Fear of pregnancy, sex without sin

Premarital sex is a broader concept. Of scientific research in accordance with the desire to meet the level of classification standards, human sexual behavior is divided into three types: one is the core of sexual behaviour, namely gender sexual behavior: second is marginal sexual behavior, such as hugging, kissing, caressing, and so on; the third is the kind of sex. This article refers to premarital sex is one of the first category, it means that men and women in love during sexual intercourse. Its characteristics are voluntary, and there shall be no violent coercion exists; there is no law that does not exist between the spouses shall have the duties and responsibilities; easy to produce some disputes and serious consequences.

In our country, premarital sex is public opinion, the ethics of the opposition, is not allowed, "is a kind of sex".

Large amounts of information that premarital sex is more active, but its direct male victims are women. Because of this behavior is voluntary for both men and women, each of certain psychological motivation. In order to safeguard the interests of women, promote marriage of harmony and social development of civilization, this article only on female premarital sex psychology motivation and premarital sex to dire consequences for women, to analyze, with its guidance to women in love love to reason, as soon as possible out of misunderstanding of this love.

According to in recent years a large number of survey data analysis, female premarital sex psychological motivations, there are many radical concepts and ideas.

The author from sexual psychology, sociology perspective be summarized as the following errors:

1, pursuing the so-called "new" way of the love of Chinese society in the 1990s, has entered the higher level, fast paced, multi color era, lifestyle changes, also in the way of love.

Some young people mistakenly believe that in the 1990s to love is to have sex at every turn. A young woman said: "conventional love is not complete. True love, should reflect the broad. If you love him, then I can give him anything. "" Love to be loved are free, why wait until marriage. "" Have the ' 90s, making eyes boring, I have to go in front of history ", etc. Chasing new wave mental domination, they will soon enter from first love to love, from the edge of sexual conduct rises to the core of sexual activity. Were to embrace, kissing, caressing arouse sexual physiology instinctive impulses, that reason strongly has hard to resist.

One study found that 44.67% of women in within half a year of numerous sexual relations occur, including 50.33% offered, 80.33% think that this is a personal matter.

According to my sexual ethics, during the sexual act between men and women in love, the most intimate forms can only be kissing, snuggle, caress, only in marriage the protection of the law, the party can occur sex acts. Free "trendy" behavior is the lack of a sense of responsibility.

2, advocating a variety of free ideas in recent years, with the influx of Western cultural trends and our sexual culture and spread, there is a deep impact on the cultural heritage of traditional morality.

Some young people blindly believed in the Western concept of sexual freedom, wanted to break the so-called traditional moral values very strong sense of self. A young woman said: "we are facing a tide of eight-party, then head of the women would be puzzles ..." moral music box has some comforts not today's young people are the soul of contradictions and physical pain, their sex yourself and original instinct need to draw the equal sign. Thus, some girls think "that has matured so, satisfying a desire is the physiological needs. "Some said:" as long as their love of pleasure on the line, "said:" fear of pregnancy, sex is no crime, "and" a woman without a back abortion is not a complete woman. ”

During the investigation, 32.67% of women think the "virtue is not very important," 19.7% after intercourse of impersonal, and said that "it's that thing," and so on.

Concept of a change in behavior change along with it, when they love also is not know how to sensibly to manage life boat, made by desire itself, not the premature sexuality, and her boyfriend relationship occur periodically, and some may have been feeling both impossible and eventually married, but that special relationship is, as always. Twisted sexual attitudes make distorted sex a hopeless, "a is not responsible for the consequences. ”

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)