Human in understanding things, always identify the characteristics of the thing, the difference with other things.
This article is the psychological characteristics of human sexuality as a comprehensive study, to raise more awareness.A new sexual, Hi
Human-Hi new psychological and creative spirit is to promote social development, is a spirit into matter of basic creative activity, is one of the greatest qualities.
Imagine if humans lack this kind of mentality, there is no invention, the community will come to a halt. In human behaviour in very strong Hi new psychological and sexual adventures. This curiosity is the Primate of the feature. Due to this feature driven people's sexual awareness of taste and keeping great pursuit.Young people in the adolescent, the search for knowledge of youth sexual desire is the inevitable outcome of mental development.
They need sex is a normal mental performance, neither ashamed nor is evil. Because of the physical development of mature, production of consciousness, it is the understanding of the relationship and ideas. It is one of the core of sexual psychology is the determining factor in the sexual act. The correct and healthy sexual consciousness, human growth and development resulting in work and learning will play a positive role, but wrong, distorted the nature of consciousness, human growth and development will play a negative role, or even the cause of sexual crimes. People's sexual awareness is in man's physical and psychological development, development process, but on joy of new adventures and has always trusted company of.And the new tendencies of sexual attraction is the psychological fear of the new.
Any strange things are potentially dangerous, so people must be careful to deal with this kind of curiosity. Out of curiosity or like the desire to drive people to move forward, to pursue and maintain their interest. If a person in social ethics to practice within the new psychological desire joy of keeping enough to calm attitude, we will be able to go through the life of fidelity. Otherwise the new Psychology of Hei, such adventures and desire of uncontrolled allowed Hi new side to development, beyond ethics must go out of the abyss of evil.Second, vulnerability
The vulnerability of human sexuality, the crowd is outstanding performance, often dealing with bad result mutual divorce, family breakdown.
Of scholars: mental factors interfering with normal sexual response is common and the most important. Psychologists and behavioral scientists have anxiety over the behavior of great importance, but also to anger, hostility and hatred as key factors.1. stimulation (combat) anxiety: because of sexual psychology very fragile, in couples living in a performance culture, the greater the degree of higher psychological impact; psychological manifestations of older, more vulnerable.
In the sexual life of both the voice and face, attitude and enthusiasm, reaction, odours, etc, or even inappropriate joke can form the anxiety related psychological factors that could cause sexual dysfunction. By stimulation or combat of anxiety, and fear of sexual failure, this is the most common manifestations. Anxiety disrupts normal sexual needs, in particular interference with focus on sexual ability, anxiety and transfer the erectile attention, thus weakening the erection stimulation. Anxiety and not directly caused by the recession, but sexual libido recession and anxiety at the same time, causing sexual tension and fear, which directly resulted in the Suppression of the reactions that cause sexual dysfunction, in turn, will be of concern, fear of sex and sexual concerns not only damage the sex life of fun, make sexual response force decline in erectile not kin or ejaculate too quickly, thus forming a kind of psychological vicious circle. In this time of sexual dysfunction, the anxiety may be directly interfere with sexual response. Outstanding performance is on sexual behaviour have fear, find out all sorts of excuses to avoid sexual life. In the course of time suffering from mental illness.2, the mouth of anxiety: the husband and wife of the mouth, this is life episode, matter-of-fact, the other party a party combustion restraint must not rise of insults, out of State, insults, ridiculed, sarcastic in mind an unpleasant, often from the germination of new clues here.
Chin into not anger take place between them, this belt is joy, become depressed by attrition. This not only causes emotional rift, also it is easy to cause sexual dysfunction. By refusing to importune y'know means to try to solve the challenges of life, not only for married couples to the psychological trauma caused more will undoubtedly make challenges more difficult.3, anger anxiety: anger and resentment is similar emotions, anger can be directly interfere with sexual response, it is not possible with sexual excitement at the same time.
Psychological stress, anger is difficult to achieve sexual satisfaction and better hurtful. Such injuries are cumulative, a deeper, better every time. Anger is not likely to cause sexual excitement and sexual desire. Any party to forcibly take place between them, will deepen the psychological trauma, caused the rift of rage can be difficult to heal.4. pregnancy of fear: foreign women get an orgasm and sexual pleasure is attributed to the application of modern methods of contraception.
Because of concerns about eliminating pregnancy can have sexual pleasure. If women in the sex life of fear of childbirth, sexual life will be a significant obstacle to lawful spouses often shy away from sex in; in unlawful sexual intercourse with fornication or marriage, women may form a low libido, male sexual dysfunction may be formed. These symptoms tend to be in lawful conditions exposed, from psychology, traces of the initial model, must not be taken lightly. Therefore, in the lawful spouse, to obtain sexual harmony, safe and effective contraceptive methods are women get an orgasm by important means.5. stress and anxiety: wedding, no doubt in the women's heart
Responsible growth in natural form. I have a fear, fear, is unwilling to bear, and the elders and other particularly urgent hope to children, to this end, the wife of psychological pressure, caused by stress, depression and other emotional, sexual requests and responses, purely in order to complete the task of fertility, y'know, not only life is not happy, but also may cause infertility.6. iatrogenic anxiety: due to infertility often went to the hospital for medical treatment, neglect of infertility psychological state, regardless of the cause of my thought, not to ask the woman to the analysis and measurement of body temperature to determine ovulation time, in the few days stay.
This machine provides the sex life of the time, the long-term focus on judgment has no ovulation, thus no sexual life requirements and fun, instead of infertility.Third, the threshold of
The feeling is the human brain on current directly on a sensory organ of objective stimulus of individual properties.
Stimulation of the senses of moderate or appropriate stimulation, a benign reactive; stimulus on sensory not appropriate or not appropriate stimulation, adverse reactions, and even malignant reaction. On objective stimulation of sensory perception, commonly used to measure the size threshold, call it senses of receptivity. Feeling threshold is often measured by threshold, threshold limit value, the greater the feeling weak or described endures not sensitive to stimuli; the lower the threshold, the strong feeling that tolerance is low or the stimuli-sensitive. On stimulus time, location, distance, size, strength, etc., due to individual differences and the threshold level will produce different effects.From sexual activity, regardless of physical, mental and even physical strength on the threshold, due to sensory stimuli, not for long or long make sexual excitement in a threshold level.
If due to sexual stimulation, men genitals, female genital swelling, extrusion, Kai drive, is the normal state 2-3 times. Vulva thickening to 2-3 times, and uplift the vagina long and 1 cm. With the stimulus to deepen and extend, as well as different variations. Sexual stimulation to the penis erectile, length 4.5-8.6 cm, augmentation. Erection time and hardness in 20-30 years old is the peak and then decline. The morning erection times and sexual ability, 35-year-old to new heights and later decline with age.As of adaptation and age, physical and sexual stimulation of sensitivity will change and reduction, increased tolerance, at this point, you need to increase the stimulus intensity, time or replace mode, reaches a certain threshold level.
The couple compatibility in mind. This is not only a psychological background of love success is also the basis for the coordination of mental life.If the stimulus conditions too strong, exciting time too long, also is to stimulate the signal exceeds the threshold limit, the party or parties have resistance to bear, to stimulate the formation of malignant, disgust, letting it development, it is bound to feel sexual harmony and adverse consequences.
Extra stimulation, such as yellow novels and video so that the threshold increases, the feeling of reduced endurance enhancement.
Initially look easily excited to see several not excited, and new exciting, long a tedious, can't cause erectile even erectile angle towards ageing. This is of a type of neural fatigue, even impotence.Weak low stimulation or stimulation, often fail to arouse sexual excitement, not to the other side of the threshold of the optimal level, often forming meet each other "attrition", so that it can not reach orgasm, long a libido decreased, weary, premature termination of a marital sexual, psychological view "premature" or "cold", even though the occasional desire is also buried in mind, none of the parties.
Psychological "premature" to promote the physical early aging, due to a long stay, making the penis erectile dysfunction, premature waste of vagina emerged, keep a couple of forms. Particular attention should be paid to the elderly.Fourth, the selfish nature of
As a private sexual objects, this is the human sexual behavior different from the one of the important characteristics of animals.
Men's outstanding performance.1. put yourself in the life of a dominant position to each other in a dependent position.
Men for sexual requirements have urgent physiological characteristics, often only own catharsis and meet, not consider each other's needs and feelings that make life simple is often the beginning of affection, especially after the wedding. Psychology of expectation theory that: the pursuit of better than get motivates people, expect more than hold their own tempting. Once the wedding is complete moral and legal medicine, psychology and physiology of all secrets exposed to each other, each others hold expectations realized, it is from this point on, the mysterious past on specific, eager pursuit start gradually fades everything become accustomed, the ambition of desire was so strong, it was like at the moment. In particular, to remind both premarital sex, premature sexual secrets exposed to each other, too early to be possessed, this is not a love of loyal, is cast in marriage. Because each other, this subtlest mind won't cover up into one, even an act of infidelity. Gets the more strongly the desire to contribute to lower the performance. If this trend continues, the flower of love is easy-Xie.2, sexual jealousy, from selfish sex psychology, and rational aspects.
Sex exclusive performance is very common in gender relations. No love without envy. The death of the husband and wife love tends to be categorically not jealous. Sexual jealousy also has the persecution. It is selfish and peremptory psychology reflect, driven by possessive, tolerate sexual objects and other heterosexual intercourse, sexual objects and found a third party, fire of love, jealousy, immediately will be catastrophic incidents, is gay.5. non-slave sex
Practice has proved that sexual intercourse between a married couple does not exist, the status of the master and from
Because of the traditional habit forces, often considered the man office initiative, the woman's subordination to the fallacies spread a used force, Department of ideas into the depths of the husband and wife. More sexual excitement because of man's violent, rapid, the woman seems slow, gentle, even contribute to perception of this habit, continuation and circulation. Experiments have shown that couples should play a leading role. Want to know if you can get the desire to meet and orgasm is the key, rather than your own. Men are more likely to do so, while women tend to play the old customs of the passive role. Y'know, they always want their husbands to display their talent, their is no dew and hidden China enjoy, apart from the obedience, never think about your own how to seize the initiative.As lawfully, rhythm, delivery information, adjustment is sex with scientific methods.
We have both seen as both an act of active and passive is sexual behaviour; is of the donor, of information is sexual information receptor, in a period or at a certain time during the lifetime of the information in the donor, through language, text, facial expressions, gestures, posture, and other information carriers, to reveal the sex pheromone receptor; and another one instead. It should be clear, and should not have major and minor, should be a common sentiment to form a unit of information flow, creates a positive answer. Measure the quality of life, often sexual excitement for the unit of time, information receptor from information donor premises obtained information quantity and quality to determine the quality of the orgasm and harmonious proportions. To this end, the two sides in life should be maintained at the optimal flow of information.6. tired of
Sexual boredom is human sexual activity of a continuity of hate.
Although this phenomenon is a situation of that only spouses sexual performance, and often threaten family stability. It has been put forward: there is something called avoidance, such things are afraid that if it is not a comfortable feeling, a feeling of disgust. Some people think that when men trying to reach orgasm and the spouse is not successful, or women trying to cure her husband's impotence but fails, can be developed to hate life, which in turn appear in disgust.Due to long-married life, lack of sexual knowledge and adaptability, the sex between husband and wife as "routine" to complete.
Particularly the woman to the man's regular and urgent requests, it is our obligation of reactive State, even without the man xieyu happy and satisfied. In the last couple of sexual satisfaction, the biggest threat is tired of boring. This love of desalination and sexual boredom continue development can lead to the transfer of love, if not timely corrected and adjustment, is likely to appear first, barely lasted; second, extramarital sex life; the third is the family divorce. Exploring a extramarital sex divorce and family, often because of sexual life not harmony and beauty of the reefs, become an important reason.To this end, to articulate in your sex life will require adjustment and adjustment is the best way to overcome the boredom, to increase the joy of new sexual means.
In this way, you can use your creativity and imagination, is entirely possible that your sex life and get rid of that boring seclusion to create happiness, happy, happy, harmonious sexual love.VII. adaptability
Marriage should address the sexual behavior of adjustment, in between the two activities initiated adjustment to change the dull, boring sex life is the responsibility of the parties is to prevent metastasis of the best arrangements are stability and happy family life of the bond, to this end, it is necessary to pay attention to the following adjustment.
1, psychological adjustment: spouses of psychological characteristics of the combination of the most coordinated, not only love successful psychological background, is also the basis for the coordination of mental life.
Couples mental compatibility will make family is full of joy, trust, love, sex life of the psychological atmosphere of mutual concern, mutual care, mutual satisfaction.2, behavior (methods) adjustment: If you are at anytime can inspire love and desire, you will be able to change the in-room moments and ways to avoid monotony, increasing freshness.
Sexuality say: couples feel meet sex life is an appropriate degree of sexual life. It is important that the sex life of the density of the wife or husband, which one party should not be a burden to do so each time having sex can make both sides get great joy.Caution: men Sexology home sex accepts General than women.
However, the husband should not be forced his wife to himself "accepts". Only the cajoling, considerate, unknowingly cross the boundaries of his wife allows to achieve mutual acceptance of basic consensus. Efforts should be made to understand and recognize the wife sex characteristics, as far as possible to figure out which way to touch her biggest role; which way to excite her excitement and desire; a thorough understanding of his wife's sexual sensitive area. You know, a woman's libido sensitive area vary, never the same, time, location, psychological, physiological, emotional, etc and are changing, the woman without a ready answer, there are willing to take place between them. No doubt you want to carry out acts of adjustment.Face to face sexual intercourse is our basic human gesture.
From physiological, any sexual intercourse positions are harmless. United Kingdom scholars and men Diagam proposed sexual intercourse position changes of 62 combinations, different types of people of different sexual adjustment, achieve harmony and satisfying sex life.3. understanding of adjustment: the knowledge poor often sex were not met.
Sexual intimacy of the characteristics of high culture, starting with the partner's sexual desires are met. Couples should have the purpose of learning of knowledge, active conversation with their sexuality and sexual feelings, common observation of their sexual rhythms, efforts to identify the individual or common characteristics. This regulation aims to completely to avoid boredom, to increase and maintain freshness. You can just in real life, partner of-When it comes to sex, is quiet, like sex can "learn from specialists", after marriage, as long as you listen to it as it will become a professional expert, life sex can successfully accomplish. The fact is that, if a party does not know the other side really like or want to what couples love and love between the will to destroy anymore. Often a family of rupture would start here.A middle-aged sex life embodiment of more deep emotional exchanges, both sides need to be more understanding and tenderness, require psychological met ingredients more.
However, due to the presence of libido and sexual ability of individual differences and gender differences may occur in function of imbalances and having sex. Middle-age than young people more sensible, in such a mental disorder, is generally not hasty separation, but the obstacles are deeply embedded in their hearts. In this way, the psychological stress can aggravate the situation of coordination, sex does not have to worry. Therefore, how to physiological and psychological adjustment of old man's sexual function and psychology, how to adapt their sexual life, is related to the middle one of the major problems of mental and physical health. First of all to the height of from life to understand sex and love, it is an integral part of everyday life. Secondly, the feelings of adjustment needs both sides more understanding and thoughtful. Once again, and then the adjustment needed to constantly updated content to life, skillfully use sex to inspire each other of the psychology of love. Don't make life silence, monotonous and formulaic.Elderly couples sex life more need adjustment.
Elderly couple after menopause, sexual life changes, is one of the causes of marital tension, more needs to be more perspective, a wide range of adjustment.4. adjustment of the dress: use change clothes, hairstyles, makeup, etc. to convey information.
Issue of signal, from clothing and hairstyle as carrier, passed to the receptor, will moderate the tune played a useful role. We all know, tactile, olfactory, Visual can cause sexual desire and sexual excitement, to this end, to achieve the purpose of adjusting, consciously alter these conditions play a positive role of adjustment.5. environmental adjustment: family life for many years a certain pattern, the formation of a fixed routine, type often tired, there is no interference in the life of hope, peace, this is subjective, but, against all expectations, interference, from the little things of life, these things often affect the couple emotion, interfering with the sex life of the meet, to do this, change the environment as an adjustment of the means.
Environmental adjustment can also be a distinction between sexual tension or sexual boredom-induced sexual dysfunction.
If there is tension sexual dysfunction, sexual tension adjustment still exists and must continue to try to dig out reason; if you are tired of sexual dysfunction, adjustment after sexual desire, sexual tension can be increased.8. sex sexual
Sex sex also called sexual effects, refers to both sides get the sexual pleasure and sexual satisfaction, lifted the physiological stress, be glad to psychological, sexual life, a kind of energy performance, a sex pheromone of the initiative.
If a couple good observation and in-depth experience, you will find this potential energy is on your side. Often manifested in sexual hunger satisfied after a happy, your attitude, tenderness, housework, child care, patient education, will have different features and changes. On the initiative of the business, can be shown in the product yield and quality, the wisdom of creating, of thinking, interpersonal treatment will have superior performance. On the creation of an active, open ideas, yixieqianli, was feverishly writing into chapters, unobtrusive creative thinking in more creative.Our scholars not only pay attention to the effects of the marriage and also conducted experimental observation.
On 170 obstetrics and Gynecology surgery patients are divided into two groups, one group of encouraging families to touch, Kiss and hug; another group. The results show that after the exhaust, infection rates are better than no touch group. Sweden a hospital on 1968-1980 all widowed 141418 male and female made 327346, widowed after first year die widowers, widows 9519-9048. In the next 12 years, widowed Communists killed 2 million people. Average of 1500 people died. Proved that the loss of a spouse in the first three months, the widower of mortality risk rate increase 48%; 22% of widows. This is widowed after psychological pressures arising from biological effects, reducing the stress caused by the immune system, increase testosterone hormone falling, led to a series of consequences. Widower ten years chances than in death is twice as common in occasionally. To this end, to maintain the perfect function of age, should remain constant, moderate sexual life, is a sign of health of the elderly.IX. concluding remarks
People of all sexual activity, whether of adapting, or of adverse physiological adaptation, are, psychological, social interaction of these three elements.
The biometric is the Foundation, community features, and reflect the often psychological characteristics. This article describes the various features is 's, aimed at highlighting feature, better understand, but, man, often is mixed, crossover, more features, no single, separated, is not reflected in the affected land, case, processes in disputes, psychological and sexual counseling, must note that comprehensive, holistic and comprehensive analysis of the proposed programme.Knowledge is the predecessor to the summary of the scientific issues.
These knowledge generation and transfer, so that human sexuality is not a simple instinct, but rather in the scientific guidance of consciously. Sex can grasp the sex life of the law so that people's sexual awareness has three dimensions:Lessons from the past; the second is to establish a way of thinking now; the third is to predict the future. This lesson, established thinking and anticipate the future role and can make people's sexual behaviour consistent with the nature and social requirements, meet the physical and psychological needs, gained the greatest happiness and joy.(Practice editing: what gold swallow)
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