Monday, January 3, 2011

Youth of gender relations and emotional issues

Growth is a joyful and exciting thing, it not only represents the fusion and promotion of life, but also life another interpretation and transformation. Now in revolt of the young friends, on the one hand that has grown up to independence: on the one hand still need to rely on their parents. In psychological hope towards independence, and look forward to the dependence on the parents.

This dilemma, causing physical and psychological aspects of anxiety and anxiety.

Young people grow up feeling anxiety and doubt thing is to get along with the opposite sex and emotional issues. For example the orthotropic friends? orthotropic friends will not affect how the academic? friends with the opposite sex? how to express the love of the opposite sex friends? what male and female contacts scale? I'm not your favourite person? why God always ignore me? love him (her) in the sky above the hard drive, and so on.

Such problems have always been perplexed by his young friends, causing physical and psychological restless, anxiety, and reverse, etc.

So this article's main purpose is to let parents know the young people may face problem resolution and untangle the confusion, gender relations and emotional issues has increased awareness and understanding, it is more important to teach children to care for their own and to accept others and really loved life, for their master feels better.

Love him or her in the sky above the hard drive-like a person to wait for him to grow up

Young friends in the face of the opposite sex, there is often a complex, is like a person does not know how to express the thoughts of love, what do I do in the face of the opposite sex? how do I get to express how to let each other know?, I love, love in their hearts quandary.

Faced with this kind of paradoxical mood or favorite phenomenon, the young friends should calm thoughts: I really love him? he's my favorite I understand each other? someone understood me? what strengths and weaknesses? I know me? I tolerate his any disadvantages? I can in academic and make orthotropic friends proper arrangements between?,? because orthotropic friend involves "decisions" and "responsible", when making a decision more appropriate? when decisions more perfect? when are ideal orthotropic friends are to be considered in depth the issues in the body and has not yet matured when you not only of orthotropic friends on their growth did not help, affect and impede development.

More importantly, this period cannot be responsible for their own decisions, must be made by the parents or others to bear the consequences, the passion of the moment to lifelong happiness must be as bets.

Therefore, like a person to wait for him to grow up, it will have to wait for their growing up.

If I like what you can-in fact you hurt parents heart

Young people are most often hung on the lips of oratory "as long as I like any", I was me, you said I'll say right left! "you say I'll be blunt black!" you say I'm wrong, I'm going wrong! I will own snow! young heart is flying heart, young years don't stay white, as long as I like what does not.

In this kind of sentiment and logical reasoning, as long as men and women in love, forever tie the knot, hail, together, what difference? as everyone knows, the young at heart is flying heart, heart, vulnerable, and influence the development of life.

Successful life development is an "OK OK, I'm you" highest realm, and when you do anything, any decision, apart from considering himself to worry about others, I'm so against their own family, there is no influence to others are constructive influence of buildings or destructive impact.

Consequences if the investor, who, if only the expense or loss yourself and others, etc. should be carefully considered.

Best actor (female) to see a change for the protagonist will experience out of someone else's heart and understanding the position of others.

Because "what if I prefer not to, when you hurt their parents".

In fact, you don't know my heart-so I want you to know my heart

"The generation gap is not an age gap, but a thought away, many young people consciously take days, without a companion, parents, teachers do not know my heart, I do not know what I want? don't understand my needs? not sure my confusion? always blame more than encouraging, requirements than listen to deeply and I talk, etc.

Anyway, in fact, you don't know my heart.

In fact, the generation gap between the two generations can communicate and accepted, and seeking life of intermediation. At the appropriate time, young people should be reasonably express their views, pouring out his inner world and needs, so that others can clearly understand your life stage. People are not getting through ongoing communication and coordination?

I loved life-as their master feels better

Teen love is a "not really understand, as enabling strong words that melancholy", "feelings are always dream girls, boy feelings always love poetry".

For this kind of ignorant ignorant understand love, a little sticky and not too sticky love is always desirable and longing. Some people love dream life, some people love food, some people love abandoned school, some people love broken wrist globetrotting, some people love to pay the cost of his life, and these people never know true love, never have.

True love is a treasure yourself, to accept other people's noble sentiments that true love is not a body of possession, but rather a spirit of mutual support.

With love we can really make your own master.

Not the same as it is not the same-the fusion of mutual respect and acceptance

Adolescence another sentiment is on the opposite sex is quite curious, adoration by curiosity and derivative, more emotion and hope to have each other.

Generate love is a possession, rather than a sacrificedDedication to mistakenly believe that love is kind of enjoyment of rights and obligations. To see themselves as a matter of expression of the love of the opposite sex, or to convey the message of love each other. In fact the true essence of love is a specific combination of mutual respect and acceptance, of feelings through the specific understanding and acceptance of each company's growth, through life's most embarrassing period and the anxiety of the stage. So, is the harmony of gender relations and emotional expression.

(Responsible editor: Luc Rainbow)

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