In the open society how to hold chastity?

In an open society, how to keep their virginity?

　　

1. do not confuse the love and passion will destroy love it, bringing the infinite suffering psychologically. That the fall in love with love view identifies sex is bourgeois junior love view, is contrary to the socialist morality. Their love is vulgar, uncivilized, uneducated, lack of noble sentiments. This so-called love with animal instincts desire actually not much difference, but also to the Holy, noble love biggest profane.

2. There should be a self-respecting, use reason control feelings of love for men and women, inevitably love cheerful, tender made of silk.

At this point, both the application of reason and the will to control the feelings of the impulse, clear-headed, self-respecting. As a female, you should know how self-esteem, self-respect, dignity, found each other deviant ideas, you should try to educate each other over each other's attention to cherish and preserve their virginity. Lured by the opposite sex, and must not compromise, meet each other's desires. You should always remember: in gender relations before marriage is not legal, once love fail, is without legal protection. At the time, anyway-sounding "spitting image" will be completely dead, but also to the two sides of the psychological trauma caused hard to heal. Especially women, once lost Virgin virginity is dumb for huanglian — there is suffering, shame and pain will be buried deep inside, to the future life increase the endless troubles. Taking a step back, even if love plain sailing, premarital sex is not conducive to deepening and development of love, and be married couples live cast shadows.

3. to strengthen the ideological culture, consciously reject some unhealthy things should not go to imitate those nasty action.

A new era of unmarried women, should have the ideals, ethics, civilization, this is beneficial to health.

4. at the same time with the man, not overly affectionate with as few as hugging, kissing, touching and other irritant action.

In addition, it should also be adequately control opportunities and mutual contact hours. This can also be reduced the risk of losing-Ching.

We are in love of unmarried women, happy life in the call to you, do not look only moment of meet and lose permanent happiness, it should be borne in mind that China is a Millennium old adage goes: a slip into convincing.

(Practice editing: Cheng Yu-Shan)