Husband and wife relationship also talks of "golden mean"

This one comes to consult a couple.

Professor Wang to one another, both husband and wife boardroom half day, finally, her husband by Professor Wang went into consult room. Wife out readily turned up the magazine. The husband said that they were married for five years, although the relationship between husband and wife is not attached, wouldn't a stranger as passers-by.

But over the past half year, he felt they couples have a hint of estrangement.

Generation gap, in their sex life. He suspected that his wife is suffering from a frigid, because this time his wife never initiate sexual demands, and for his sexual demands, you tend to be reactive, moreover also an excuse to refuse such as physical discomfort.

The husband said that having sex without coordination so that their marriage is on the verge of disintegration, he sought to heal the good wife of frigid, eliminate their marriage crisis.

In the face of the experts, the wife has a different opinion. She said that the marriage was entered into another world. Five years of married life, has no danrushui first-time that hate is not met, nor a new kind of looking forward to the sweetness of life.

Her husband was busy working, she's busy at work, both of them are alive.

And evening together, the husband also rarely spent, care. More difficult to be concerned about her physical and psychological discomfort of the Act. She said, now their marital relationship that seems to have left it to prove that their sex life.

So she hates this purely physiological needs sex life.

She said, and it's not that she's not need sex, but people's emotional needs after all. In the relationship between husband and wife, in General, men are focusing on life itself, the issue of sexual desire in men than women are more interested in requesting more strongly, it is easy for produces no coordination of dissatisfaction; and women in relationships, emotional demands higher than men, they really need is, in our daily lives, and even sex lives, can feel they are loved by her husband, also is to say, the language of love and the love of action is more important than life itself.

See men and women of this difference, it is not difficult to understand that this couple, why do they own marriage are mutually upside view.

If, when her husband, the wife to express their love, more from the daily life of little concern for his own wife, more caring, more gentle wife.

Then, the wife will complain that marriage is the gray tones of? and if the wife having sex with her husband, on the initiative that was passionate, happy, and proactively to the husband revealed their own emotional demands, the husband would doubt the wife is frigid?

Experts pointed out that the couple's sexual relations, preferably mining advised the doctrine of "not to place undue emphasis on the role of their sex life, and not excessive pursuit is not the feelings of so-called sex life Foundation.

Mutual understanding of each other's character, as much as possible to meet each other's needs, this is to maintain the cohesion of the marital relationship.

(Practice editing: Zhang lijuan)