Parents how to face the child masturbation?

1. child masturbation basis for children of 3 to 6 years old is the psychological development of the first peak, puberty is the second peak.

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First, the biological foundations of child masturbation

Children 3 to 6 years old is the psychological development of the first peak, puberty is the second peak.

Starting from early childhood, children explore their genitals, like to explore other parts of your body (eyes, nose, etc), he found, after by stimulation of the genitals to the body feels pleasant.

3 ~ 4 years old, leading to genital hypoplasia of the myelin sheath of nerves, nerve like wires, myelin is the insulating rubber coated wires, which leads to genital stimulation is no longer available, but is more concentrated in the genitals, so children will easily feel is from genital stimulation.

In addition, in this age, children body hormone increases, so that the children's body of impulse when more than young children.

So. We can see 3 ~ 6 year old stage, children in addition to more masturbation phenomenon, on specific curiosity, want to see their parents ' health, children's games (each other, touching the genital, House) also show clearly that this is the normal sexual development in children.

Second, child masturbation when "end"

Children from 0 to 6 years of development, the adults will continually be social ethics and standards of conduct repeatedly told the children, children in the socialization process, continue to make its behavior conform to the requirements of the community, thus gradually established themselves in the moral sense, shame, aesthetics, etc, this is the child change and control their own behavior of mental powers, so that we can see that the fact that some children 3 ~ 6 does not shy away from outsiders when masturbation, but they will not grow up in front of outsiders of masturbation.

6 ~ 7-year-old, the incubation period of development, of energy through the school's curriculum and activities.

In addition, Freud: human sexuality in 3 to 6 years old is reached a peak, but still children, too small, so not to have children, home, so that human development will have an incubation period, to puberty, sexual development began, reaching genital dominant peak sexual development.

Therefore, after the age of 6 ~ 7, the vast majority of child masturbation behavior.

However, there are still a minority of children, some children may have life, masturbation does not affect their health. Some people marry also through masturbation way achieve orgasm.

3. child masturbation real harm

Children of masturbation is child sexual development of normal experience, parents do not have to be overly nervous, tense, parents scolding, blocks will increase children's guilt and the stigma, the child psychological development is very bad, like I mentioned in the case of the girl, her guilt has already been demonstrated.

Therefore, in my view, the harm the child masturbation is not a masturbation itself, but adults prevent, tension and for hyperactive children, the children are in a bitter struggle, children to control their own behavior of spiritual force has not yet been established, the instinct to children, and parents of masturbation condemned the acts of children feel ashamed and want to stop, but you cannot control, cycling in this struggle are the children of the root causes of pain because of masturbation, masturbation to children real harm! if parents understand child sexual development of laws, will be able to keep children from harm.

4 misconceptions about child masturbation

1 believes that the child is lack of some nutrition masturbation material such as zinc deficiency, zinc supplementation for children, children still masturbation;

2 girls clips leg is a girl masturbation, it was considered to be joint problems, so give the children a doctor in various ways, I asked drug know a girl because the doctor with leg last question about the Festival, she said, had 8 years of acupuncture and moxibustion, last girl grew up listening to my mother 's, is no longer firmly not to hospital ligation acupuncture, girls health, marriage after masturbation, there's nothing wrong with normal;

5. If this affects the child's future life

For the health of children, birth parents and understand scientific institutions (follow children development regulation), grew up (puberty) and understand scientific adjustment own sexual impulses, masturbation does not affect the child's future life.