Child guard with specific contacts parents

In recent years, I received a large number of counseling of adolescents, the letter on the 2000 3 ~ 12 month 336 letter of statistical analysis of results, involving a specific interactions among students, the young people concerned in the first place.

Middle school and said in the letter, they never discuss with the teachers and parents of specific communication problem, otherwise not be misunderstood, was denounced by critics. Some good academic record, has not happened early behaviour of middle school students also repeated letter asking many classmates with the opposite sex.

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Parents guard

The following are some typical cases common problems:

* A high female GE a letter saying: "parents repeatedly warned me is: ' to talk about friends, even learning Foundation, then smart, learning is finished, not a good college.

' I never contacts the males, but my learning achievement has repeatedly declined to enter college, I volunteered to remain at high level. However, I still worry that, if the boys pursue me? she had been raised in the letter yourself confused 12 questions, and requests for example can I associate with specific and do not affect learning.

* Chapter a senior guy said that he had in junior high school when my girls love a bit, thus affecting the learning.

When specially tuned examination for a course, was only just before the psychological adjustment. Today, the college entrance examination, he came across my a girl and he loved the girls look alike, thus began out of it, he thought he had finished college entrance examination "of this year.

* Middle school girls often a MOM forced down a guy for her to write the letter to the teacher.

From then on, she is blaming yourself, often nightmares, and do not dare to look up classmates and teachers, learning achievements greatly impact, I do not know what to do.

* High school girls crying out in the letter Wu: mother just accidental meeting her and a guy tandem inscribed, finds her relationship with the boys.

Thus, parents forbid her to participate in the activities of the school's basketball team, do not allow her to shift cadres; also frequently checked her bags, even parents sometimes to take her home at the school gate, saw her and guy talk endlessly, such cross-examination did not allow her to explain and defend themselves. This is very painful to Wu, oppression and interpersonal learning achievements are affected.

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