Today's men hate what kind of wife

Recently, this reporter interviewed some marriage from the men were there to hear their views of a woman in marriage, but also from the ladies there heard many of their men. Recently, this reporter interviewed some marriage from the men were there to hear their views of a woman in marriage, but also from the ladies there heard many of their men. Excerpts from this week, a two-stage publication of relevant content — this week, first published ten men on women; next week will be published women to men of ten. Our purpose is: to provide men and women in marriage to a mutual understanding and opportunities from the province to improve people's ability to grasp the marriage. Welcome to call or letter telling their own stories, express their point of view, but also enriched the content of this topic. Views: forced the husband is in Northern Europe and Jackie CHAN a University doctoral student in school battled one semester, he can't wait to get home, and hope to return to the wife's side, enjoy a warm and relaxing holidays. Who knows articles headlined the young couple hasn't about two sentences, wife unto him encouragement. She constantly in front of said that Dawn's husband recently got a full scholarship of the United States; XX's husband has already done a Ph.d supervisor; XX husband read MBA from abroad, are coming back from several foreign companies scrambled to, the annual salary of $ 8 million, and so on. In order not to fall behind "so-and-so" husband, tianming from home in the evening began intensely, doors, door not al. Originally thought of all vacation plans do not dare to achieve. Holiday closing, tianming says: "although I have a seemingly bright future, but I feel like the sea in a leaf from waterway boat, not find sheltered Harbour. "Expert comments: clearly, there is the idea that women tend to have very strong vanity, the so-called" WomanOf "; in addition, they often have a very strong psychological dependence, and the so-called" Ohly tree, which has tree wrapped around cane ". In order to satisfy their vanity and dependencies, they will not hesitate to impose various pressure. husband Of course, encourage husband worked hard and never wrong, however, if you do not, according to the actual situation, you may create pressure on the opposite. In a word: Steve Chan woman pushed too stupid. Views: drove Mr. Lee likes to dress well, well-dressed woman, while his wife and let him down. Mr. Li said: my wife didn't know how to press your own build features select costumes, but also do not know how to colour matching. I gave her the recommendations she also accused me of the little man, pipe too much. Once, I jokingly say that men like pretty woman, you don't worry about me being seduced? who knows his wife conceit "hum", continue to go its own way. She always believed that her family conditions than my home, originally she is regardless of her parents ' opposition to "marry" to me, she believed that she was "good cause" early "hung up" on me, so I'm relieved to have a lazy yellow face great life. Although I am not a man that's a trick, but in the street saw well-dressed woman, was always to lose, and sometimes also in the clouds. Expert comment: a woman in China, especially at the end of child health, after gradually entering middle age. Such women tend to have the following mental: the first is "safe" mentality that "revolution" in the header, to horse Nanshan, so dress casual, no longer pay attention to decoration. The second is slacking off. It is no longer the "strict demands on themselves", everything is so-so, muddling along. Beauty's heart and for all. You say that this woman could not let husband disappointed? maybe lips not said, knew way off. This is the real danger lies. One: Gan do yellow face neglectful whip woman too careless. Views: despite her husband dignity he said: "I am a low-income oppression must do not feel the dignity of man. One day, I'd just received a lump sum fee please his wife to a restaurant for dinner, restore point do men's self esteem. The reception, just came across two buddies, so I would venture to ask them at the same table dining. Don't want to checkout-a budget, I don't have enough money, I had to borrow to wife. Two friends laughing, are you home is AA? she heard rage out of yuzhi straight to my heart said: "did you ask him how much money a month, he eats up AA system?" said out altogether. Mr. Zhang last sad to say: "does the man have no money no dignity? just do not understand why women, a lack of money but no lack of dignity of man, always have developed hope; but a lack of money and lost dignity of man, but always only be down and out of poverty. Does my wife wishes I always down? "expert comments: you can irony man was ugly, but you would never be able to laugh at a man's incompetence. — — The ability to make money as well as sexual ability, but the dignity of man. Do not feel the dignity of man tends to despair, inferiority complex from AI. Therefore, the wise wife always tried to maintain the dignity of man, through a variety of "sweet" and "technical means" incentive husband sail broken waves, reinvigorated. Remark: do not know how to maintain the dignity of the woman's husband is ignorance. Views: love complaining good Mr. Lee is a vanity is cadres. This year's father-in-law 70 years birthday, General Manager of big son-in-law sent a senior labour shibiao, own the company's second son-in-law presented 10000 Yuan in cash, and Mr. Li's gift is only $ district 1000. Mr. LEE's wife see, immediately revealing his face. Mr. LEE knows she was upset, quietly reached from under the table, the hands of his wife, do not want to be the world's best independents she kicked. Mr. Li said: "my wife is good, is too thin skin too vain. For example, her good friend to children to buy a piano, she had no matter our son on piano interested to buy back at home. Fashion jewelry on the market, she must have. In recent years, she was fascinated with the replacement handset. Eh, as a civil servant, so a vain wife, real trouble. Expert comments: "has been described as the woman is the urban scenery line, so if no woman complaining to each other, contests, the scenery will" beautiful "? but, if not by their own economic conditions, the blind, the complainingThey are too vain. This excessive vanity often make those non-"anyone" man mental tension, or even overwhelmed. In a word: love complaining so vain woman too "terrorist". Views: serve not sensible Mr. Yuan is not complaining wife considerate attention, he admitted that his wife is very concerned about his personal life, but it does not care about his soul feel. Les WA-born Mr. Yuan, newly married soon, his hometown of relatives came to their House, smoking is not carefully rug burn a hole, the wife was at once, so that the guests extremely embarrassing. And later, his wife still pressed to warn Mr. Yuan said that tell you that in the future, your hometown to anyone, are not allowed into the door. For this reason, their son was 5 years old this year, haven't seen Grandpa, Grandma. Mr. Yuan before the Spring Festival of the parents to come to town to see grandchildren, he also can't promise. He quietly give parents wrote a long letter and send it to a few hundred dollars, do not want this thing and his wife discovered that both sides are making a field. Mr. Yuan said: "I am now in my name has all of the sweep. My parents lost their son, also lost the respect of fellow villagers. Although I have repeatedly told my parents and relatives, from Red land out of me that is cut with their dear ones, but they don't believe me. Although I live in the city's tallest building, with wife Aiko, appears to be very happy. In fact, who know the pain of my heart? rehearsed, I often have to face in the direction of his hometown, confess to my folks, to ease the mind of contrition. "Expert comments: thoughtful not sensible it is those who believe that" good wife "a common fault. Some wife complaining about her husband: he was concerned with, thoughtful, why he was not satisfied. She may not know their own wittingly or unwittingly, consciously or unconsciously left out or belittle the husband's relatives and friends, leading to the husband. Men and women with more than just the interaction between two people, but also to different social relations between the two individuals (such as friends and relatives). Ignore this kind of social relations, often deepen marriage "siege" of feeling, and breeding rushed out of the desire of the "siege". In a word: thoughtful not sensible woman too sad. Views: ignore sex Mr. Guo complained of his marriage "no xingfu". He said five years of marriage, the wife in sex, never active too, and once the husband and wife living, she is very reluctant to become zombies. In order to inspire her, Mr. Guo will often be an excuse to recommend some relevant knowledge of the newspaper, magazine to show her, and even borrow the CD back and she shared her practice or a zombie-like. Mr. Guo said, now, he is not too after work to home, the more afraid and wife slept in a bed, because this would have on his desire to produce strong stimulation. In order to evade normal psychological needs, he fell in love with alcohol and mahjong. Mr. CHENG and his wife are cadres. He said: "we've been married for 13 years in marriage marriage of two years has lead a normal life husband and wife. After the wife into a pregnancy, worried, I will give up taiqi. "After the birth of a child's parents to help, my bed, I can only admit. Wife out of the month, I returned to his bed, but she almost forgot my existence, in order not to let I snore boy, she even ordered me to move to the next room to sleep. Kids have been and we slept to 6-year-old wife is downright separate beds, but she still want to read about to sleep with her daughter. Occasionally there is a reunion days she is tired, he is ill. Once, perhaps I cornered her, and her talk that truth: children are so great, would like to do this?, I now family planning and regeneration of the child, we may as well save some effort to raise his daughter, I'm not one to menstrual period is haunted. "Mr. last agony, Cheng said:" I was a normal man, a structured, but I'm not a normal middle-aged men's family life. When I occur sexual desire, my wife is sleeping on my side, but I do have a stiffening, taste, it is difficult to articulate. "Expert comments: since thousands of years of feudal ideology, people tend to talk about sexual deviation, especially a woman's sexual desire is suppressed, the initiative needs to be considered" shady "," Scarlet woman ". Adapt to their marriage, sexual or just as a way to give birth to children, clans, and had to be done. This kind of sex bias in order to enable them to stay away from sexual pleasure, sexual enjoyment, resulting in a de facto separation of sex and love. Modern marriage should be the sex and love and harmony. Harmonious sexual life not only helps to deepen the love of husband and wife, but also to the mental and physical health of the spouses. Comment 7: lack of housewives consciousness Chen two years ago and married Miss LI. After he discovered that when the librarian's wife is not going to do the housework, much less understand personal finance. He said his family like a dog, touch anywhere is gray, go are evergreens dirty. Wife's clothes have always been into the closet, put up forever crease crumpled. If she's 8: 30 to go to work, it must be 8: 10 didn't get up, and then from the closet tossing grabbed one dress, rush to the toilet casually tidy, on yesterday's dirty shoes rush out the door. After work or think about doing dishes, always be only done tomato scrambled eggs, carrots fried meat and steamed fish. I reminded her that we have not the Bachelor, to consider how to live a good and recommended xiaorizi her change her lifestyle, she is not, and I would do is to one another, get our 3 year married, does not dare to children. Expert comment: housewife consciousness and housewives capacity is closely linked, both in the final analysis involves women how to play the role of family — mainly refers to the role and the role of mother, wife. The saying is: "take her husband's heart, it is first necessary to seize the husband of the stomach." Of course, that too with traditional color, but which has revealed a great deal of truth. Home or domestic capacity of women, on the effects of marriage and family life is self-evident. "Out, and Auditorium, in the kitchen", should become a modern woman. Views: disclosure of privacy at eight more force Mr. aAnd is, since his wife had "dew private addiction", so he hardlyThe privacy. Mr. and Mrs. more power at the same bank, is Bank of living quarters, the couple's social circles are killed are the same. Originally this was nothing, but it just stalls a like "Lucy privacy" wife, often got his banter, impulse, or even thought of divorce. The more force, newly married near the Office on the day of a colleague came to Vietnam, Mr reading newspapers is dead on an ingredient advertising, said his wife to tell her, his beriberi is serious. In the face of female colleagues of this concern, the more force, embarrassing. Afterwards he reminded his wife don't add things that go out, although she also agree, but the next time you see those "friend" on their own, and restrain the mouth. Even more, Mr angry, his wife even couples private life also out to share with friends, he has carried in front of people is not the beginning. Wife of pressed and "circle" men of banter, woman, joke, made him very happy, he said: "I hope that someone can cure treat my wife's ' Lucy private addiction ', so we will live the happy few, harmony. "Expert comments: the family is the most private of places, marriage is the most intimate of relationships. Some women do not understand this, like in the middle of talking about Home Companion "confidential", and even in the event of privacy between the spouses, and carry out intercomparison mutual evaluation, to get some kind of psychological needs. In fact, this is not desirable. It's not just "sell" is her husband, but also the "sell" yourself "betray" the whole family. It is often said that the family is a warm shelter. If your personal privacy is not guaranteed, marriage and family life is also able to warm it up? comments: "Al-control 9 to" Mr. absorbtion haihao sigh: and a "controlling husband wants to" absorbtion wife life too hard! Hai Hao is a wage earnings, monthly salary all SSO wife, home of all overhead shots by the wife. Haihao said: "I need to purchase a coat, trousers, underwear, socks, shoes, she must Rushton, and even though she and I went to buy, I have to obey her taste. The money in my Pocket is she, her every week to see my wallet much money, questioning my money goes. A man is generally difficult to remember each overhead, I'll just have to be reported out of money "hangs" in motorcycle use of oil. Last year I started going to cook for business, social events increased overhead. Each time you dine with others, she asked me who pay? if I paid, it is necessary to tell the exact number. But she would also like to know who I am and dinner, and we talk about what might be out of a revenge, I did a first single business, quietly stay up some money didn't tell her, mainly want to escape her control. But she had the ability to turn found my partners, knows everything. My disaster comes, had to confess. Later, I tell her: I do want to get rid of her control, do not want to let their acts to what way. But she finds me is another attempt. In her view: as a couple, there has been a common child, two 1/2 together becomes 1, so she must know how the other half of everything — including some of the details. I am unable to accept her this theory, but also persuade her, our family living in this kind of "control" and "reverse control" room to grow hard to endure. Expert comments: "the accused's wishes" absorbtion is a modern marriage of "common". Lead to this kind of "disease" and there are many reasons: lack of self-confidence and his wife paranoid suspicion, because of the "caring" husband and everywhere worry, fear of her husband "go bad" but always fortification, and so on. "Controlling husband wish" of absorbtion, sting is not completely husband, also including her own — at any time in a State of anxiety, nervous and not self-made. The saying is: "the road always prevails over the force of Justice". "Control" and "reverse control" does not stop, why not do a brilliant "Yu-Fu" who let the husband happily become "free man", and willingly in your field of vision? (comments on this release as the family experts "Journal of marriage and family research centre Director) related link husband post system specification (for trial implementation regulation) 1, to love his wife, firm support for the wife, to obey his leadership. 2. strict adherence to the timetable, 6 o'clock in the morning breakfast, evening after 11: 30 pm, is strictly prohibited to sleep late, leave early and reduce service standards; no rest and holidays. Third, the husband to continuously improve cooking, to master the techniques of massage, etc. Fourth, the husband should always pay attention to appearance, instrument, is strictly prohibited at home experiments, disarray; outdoor non-wearing clothes and manners frivolous, "into a kitchen, a Hall" was. 5. monthly wages, bonuses and all income must be turned over to his wife, not against payment, shall not be left out, no secret personal accounts. 6. responsible for children from school to school transfer tasks; holidays to strictly implement the responsibility system "holidays on duty", that is, the arrangements for the dinner (10 dishes and a soup, flavor meals), to accompany the children on the playground (no waiting for an opportunity to chat with other female parents), with father-in-law chat (not doze or watch TV). VII. husband's House are fully responsible for health and work. Health check to the ISO-9002 "five-star hotel standard acceptance. 8. in addition to the holidays may not watch television, is strictly prohibited to grab my wife, children, remote control, no noise, do not watch the game as well as any wife not watching the show.

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