Minutes, they leave her body

I and my wife is childhood, after her marriage in good faith in love, but too cumbersome life make us sick, and let us no longer passion, when she found a female colleagues and I have a one-night stands, does not give me any remorse, we use less than a week to do the divorce proceedings.

The day as it was drizzling, see her lonely figure gradually disappeared in rain and fog, I suddenly very sad.

A year later I became a family, but she remained alone. However after divorce as friends we have dealings. I often call greeting her, she encountered any difficulties will be the first person to think of me, of course I and his ex-wife of contacts I will try to hide his now wife.

Six months ago, I was on a business trip abroad, suddenly got her phone, said she is ill at home, running out of gas, can I change my time to help her.

I support them, immediately take the long-distance bus drove back.

That night, we are all in the same bed and sleep, I can see she is like that need me, she said that this is the first time after the divorce of a man sleeping on her side.

Aside, she was lying in my arms sweet sleep, I suddenly some bitterness, sometimes life is not looking back, I can't hurt another woman, and I now can do is try to her physical comfort, and do all this and then not cricket ...

— — Mr. CHOW, 34 years old.

Network engineer after divorce, although I have had several of his girlfriend, but nothing definite, she too. Really, when you know that she was alone, I had some chuckle. I began to call her, also often go looking for her.

What's not? she go also wipe off me and she used to be husband and wife.

We understand each other, but also easy access to status than and strange woman flirting is much more easy, not flowers, as long as a few dinner offensive word, she would have a look at me, not wedded does not necessarily is the enemy, I need sex, she doesn't deny me, why? as to whether there is a restoration of may, I do not think I have too many choices. I will not be easily put himself into the marriage.

— — Mr. Tsang, 32-year-old salesman the ancients said: desire, also.

I understand that a person sexual needs and the needs of the food as natural ordinary. Hungry and want to eat, feel, and sexual relations should not be what accusations.

But culture is put in to the mystification of evil, as if only the marriage is ethical, but sex is not a moral can constrain, beyond reason and logic, unconventional and female sex is everywhere, since I was doing, as long as both parties is voluntary and does not endanger the lives of others, then let it be, to be honest, I and several ex-girlfriend has a casual sex, I really enjoy that kind of has a nostalgic atmosphere, warm and familiar with passion and love, it's not just to me purely physical feelings brought me to the memory of the past.

--Mr. Feng, 30 years old.

Broker talk met ex-girlfriend, she said she was in fact the original perfections, she attracts me is her body full of youthful sexy atmosphere, however, not a single content, I and her way of thinking and living principles too similar, talk about marriage marry into hard-to-on the cross, she ran after I got married, I escape, later heard that she had a boyfriend, but we do not have broken relationship.

Sometimes I find her concerts or went to the bar and sit, and she talked, occasionally residential in my apartment, and perhaps others feel that our relationship is ambiguous, but if she wanted to, I really enjoy this kind of love relationships.

— — Mr. yet, 29-year-old lawyer expert comments: from Idaho's temptation is more terrible than strangers, especially sexually.

Because it is in addition to the familiar feel and body, but also with memories, habits and reluctant as mental constraints, and time have been mutual effacement, spiritual anger also heal injuries, or even no longer think about each other's rude, it is no longer on his lazy and grade abhor, more time is exaggerated his merits, even unintentionally, to exonerate him is really old comes alive or even confuse? 1 could account for you.

Of course, the time can heal wounds, but will let people forget lessons learned, this is a lot of gender experts do not agree with the reasons of old lover comes alive.

In their view, unless the original part is caused by external forces, again combined love, it is often difficult to avoid the fate of breaking up again, such as: Elizabeth · Taylor and Richard Burton, etc., causes · is simple, rivers and mountains, rivers and mountains.

Don't be yuanmeng revisit joy dizzy mind, think about what was split: personality, values, norms, preferences and be taboo? these are difficult to easily changed, so ask yourself whether the heart to accept each other's $ grudges, accommodate each other? or do you really understand him? how do you want to return to the outcome of the probability of?? also, of the agreement of all of life is by no means.

Marital life, will leave a deep imprint memories, including physical memory, that memory will allow many after breaking up with her lover, in a warm atmosphere in the longing desire, for the purposes of sexual experience.

It is felt by many of the experience, the harmony of nature can bring enormous satisfaction. This memory will throw an unforgettable love.

Sex is the result of cultural and rearing, in traditional culture, women often have sex as love, like going to bed with his love, and ex-boyfriend maintain a sexual relationship, with many also report on the "composite".

But in men, sex and love can be no contact of two things, manThe male hegemony of to the right of male sexual exile.

But good and let people enjoy sex must be attached to depend on, it is emotional, if that is the root, then the emotions is a leaf, by sex and love, from love and sex.

Automatically generates a sense of belonging and sense of reliance, if you do not address this issue, but simply "nature". Eventually be raised by the "love" the tragedy of hate.

(Practice editing: Zhang lijuan)