Why have a crush on middle-aged men and women network

Internet addiction memoir of one of the "happy face" was originally the old Secretary

And and the word joke, nothing new has analysis scorning Office love Internet ladies agreed that this online branding "Wanli-sky" certainly was a handsome guy.

But careful of White Lady from "Wanli-sky" joke, saw him as a man with experience of mature, later white ladies guessing "Wanli-sky" is their old Secretary. She quietly asked Secretary recruited, and told her own reasons for Internet chat. It turns out that he sometimes felt very tired at home is the mother of his son, wife, husband, daughter of the father, and is a Council of Ministers, manages a large group of team.

Half a year ago, he discovered the Secretary Wang in on-line chat chat very quietly being happy to join them.

Chat online, nobody knows his real identity, you can feel free to play, you can make friends, can not understand question ... You can play on the Web you want to play any role, and as ordinary as freely talk and give vent to their own variety of anguish and dissatisfaction.

Psychological review: online exchanges and reality in the biggest different is anonymous, anonymous identity of "lost", that is losing the reality of a role, you are no longer at home parents, unit leadership, school teachers.

Each individual character is a complex, multidimensional, and when they too oppressed, is always looking for a point release, the network gave people a chance to the other side of the character.

Internet addiction memoir of a hollowed out her heart love

A joint venture of female Manager Yang, the landscape, but the cause and her husband have little in common, due to the face, and only 9-year-old daughter, Yang dismissed the idea of divorce.

With a mind of her home after a buried into the Internet. She met on the Internet, a surgeon, he's fine, taste, sense of humor was deeply attracted to her, she just lets his emotions to like him, only to find that he has a rock-solid family, she again feel disheartened, a jaded of fatigue quietly with her body and mind invasion ...

Psychological review: at the age of forty years old, and domestic economic conditions better, both husband and wife are good vocational and higher education level, this is a married love.

This phenomenon is mostly due to the marriage of awful. This age of people already have several years to more than ten years experience, the initial enthusiasm has gone, tired and even tired feeling hit my mind, once the new channels can find passion and comfort, otherwise people will flock to extricate themselves. This love is mostly no, only one of the parties fall to extremes.

Internet addiction memoir of talk without having to worry about

Ms. Chen a 35-year-old this year, her chatting online is because his life had been unhappy husband and wife, husband, social status, personality is small or very mild, but the body is not good.

She was too many, but I'm sorry to tell to a friend. Thus, the lonely she often in online chat, and an online chat mature, she poured out their own distress, users eagerly helped her analysis, for her out of her mind. Although this does not resolve the problem, but she was happy, not worrying about friends and compromising the secret.

Psychological review: some of the pain and embarrassment to loved ones in the way that the Internet can net users have to talk to strangers, to avoid the embarrassment of acquaintances and pressure, this is one of the great advantages of the network, it can be said to be beneficial.

Psychology research has shown that suit talk object in two ways: first, good friends. A good friend was the person who has the advantage of understanding you and accept you, you will not be easily criticized. Inadequate, in case this friend is unreliable, your secret is revealed. The second is a stranger. Stranger's advantage is not likely to reveal anything, but he did not know about you, on the network, the network of "acquaintances" know you like friends, like strangers like not knowing who you are.

Network is a fantasy world

Middle-aged people are old and small, under the pressure is huge, and fit "" Web chat "to mental will have a positive effect.

But the obsession with the Internet and obsessive, can cause time management or physical and mental health problems, emotional disorder and conduct disorder, and may thus lead to a conflict with others. Grasp the "degree" is a regular chat on the middle-aged man should take seriously, here mention several recommendations for reference.

1. full understanding of the self.

To recognize the middle age period is achieved and there is a solid family, is also a special life burden, must pass through the period of adjustment to surpass themselves.

2. good at work and leisure, relaxation.

You can take advantage of holiday or weekend, and colleagues, family members go to the countryside to vacation, let yourself naturally into groups, in nature, the sustained release psychological pressure.

3. solve the awful years of marriage.

Couples may wish to try the "halo effect" is consciously put each other as self-world's best and most perfect person, married to continue development of love, sex, love, heart, these three aspects and other communication.

4. raise awareness, self-regulation by sublimation action to realize their aspirations, their psychological needs.

For example, you can try using the "tofu blocks" small works to express their aspirations and feeling good, you can also write poems, paintings and songs, and other civic activities show themselves, to express their wishes.

If you want to come out from the network, the main method is to use a new objectives or activities of the place of destination in the fictitious, make original my nervous to get a real address, thereby releasing pressure drop

Fly your own soul, in the middle age period to keep happy, happy, healthy life.

(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)