards, codes of practice ", xingfu" really is the arrival of the "Garden" of the thoroughfare xingfu?

Having sex three times a week or more to be normal?

More or less, all of it good

Case1：

Daria and Bloom has a pattern of sexual, average weekly sex twice.

Comparison of satisfaction on both sides. But one day, Daria in a magazine a sex statistics reports, actually said "only 10% of the 20 ~ 30-year-old man weekly sex not more than 3 times." Daria was collapsed: their own and not to the Bloom 30-year-old, why so little is Bloom or they have a problem?

Resolution:

Modern sexuality research results in a very important criterion is: you must put the Community statistical averages and personal preferences.

In other words, the statistics cannot be used as a measure of whether individual "normal". The findings of Dr. Kinsey, individual differences in human sexuality special prominence in the Act, the differences between different individuals may be up to a thousand times. That is, someone even every day making even one night seven degrees, all of your business, you don't need to talk to them. You feel enough, feel comfortable, meet that standard.

Moreover, this type of investigation is not and facts, who also said.

One of the methods of investigation, select sample, take a different approach, will have different results. Secondly, such surveys can only rely on respondents ' say, he could ramble on, blown a gas. Wang Xiaobo in the sociological interrogation "article said such a thing: the United States had a major survey of sexual behaviour, the State Treasury to the vast population of government secrecy. Scientists are also very serious and responsible, but conclusions are many do not rely on the spectrum. For example, the United States men said that they have four or five times in January; female sexual behavior, January is two or three times. Extra number say? also, fewer Catholics in the gay and lesbian, atheist lesbian, in this description, infidels will when homosexuality? so conclusions can only be, some respondents did not tell the truth.

Incidentally, a magazine has published a set of data: a global population every year, the number of average life is 103 times, a Chinese probably 96 times, this means we average twice a week on sex.

Now we have three sets of data that are seemingly very authoritative. Do you find which one is more credible something?

Each time, the longer the more pleasurable sex?

Long or short, meet!

Case2：

Tai Liu and his wife married for 2 years, with each having sex, are rapidly ramp, will soon end.

Later, some large Liu read related books, you can extend the time above said to his wife brings greater happiness. So then make love, he deliberately transform rhythm, want to stick to a certain period of time. Unexpectedly, the wife of him is very impatient, and said that he did do stop, what feelings at all.

Relative to male, female is slow heat.

Generally speaking, the extension of the time, will allow erotic women get more satisfied. Whereas a longer period of time, will allow men have more mental satisfaction. Therefore, many people will think, "perfect sex to long time and again some time." This kind of psychological reflected in porn movies, sex scenes it is like a marathon. See all sex guide books, from 4000 years ago in Sanskrit works to today's marriage guidance booklets, teach a man to postpone their own response to extension poles, strengthening the incentives to women, so that women are easier to reach orgasm. In reality, many people can control their normal intentionally inflammatory responses, such as by adjusting the frequency of exposure, control of breathing and the continuing suspension of muscle tension, avoid sustained stimulation, avoid illusions, etc, to control the input of mental stimulation, prolonged intromission patterns in time. However, the longer the erotic time really better?

The length of time a man under the influence of each individual's body, usually 2-15 minutes, the younger males will quickly done.

United States a specific targeted research on the market of mass love said: substantive love (from sex organs begin to contact side) in 7 ~ 13 minutes most suitable. Most respondents indicate that substantial love more than 13 minutes, tired feeling is enhanced and more difficult to recover, but less than 7 minutes, there will be a fascinating.

However, 7-13 minutes, 2-15 minutes, only to have the statistics of significance, each person's situation is different.

Barbara come across such a case, a man who loves his wife, willing to delay meet her, but occasionally, he would want to have sex without love, want to rapidly meet yourself. According to the findings of Dr. Kinsey, many people think that at least is accidentally, directly and quickly to reach orgasm, better able to meet their own. Large Liu clearly belong to the husband and wife.

Moreover, to enable women to meet many of the methods, extensive foreplay, gentle and caring touch, as well as hand, mouth irritation, than monotonous mechanical movement more effective.

As long as both sides feel satisfied on OK, not entangled with the length of time.

A time to make love in a variety of positions is enough High?

Propagation or Jane, fit just fine

Case3：

There was a

Period of time, a small frown and husband keen to try various sexual positions, or even try it again a tremendous magazine. Such as yoga Master General of soft power, put one leg behind his shoulder, the other foot it to reach its own overhead. But then, she's tired of these gestures are. She felt that wonderfully sex action, instead of diverting attention from her, let her not easy to achieve orgasm.

How on earth can human gesture to make love? from Ovid's "love" to the Arabs of poetry, to today's marriage guidance booklet, as well as some erotic books and movies, all in this limit.

Allegedly, the human sex positions can achieve 200, common also has dozens of. However, so many postures, really useful?

Designs of posture, bring more likely psychological stimulation and meet.

Many people, both men and women, only think of two people's body can make a wide variety of sexual gestures, as long as soon feel sexual desire. However, there is no evidence that a variety of positions to make love can bring more physiological pleasure, or is much easier to achieve orgasm. On the contrary, in many cases, the use of diverse and varied techniques, it will interfere with the women, so that she can not reach the climax.

Different women to reach orgasm, have different needs, rhythm and speed.

Some like to direct and uninterrupted reached; some people prefer masculine, long-term process, thereby deliberately disruptive, to defer an orgasm. But generally speaking, women want their own private garden was exciting, they want to stimulate once intermittent stop after the start, all the way up to the orgasm. Most women will climax with masturbation, masturbation than the manifold in the prior process of making love to reach even more quickly. This is because in the process of achieving orgasm and masturbation usually is ongoing and continuous.

Why must wonderfully? you not put on A plate.

Slightly monotonous several positions, may have been sufficient.

A survey showed that most posture is newly married, then back, most couples will fully utilize the limited few or even only one position.

Why are some positions will be the largest crowd to accept because it is effective.

No climax of making love not called love?

Peak or mid, love it

Case4：

Sannny and husband living together for two years, the new year, there has been no experience to the legendary that want the fairy wishes to die.

But she adores and husband to make love, like warm hugs, comfort, Kiss, access, and more intense pleasure. But on one occasion, she suddenly inexplicably have an orgasm, the extreme experience completely captured her. So each time to make love, she strives to find a climax, but the climax is very strange, is always very difficult to obtain. She is becoming more and more sex, more and more dissatisfied with anxiety and gave the husband brought great pressure.

Climax may be of maximum pressure.

Female orgasm, for both men and women is very important. Woman orgasm may produce a sense of others than themselves, which makes her the future possibility of obtaining a fulfilling sexual relationship. For men, especially those educated man, he will feel obliged, have the responsibility to make the woman also reached the climax, acquire and own the same address. If the woman orgasm would make him strong disappointment, that is their own incompetence. And these will be the killer influence gender feelings. Both sides will be disappointed and upset, arguing that even become anger and fury.

However, we should note that different based on physiological structure, easy to reach orgasm in men, the proportion of female orgasm lower.

Survey data shows that 36% ~ 44% of women in marital love, and not always reach the climax. In other words, a sexual activity without having to worry too much, and this is normal.

Orgasm is not the only decisive satisfaction, this point is particularly important for women.

Know to be loved, to feel love and intimacy, to produce psychological needs. Even those who have not reached the climax of sexual activity, sexual relations of social significance, people can get quite happy.

Some people believe that the orgasm must arrive by both men and women, in fact, it is not realistic.

The woman first climax, culminating with her husband; or he first climax, then take another way to make the woman orgasm, both forms are most common. On the contrary, at the climax of the example is very small.

Specific to Sannny, can do about organic inspection, and try different sex positions, which will help to achieve orgasm.

But she's the first thing we do is, put down on the high tide of anxiety, fully enjoy sex. This relaxed state of mind, but easier to obtain the climax.

Eros must rule that "health"?

Law or randomly, like just fine.