Why would beat kids parents ran away from home?

The day before yesterday, Ms. Xu with his 15-year-old son to urban Counseling Center, Ms. Xu whine to the consultant, in the absence of promised son buy laptop, she got her son to play, but this is not the first time (20 April the Nanjing Shanghai).

It's unbelievable, past parents beat kids running away from home, now is child play parents ran away from home, this world is turned upside down.

In fact this problem with a universal phenomenon, looks like the children's fault, but on second thought, in order to solve this difficult problem of solutions, lest you want from the root of a new family violence to seek the answer.

From the perspective of family education, now, the vast majority of families are only children.

Grandparents have all kinds of love, the parents enjoy their vision with the "little emperors", "eye", every care, everywhere else, has resulted in a child into sexual indolence, dependent. Plus, enjoy Supreme overconsumptioncdns. Some parents, only attach importance to the cultural knowledge and education, not ideological and moral education, learning the piano, learning to dance, painting and calligraphy, learn a foreign language ... Just don't learn how to behave. Parents of excessive indulgence, pampered let they've developed a lot of bad habits and bad habit, when their needs parents cannot 100% satisfied, they will cry, make a home made chicken flying dog jumps. But as the social life of the rich and the temptation grows, children also increases with age, their desire is capricious personality choosing, causing them slightly unhappy they will attack. Parents can also kicked and punched.

Violence from the parents of the children of age, mostly 12-16 year olds.

The age of young people are in the transition from child to adult psychological fault during the weaning period, have a lot of reverse psychology, mood fluctuations. When they even experienced a little bit of criticism and accusations that they often can't stand, an extreme form of resentments, and kicked the parents, or even knife threat, wayward. Economic requirements were not met, the temper of the child on the spur of the moment is moving hand, natural parents, the child could not scolding the child will think that violence can solve the problem, since even further.

From the point of view of school teaching, examination-oriented education in pursuit of is the percentage of teachers teaching efforts is to own the students sent to good schools, schools teach efforts are being drawn to test contest.

For students of traditional virtue of education, ethics education often lack of gratitude, respect their elders, parents did not get into the habit of habits, so that the children of parents when the meet what they wanted out of the "ATM" parents just don't meet their requirements, they will move to the parents. Plus now games, films and other adverse effects that have not yet learned on their own life for children, often choose to violent means to achieve their own ends.

Thus, new forms of domestic violence so that children and parents of the cart before the horse, and you want to change the situation, improve the ability of the parents ' family education is the key.

To meet the basic material needs of the children, help children foster a normal view of the world, values, learning to be, doing.

School education children learn, to lumber while Chinese tradition to teach children, only to let the children were brought up to respect their elders habit forming, addressing new forms of domestic violence will only serve to half and twice.

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)