Saturday, January 22, 2011

Neglected two psychological disorder?

Regardless of the psychological or sexual crime obsessively, its production have their historical and social background, many people think the sex organs and sexual behaviour, by their very nature are dirty, shameful.

In the real world, not harmonious sexual life is a lot of couples, just for a variety of factors too embarrassed to ask doctor asked the medicine.

Impotence, premature ejaculation, sex, fear, vaginal spasms, etc., the vast majority are psychogenic sexual dysfunction, there are many popular science magazine described will not repeat them here. Today, I tell the reader the other two neglected psychological disorder-induced obsessive and psychological sexual sin.

Sexual obsessively, refers to the party verbally acknowledge each other's genital and sexual behaviour in accordance with hygienic standards, but psychologically unable to uncontrolled feel each other very dirty, thus giving rise to the opposite sex aversion and affected the sexual feelings of harmony and couples.

Sexual obsessively, there are three types: physical, mental and mixed.

The body type of patients considered other genital and genital secretions are dirty, thus making them in extremis repugnance to meet their obligations under the State of sexual nature; spirit type, is sick of the opposite sex is a normal sexual activity, sexual expression and language; hybrid is the first two types of performance of both.

When patients often dislike of spouse genital dirty, not only with each other to wash down, but also with alcohol "disinfection", wearing a condom.

Sexual more obsessively, female, male less (but not only).

Their husband's sexual behaviour and even a smile all felt sick and do not want to endure, not sick of her husband's saliva, secretions and sound, but also the expression of disgust husband love air movements, and language, although these are psychological barrier performance, many people are not aware of this, but that "each other not love me", or that he was "hygiene", "taste of elegance", this is pathetic.

The psychological barrier of obsessive, mostly occurs at the age of marriage is not too long of a young couple.

Psychological and sexual crimes are occurring in women remarry.

With this kind of psychological disorders in women, after the husband after marriage and sex often exhibit a psychological tension and fear, and often after husband telling her to sexually selfishness, just your own satisfaction, inconsiderate she; or that he is with ex-husband had sex only reluctantly, as do nothing when the wife of responsibility, so that later in life in unable to get a better feel, affecting sexual harmony.

Many after Cardiff, cannot understand the wife remarried psychological disorder, but miss the mistaken for wife-husband, this family life overshadowed.

Regardless of the psychological or sexual crime obsessively, its production have their historical and social background, many people think the sex organs and sexual behaviour, by their very nature are dirty, shameful.

People believe that everything can be said, with the exception of the exception.

This is a long time under the influence of the feudal ideology, depending on sex, sex positive propaganda not enough results.

Many girls who've been advised menstrual is dirty, menses, called "sowing and wo.

Further, from the development of their obsessive as any male obsessively, married and extends to her husband's sexual obsessively.

Some cultural level higher female spirit of the mistake of obsessive as noble and aim, impingement and not regret. Male sexual obsessively, affected by patriarchal, thinks his genitals clean, but very dirty women. And psychological sexual crimes, women in their minds there are concentrated in

To prevent and correct both psychological barriers that will have positive propaganda of physiological and psychological knowledge.

To recognize marital sex is a normal behavior.

If you think that couples in kissing, caressing and make love when sick, reluctantly and later regret, not just from the couple's feelings seem to find the problem, but should consider whether the nature of mental disorders, if necessary, to consult a physician counseling or psychotherapy desensitization therapy, with positive sexual replacing of obsessive passion.

To observe and be familiar with themselves and each other's sex organs, so that life can become the common quest of husband and wife.

For the sexual offence psychological wife, the husband in the discourse on the language you want to pay attention to avoid possible misunderstandings and stimulating the wife sex psychology topics, for example, chastity, purity, etc.

Secondly, the wife of mood when she told her that he would not discriminate because of remarriage, underestimated her; efforts to enhance mutual understanding and the couple's feelings, so that his wife down the burden, remove tension thinking fear. In this way can we correct the wife sex psychology of mental disorders, gradually obtaining sexual harmony and coordination.

(Practice editing: Chen Dong ping)

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