Talk about adolescent sexual attitudes

Adolescent stage is affected one's life a crucial period of development, in addition to the need to face the constantly growing and changing, but also in the face of life's most intense sexual impulse.

To learn how to get along with it safely, and is not an easy thing. You know, really throw us in "nature", have serious conflicts or adjustment difficulties, often in terms of what was actually done, but we are on the "nature" of the views and practices, which is the "attitude".

Sexual attitudes including a person to own the "compatibility" of ideas and practices, for example, you think you are a man or a woman (gender identity)? do you like heterosexual or same-sex (sexual point)? you are willing to have premarital sex or extra-marital sex (sexual morality)?

Sexual attitudes also includes a person's social existence of the phenomenon of views and practices, for example, you are a heterosexual, your denial of premarital sex and extra-marital sex that you are gay, extramarital affair ', premarital sex of person holding indulgence you exist in society, the prostitutes "sex porn movies" business can tolerate? ...

Sexual attitudes are formed? although some people consider the factors from congenital and acquired factors two aspects to be understood, however, the present study was not clear whether and biological factors relevant? if so, what will the extent to which effect has been to sex education, emphasizing the most, acquired factors in the formation of sexual attitude played a great role.

People born after the "socialization" process, the formation of attitudes is the "socialization" an important part of the process.

The attitude of parents, school of education, and peer groups and mass media are deeply affects us all sexual attitude formation.

Renmin University of China Institute of Sociology Professor Pan sui ming, a man's sexual attitudes depend on him during puberty before and after three years of living environment.

When such as xingmeng, sexual fantasies, nocturnal emissions, masturbation, etc, you have a significant impact on the lives of others and the social environment is how to deal with you, for your sexual attitude formation is essential. In this sense, our youth learn and communicate with people, there is more to a deeper knowledge and understanding, we can be constantly evolving attitudes. In any society, people's attitudes are not the same. We cannot arbitrarily said, which is absolutely correct, which is absolutely wrong.

Some people will at all times and in all societies "nature" of the scale is divided into six, from the most severe asceticism that without taking into account the faire:

Traditional asceticism: think sex can only in marriage, but also to "sons", cannot have the idea emphasizing Virgin and virginity;

　　

Open asceticism: to accept the "sex is not the purpose of the reproduction, as well as the needs of happiness," but only couples can enjoy the boudoir of music, as stressed the "Virgin" and "chastity", against premarital sex and extra-marital sex;

Humane conservatism: think young people already have a sexual desire, can not be ignored, to give their sex education, so that they can with their sexual desire to ride along.

Still opposing sexual exploration between young people;

Radicalism: think adults assess the quality of young people should not have sex, "" standard, but they are responsible for these acts, the degree to do standard advocated "nature" of "autonomy" to the young people themselves;

Gastronomy: think sex is natural and healthy, as long as the parties agree that each other not to hurt each other's behavior, does not violate human relations, any person has the right to interfere in human sexual activity;

　　

Faire: advocate breaking all on "sex" is, that all systems are harmful to human development, back to the original idea of anarchy.

Do you feel is what scale? your parents, teachers, students, friends? also, currently our social dimension is what I believe you will find that your many inner contradictions and conflicts are often due to their own behavior scale exceeded their attitude scales, or their acceptance of the scale and the surrounding social surroundings.

(Practice editing: Cheng Yu-Shan)