Beware: couples hostility prevented having sex

When a person with a handicap, their first concern is often the cause of the physiological and psychological factors were ignored.

This time, if couples have hostile, they think: is sexual disorder causing hostility between husband and wife. In fact, sometimes on the contrary, precisely because of the hostility between husband and wife before they lead to sexual dysfunction. And sexual disorders, of course, further deepened the hostility between husband and wife.

No matter what

Liao, newly married Miss and Mr Chen was less than half a year, just before sexual aspects of the problem.

Each time you Miss Liu y'know, that seems to have a unrealizable grievances, on her husband with hostile attitude. Sometimes said that her husband haven't selected, in the middle of her wake, sometimes also said that her husband didn't give her cover afterwards tucked into thought let her cold. Wedding when a tender and touching disappear without a trace.

Miss Liu of this change, Mr. Chen was puzzled.

He could imagine, what is between them. So I had to send text messages, with the woman whisper "to communicate.

I asked Mr. Chen, recently two people what happened between the unpleasant, even a very small thing? Chen thinking and want to say a few things he thinks not.

On one occasion, Ms. Liu wore a beautiful clothes home, as soon as embracing her husband's neck asked: "beautiful? guess how much money?"

Her husband is very safe to say that: "the $ 250. "" You take a closer look at brand, 250 Yuan to buy down? "

Husband insisted: "Ms. HUI buy this brand, and you about exactly the same, she told me is $ 250.

"Ms. Liu's face sank down. And one day Chen told his wife that my colleagues in the company to miss home party, Hui in the evening for dinner.

Evening husband came back, the door and said: "Miss Xu do chicken soup is really good to drink, I study for a long time, she has not only put the soup, also put a chicken scallops, two tasty together, soup is particularly good to drink.

After our family ... "and" after you drink every day to her home. "Miss Liu rudely interrupted the husband.

I heard the description of Mr. Chen said: "eat your wife in the vinegar of Miss Xu.

"I think, the first thing to do is eliminate Liao Miss Xu Miss get jealous. Yes, because of the way of thinking between husband and wife, often causes a mutual lack of understanding. Mr. Chen accustomed to use logic to analyze the surrounding people and events, and his wife's way of thinking is often non-logic, she considered issues often with great affection.

So, the husband and wife in addition to the need to fully understand their own personality, preferences and habits to the recognition of gender in the differences in the way of thinking, never will their will upon each other.

Anyone who's a mess?

About a year ago, Mr. and Mrs. Willow Salix sexually sudden cooling.

Each time y'know, both felt a kind of hostility, from beginning to end without saying a Word, much less emotional exchanges. Mr. Liu appeared a premature ejaculation, each ejaculate done soon. However, the precise shooting without the old carefree feeling, so Mr. Lew Wohuo great heart. But Yoo of Mrs. simply taken completely passive attitude, cold without enthusiasm. Not to mention an orgasm.

Mr. Liu at a computer company, from the beginning he was very fond of her career, every day after work, he also read lots of books.

Soon, his technical skills go far beyond people around and be the boss and the customer's identity.

One day, Mr. Liu solemnly to his wife that he wants to buy a computer.

Willow wife hesitation agreed. But since the computer into the family of Mr. Liu has always harmonious relations between husband and wife cracks appeared. In the evening, Mr. Ryu no longer accompany his wife watching TV than in the past few say son of lessons. Daily dinner, Mr. Liu plunging into the computer until late at night.

Mr. Liu weekend, no longer accompany his wife took to the streets, from morning to night in computer desk.

Finally two people quarrel, sometimes even more physicians, small noisy become big noisy. Willow wife said that her husband now love computer goes far beyond love her and her son. But Mr. Lew thinks that his hard-working, which are solely for the purpose of the family.

Yes, the difference also between husband and wife in the needs of very different.

Mr. Liu's demand is able to work in the undertaking or reflect on their own value and social identity. While his wife's biggest demand is owned by the family, children and loves her husband.

Thus, they treat marriage the attitude there is a big difference, and students out of the various contradictions.

So when the spouses in the event of a conflict on demand, both sides should accept the existence of such differences, and make appropriate concession, to meet the family. In fact, the animosity will only be weakening husband and emotional, more understandable, more tolerant, will enable a more harmonious relationship between husband and wife, tighter.

(Practice editing: Chen Dong ping)