Six kinds of psychological damage to the husband and wife erotic passion

1, frustration

Ms. Chun and B A marriage only five years, but their sex life is very boring.

Ms. B is no longer interested in sex, A monarch who refused in a bad mood, they often find the root cause frustrations, is primarily the frustration of Ms. B. Half a year ago, Ms. B's mother is dead, she is very sad, so emotional repression. But A King cannot understand his wife down lasts six months, and lose interest in sex. In fact, everyone is experiencing emotional damage, economic issues, work setback or in a very pressure occurs when depressed. In the help of a psychiatrist, A monarch recognized should be more understanding of his wife, Ms. also felt it should B through treatment from dismay, and worked to improve their relationships. Ms. Chun and B A try as they gradually returned to normal.

2, selfish

C-Jun, and d, after ten years of marriage, they lose interest in sex are.

Through counseling, found that the problem is the lack of mutual admiration and support. Consulting, Ms. D C King complained that he had done as a matter of course, Ms. D acknowledged this. But she said that he never praised her or concerned about her. A man is not to praise and a woman are not care the same terrible, will make their emotional is defective. Consultation, C-Jun and Ms. realize mutual D of praise and enthusiasm.

3, sexual taboos

Ms. Chun E and f get married for four years, E-chun of the incompetence of the increasingly serious.

E you are because of the taboo and a painful situation. He felt that the "good girl" shouldn't and linked, because of that his wife was a "good girl", therefore, with his wife sex always feel nervous and self-reproach, last to a reluctant and her sex. Psychologists tell E King, try to take a more open attitude, and E, and frank discussion on this issue. And cannot engage in sexual activities don't always think about it, practice relaxation training to improve the anxiety and nervousness. Finally, E you overcome this problem, and his wife have normal and happy sex life.

4, sexual myths

Although sexual myths and taboos are extremes, but it also undermines people's relationships, G-Jun and his wife is an example.

G you have some Bachelor friend, they often boast of their sexual adventures, G-Jun also from some TV video see introductory skills, he began to feel that if we lose, thought that he and wife relationship so wonderful that no one else. Psychiatrist told him that this kind of contest is a violation of natural reality. G-Jun and his wife finally understand they are exaggerated cheated of myth.

5. lack of adaptability

Marriage is one year after year, a series of relations: wedding, baby, child marriage, then their own retirement ...

Psychologists believe that a couple each time from one life stage to another, you must adjust their marriage relationship, and in times of change of sex life may stop for a period of time. Ms. L K Jun and married several years there is a will, after the enrolment of children began to feel that they can no longer accommodate both sides, sex life or so. Through counseling. They recognized that the problem is that they cannot adapt to having a baby this new relationship. They will now not only the husband and wife, they or their parents, which means they play both roles, they must adjust their attitudes to harmony and coexistence. In their suit, the sexual relationship is back to normal, and once again let them joy.

6, discord

Ms. Chun and P M a reading of junior's daughter, the couple's sex life is worsening, through counseling, they found that exist in their not in harmony is the problem.

They nurture children's perspectives are completely different, M is for children, freedom and tolerance, while Ms is very stringent P, along with daughter grows, it becomes increasingly evident. Ms. even think P M King daughter too concerned about and he forgets his wife there. They often open quarrel, makes their sexual relations under the pressure of the intense, almost in a State of repose.

Psychologists believe that good relationships is to share life's perspective as a basis, with the harmony and more pleasant.

If the couple does not share a common vision, the conflict may catty-corner to "sexual orientation" to disappear. Couple two must try to understand one another, they must be enough to sit down and discuss their views. In the help of a psychiatrist, Ms. Chun and P M finally work out a compromise approach, clearly defined their daughter what we can do, what not to do. In the event of problems associated with his daughter, they'll remember the original agreement. Stress elimination, they finally and as lambs.

(Edit: Europe Shumin internships)