On the sexual life are not satisfied with this?

A newly married two years said: "I and my husband had a normal sex life, but I found her husband sometimes masturbation, but looks very satisfied.

Is it I can not meet the requirements of the husband, or he is not interested in me? "

Because each person's sexual needs and sexual ability, so in sex, such dissatisfaction.

To make matters worse, there are also "Tango". Long-term sulking can only let the marital relationship is getting bad. Therefore, for women, if her husband's performance does not make your own satisfaction, angry at the second, and most importantly how to express it.

For example, the text before the Lady, her sad reason might be because the husband let her believe that masturbation behavior of connection does not meet him.

To break the deadlock, the wife can be used to solve the "Frank", i.e. directly told him: "I feel that the present life is very confused you?" Instead of saying: "I hate you. "Angry or defense reaction will only lead to miscommunication.

While the husband and the wife of the communication adopted, would also be aware of the wife masturbation hurt, you can try to explain it to her act of masturbation is a healthy, fit, masturbation, to some extent on the improvement of sexual function has a catalytic role in this may resolve her inner anxieties and fears.

Even with more experience, between spouses in a variety of internal and external factors, nor can always be reached orgasm.

Therefore, if one day her husband in you haven't any feeling when I've finished "combat", you must understand the husband's sexual function when it is good or bad.

Regardless of the husband does not feel guilty about that at this point, you can be generous, smiled, and said to him: "this is not a big problem, although not to the climax, but I feel it is also very good, because you tried, so I liked sex life.

"Remember, do not try to make partner erectile instead of him to please you, after his ejaculation, hope he can pass around or other way so that you get enough love, so as to achieve an orgasm.

In short, the male likes to keep their sex life as a separate thing, if sexual problems, the solution will also focus on the sexual act.

Women should be bold and husband to discuss sexual manner, time and access issues such as sexual orientation method, only the common participation in order to produce a tacit agreement.

However, in an active communication of attitude, but against the husband because accident in sex more, so the expression should be tactful.

May wish to choose a chat in the two alone, let someone realizes that he has some trouble, then gradually turn to a couple of common activities such as cooking, etc., then implied that the two aspects of human nature.

Be sure to let the husband was very important, in the male pride are met, he would have caused the "nature" to meet the needs of women.

If the opponent still not disillusioned, you prefer to stop, another day to talk about this topic.

If the husband's intention to the wife, but after some time still does not have a good match, you may have and he too much working pressure or physiological dysfunctions, then it is best to see a doctor, not blind.

(Practice editing: Chen Dong ping)