The ESP when wife sex

The high quality of life of people with rich imagination, are particularly vulnerable to the influence of various external factors, or that it is by virtue of a vivid imagination, they will have a high quality of life. When a person's sexual fantasies inspire sexual desire, pleasure level will increase as the imagination.

Qiu Ming to telephones, said his wife-color was psychic: she can make love when you see into what he is thinking! I work too busy for such boring things didn't go my heart, especially when the Qiu Ming consulting is not serious in tone, but I'm sure it's ridiculous.

But Chiu Yat Ming next day morning cry went into my consulting rooms, all are Flex-India grabs of blood.

"I'm taking my wife really! ESP.

"He put on the phone yesterday, then repeat it again.

"You sit down, slowly!"

I motioned to him.

Sounds, Xia color features is enough of a "specific".

Making love in and Qiu ming, she will know he is thinking of another woman. Last night, that is, they are called, the sudden turn Chiu-color to the song, with the most vulgar language called him and keep his face scratching. He is also, no hands, he knew the wrong, "who I was really thinking about another woman!"

Qiu ming told me that his heart had a skeleton: each time when having sex with his wife must want another female talent able to ejaculate.

And recently, he was the only thought of another female talent can have a status of penile erection. Qiu Ming stressed that he didn't mean to, is not independent, he imagined objects is very uncertain.

Qiu Ming in a star-rated hotels do security, daily bigwigs colleagues and guests can not be separated from his sight.

The youth of sixteen of the waitress, night three accompany frequent access, and a wide variety of Miss domestic and foreign female guests, "as long as I watched the strange, almost all and wife make love at imagination object. "Then he occasionally see a pornographic video, the more strongly, completely naked stimulation far exceeded him in real life to see women, each time having sex with his wife, his head would reproduce those lenses, he even tried to imitate such actions ... And all this, he did not want to let the wife see.

However, one of these days,-Har, hitting the nail on the head of color could reveal to him.

Qiu Ming in surprised most of the team, had to admit the facts. From then on, each time you make love, he will be fired-color: "see you at the xiongyang, is also thinking about what dirty woman?!" Then the acquiescence and Qiu yuxia famille endless abuse.

"I can understand-color mood, including her beat me well, any woman can tolerate her husband and she have sex when you think of someone else? I this is not a true treat her as a tool of xieyu? I'm not a person!"

Sitting in front of me, Chiu ming in deep self-reproach, "How could I be so? I'm not crazy or mentally ill?"

"You just thought enough health it!"

I then told him, "your thoughts not healthy men also many, but we are not that couples do not put this layer window sheet pokes. ”

Qiu ming asked: "what am I this is not a disease?"

"Of course is not a disease.

This unusual phenomenon called in sexuality, sexual fantasy is a very normal physiological and psychological needs. ”

In General, the high quality of life of people with rich imagination, are particularly vulnerable to the influence of various external factors, or that it is by virtue of a vivid imagination, they will have a high quality of life.

When a person's sexual fantasies inspire sexual desire, pleasure level will increase as the imagination.

In fact, fantasy and reality of the relationship is like fantasy to become rich, fantasy stardom, can implement your own the mind, of course.

Thus, sexual fantasy and not a real ideas, perhaps it is simply not practical content. The findings demonstrated that sexual fantasies can be experienced on some memories of experience, or it can be a kind of atmosphere, scene, in response to mental telepathy, or even someone is a relaxed feeling, that's all.

Psychology research has shown that the so-called "Don Juan" is a very common phenomenon.

Men and women marry later, have day night think sex is no longer out of reach. Husband and wife together life long passion will nuzzle in quietly disappear, everything seems to have become widowed fade unscented plain common sense.

Sex is a passion, it relies on a romantic fantasy and not fall into the mode of action.

A member of France noted sociologist: desire is not pointing to a particular woman or man, once you find an object, the role of the "Crystal" the fuzzy feel of many desires (i.e. sexual fantasy) set to this object. From this we can understand that when a person of a certain sexual desire in the partner offices are not very good meet or vent, he often achieved through sexual fantasies that desire.

Therefore, people have sex, especially couples living together for a long time and uninteresting, you will naturally want to make use of fantasy to sex activities.

In real life, like Qiu Ming examples are not uncommon.

Unfortunately, people often cannot calm in the face of this kind of fantasy, but because of the sexual fantasy and non-marital sex great perplexity, confusion and anxiety. In their view, and your spouse have a fondness for the others, sex was a moral crime. They also will to suspect their moral qualities, or blame themselves for the love there are different.

In fact, these worries and fears may not

Required. Some people have done a survey found that 60% of wives and at least the proportion of the husband, at the made love with similar sexual fantasy. This result demonstrates widespread sexual fantasy.

Like Qiu Ming as making love with his wife, the mind one or several of its own once admired even stranger, and not what a fuss about, because everyone has their own experience, put this experience to the sex is normal.

This is just like talking with a friend, don't know when will the former a friend — we have no reason to blame themselves for not being sincere to talk to friends.

Sexual fantasy is imaginary, tend to be more of an idol of polymers, and is not specific to one person.

On the other hand, even if it is referred to as a person also no harm, as long as you do not put into practice, to the couple living there would not be affected.

If Qiu Ming is because his wife certain defects exist, with the fantasy to imagine her own needs perfect sex partner, I'm afraid to harmonious relations between husband and wife have hundreds of IK.

Of course, the key issue is the sexual fantasy is their true privacy, wise spouse will not be asked, the wise man never said or recognized.

Otherwise it will affect each other's feelings, at least let their self-esteem.

(Practice editing: Yuan-Kee)