Save shouldn't appear in the frigid

Frigid refers to the lack of sex drive, popular, namely sexual life not interested in, there are said to be the libido. Frigid and lack of sexual pleasure are two different concepts, they can also appear, and may not, therefore, frigid is divided into two types: a sexy lack, frigid syndrome and no sexy lack, frigid syndrome.

The investigation was well educated and healthy couple, 16% of men and 35% of women have a frigid.

In reforested couples, frigid accounted for 2%, but really have no desire of almost nothing. Frigid and lack of sexual pleasure are two different concepts that cannot be confused with, both at the same time, can not, therefore, there are two types: a sexy lack-frigid syndrome and no sexy lack-frigid syndrome.

Frigid began appearing on sex is called primary frigid, which appears after a period of sexual life is broken with frigid.

The extensiveness of frigid refers to any specific and in any conditions are the same, but selective frigid refers to certain specific and particular conditions.

The causes of male libido

Man libido, is married to a longer period of time, significantly reducing the demands on sexuality or lack of interest.

Normal sexual requirements often their physical strength and environment greatly different. Therefore, to determine whether or not the libido should be taken only with the respective previous libido opportune for longitudinal and transverse lust for others. Factors that caused libido has following several aspects:

　　Emotional factors

Sex should be pleasant and happy state of mind.

If persistent psychological disorders and many other adverse factors, can cause the libido. If the past history of masturbation, or feeling guilty for life to despair, and cause repeated setbacks, interpersonal tensions, family tragedy and so unhappy, sad and difficult to equal, may cause the libido. Second, as has long been engaged in heavy labor, particularly mental also causing libido.

　　Disease factors

Suffering from diseases of the genitourinary system, there was in sex, thereby inhibiting the discomfort of sexual desire, such as Chronic prostatitis, urethritis, epididymitis,.

Others, such as endocrine disease, systemic diseases, etc., may also be due to too few male hormone secretion or metabolic disorder which affects libido.

　　Drug factors

Long-term administration of certain drugs also can cause low libido.

Common such as sedatives and sleeping for tranquillity, Librium, barbital, methaqualone; anti histamine drug diphenhydramine, chlorpheniramine; drug resistance stomach cramps and atropine, Reuben Xin, 654-2; treatment of gastric and duodenal ulcer drug cimetidine; antihypertensive drug reserpine, etc.

　　Bad habits

Long-term drinking Kisser caused by chronic alcoholism, excessive smoking causes of chronic toxicity, and drug nicotine (marijuana, opium, heroin, etc.) who can also be caused libido.

Long-term effects of libido is not only the husband and wife, often physical and mental condition of the specific response, so should be enough attention to timely health check and found that the problem solved.

Married couples with age, and sex drive requirements than had gradually decreased, as an inevitable trend of physiological development, generally do not think it is sick.

Cause why woman frigid

1. in the past even childhood had a history of trauma (rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc.).

2. the body shape of puberty some abnormal fear of unknown and have low self-esteem.

3, love or marriage fails that trick, even forming on the male's revenge.

4, fear of pregnancy, curettage, sexually transmitted diseases, etc. may cause pain, thus avoiding sexual contact.

5. sexual intercourse pain or discomfort that fear of sexual life.

6. the wife only life as a wife's duty, not like eats is itself due physiological and psychological needs; if coupled with a lack of knowledge and skills shortage caused by sexual way, and even an orgasm disorder and monotonous, sex is no fun at all.

7, expect too much of a spouse, marital found real husband and premarital own ideal spouse far cry, but do not want to face reality and adapt to the reality.

8. lack of attractiveness or husband there sexual dysfunction.

9, tension or stress of husband and wife, the wife will reject sexual intercourse as a means of retaliation or induced force.

(This is the most stupid means resulting in marital infidelity, cheating on me and her husband impotence, the ultimate premature ejaculation, the afflicted person who will be retaliation).

10, parts of acute illness, chronic diseases and their treatment drug side effects, can reduce sexual interest, or were sex may exacerbate disease, damage the body and the Suppression of sexual desire.

11, work stress, fatigue, alcohol consumption, or for something thought of too much stress and sexuality indifference.

12, baby body changes after that loss of attractiveness to the opposite sex, or the husband too much attention to the child, (also for baby sucking nipples produces pleasure meets the desire), or lost due to domestic tedious and past sexual passion.

13, some women have their own sense of pudendal unclean, afraid of defaced spouse.

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14 and as little affected by the impact of traditional morality, that "the woman cannot offer requirements, otherwise it is immoral," and "husband and wife should be in the life of men, the woman of active sex passively", "sexual intercourse is a shameless behavior", and so on, even if you do not have the desire expressed in a clear and long repressed sexuality may evolve into frigid.

In fact, these ideas are wrong, since the libido and appetite, and meet both should treat the hungry to eat, like how to eat to how we eat. First page 1 2 next last