Saturday, January 8, 2011

"Sex" is "love" of the starting point or ending point?

In the forum often see someone post asked: asexual love is not a long look much?, little did not help on the relationship between sex and love had a thought.

Don't want to know, think about it. I finally came to the conclusion that sexual love of start and end points. Well, think about this, but let people love, good feelings that plagues the animal instinct? science conclusions so that only respect for science. The thoughts posted below, welcome to the male suonv humour.

First, the starting point of love

From love of initiation, in young children, childhood and adolescence, innocent, pure, no heart love is love, and so the idea about the opposite sex.

Occasionally the little boy playing with his own chick chicken, or just curious is all. Puberty, with physiological development of maturing, the awakening of consciousness begin to significantly sexual characteristics. At this time, began to pay attention to the opposite sex, it is of concern to the opposite sex. If there is no sexual development and maturity, man is not the pursuit of love. Is not it? such as eunuchs, lost male sexual characteristics, that is nothing against specific interest, there is no normal pursuit of love, bombshells in their eyes are just a bunch of fat, even braised pork attractive? At the same time, women are not likely to fall in love with eunuchs. Because despite the ball as eunuchs, lost as the man most fundamental capital. Left of love became impossible to safeguard, in that case. Alas, the consciousness of love emanating from sexual sense that people dream of love, but to animals like sexual instinct-based ...

Then from the process of a woman loves, is also something that precedes external inside thing that sexual attraction before the emotional resonance.

The traditional way about love: love at first sight, matchmakers, really. In fact, at first sight and match maker describes both love the way it is almost as a class, are the two sides had never met. In addition to the marriage and love, really emotional involvement requires both sides met each other going on another party favors, willing to place on it, otherwise it is not a love at first sight, would not meet again, there is no love story. Just met, they know each other, and who are willing to go with contacts? enjoy each other's thoughts, words, behavior only small have? letter, first met, can know each other. Want to come, just like the other side of the face, body, and so on external things. Specific characteristics of clear, full of the charm of the opposite sex, always accessible, easy to love at first sight, easy to contact. So I think, two people meet, the first is of gravitational attraction to each other. A no sexual charms are very difficult to obtain recognition of the other party. Sadly, man! "really feeling quite complex, but inevitably linked with nature will end in love, marriage, otherwise only the General friends.

It is the end of love (I really don't want to hurt your heart, broken everyone's dream)

In love, love lost for the powers of the head of men is always accompanied by sexual desire, sexual compulsion, also called love? have a story, a girl and a boy on a half years, the boy and girl hand didn't pull too.

Women make up, boy wonder and asked: "I so respect you, love you, even you are not afraid to pull. Why breaking up?, "the girl said:" Yes, we talked for half a year, who didn't even pull over, you feel normal? "because the asexual love of contact and lead to failure, and his love of truth with love will have the desire, that is the humanity. Don't give in to love down, no way ... ... (This is the love of men and women. )

Love cannot be separated from the rest of the men and women, married couples are inseparable of harmony and lubrication.

People often say that married women "glamour to drop", small face red, water run run and say that this is the love of moisturizing. Joke! I think, this is the property of moisture. Left of AC, men and women are like flowers, water dwindled, as ancient medicine often say "imbalance of yin and Yang." Lack of communication, men not only physically demonstrated a jaundiced and thin, spirit showed stagnant, a long time, even the so-called "love" will gradually decline, disappear. We do not often see, hear and his wife because sex is harmonious and divorced? we do not often see, hear and his wife because long-term clones and Red affair? we don't often hear the husband and wife because long-term separation and family breakdown? sex marriage to be durable, the inevitable failure of marriage clones. Sad! deeply devoted still ear, Luo and others. Those who really love the good feelings of the story also resist the impact of the sexual instinct, inadvertently, a beautiful love story has broken. This is the end of the sexual love.

Alas, write here, have a sigh: the people, not the animal instinct.

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)

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