How to correct the sex jiezheng?

She and her husband had fallen.

They are childhood, married three years, Cole, all the best. But she can't stand not a husband's sexual behavior. Her love for him, and before long to look forward to a better sex life and body converge. However, each time having sex after marriage, she always felt his genitals are "dirty". He's kissing and stroked it always makes her think of saliva and "dirty hands".

Honeymoon, her sex life in sick, afterwards always trying to wash your teeth, change, bed linen.

Husband complain that I take a bath wash faster dehulling, out of alcohol than drink more water, but she was still sick. She came with the idea of divorce, but all medical examination proved that she does not have any physiological or nervous of allergy.

She and her husband had fallen, but the reason but on the contrary, the husband rarely kiss and touch her, so she hurt heart.

But her husband later increased mouth irritation, she could not stand because she felt that place is a "dirty". Husband were indignant, and she also got into bitterness. She asked: why I can't control their feelings and body?

They both appear are psychological sexual jiezheng phenomenon.

The so-called sexual jiezheng refers to client and also although rational acknowledge each other's genital and sexual behaviour is clean, consistent with the health of aseptic standards, but why… and psychologically feel each other's "dirty", or always think of some of their own that "dirty" thing.

Sexual jiezheng can throw out on specific or on its own.

Although the degree of severity of the above, obsessive-compulsive disorder, makes the point that you want to divorce by few and far between, but lighter but quite common in jiezheng, at least affect couples having sex harmony, weakened the sex life and daily love of good feelings.

Sexual more obsessively in women generally, and are vulnerable to being on the actors considered as natural, normal, or even the female advantage.

It mainly includes three manifestations, and is divided into its own and the opposite sex. This is the author of China's two largest cities in the survey findings.

(1) physical obsessively, first of all refers to his own flesh, especially on the reproductive organs and physiological phenomenon with no scientific attitude, or think they're ugly, or feel that they are dirty.

The most common is the female that their blood is extremely dirty, feel that the menses is a very ugly thing.

Some women married for decades, he can do never let her husband saw their menstrual belt, to say nothing of blood, visible this obsessive how serious and lasting.

As regards the treatment of specific physical and physiological phenomenon, although few female obsessively, but on the male genitals, secretions and odour aversion is also more common, less serious.

(2), first of all means averse behaviour some female subjectivity and his own sexuality divided into good and bad, dignified and dissolute, then accordingly qualify yourself, even if the person with the dearest, only those "good" behavior, sick and could not have made those "bad" behavior.

Similarly, they may dislike men many behaviors. Even the male sex, they sincerely express also feel ugly, dirty, unacceptable, and even offend yourself.

(3) mental obsessively that female bondage own strictly forbid ourselves to think of things that are not allowed to have sex, otherwise you will feel ugly, dirty soul even condemned as morally degenerate.

They pursue no sexual content of pure love, or even do not want to marry. In turn, such women think that almost every man is very dirty ugly, because they always thought, expression and to seek sexual love.

(Edit: Tang Hui internship in red)