Premarital sex: the desire of love

Marriage, love the men and women in the sex and love into one or both separately? no ready answers, but countless men and women but because the before marriage is refused or accepted problems worry, confusion, particularly women. Maybe if they agree, they cannot be separated; when they separated, no one can take them close. This is a lot of real relationships between men and women, regardless of what they are.

Because denial I can't find love

Clare 24-year-old

I've been trying to get through.

Over the years, I tried and several men exchanges, each time because they happen to be and I hastily instead of nothing. I am very reluctant to do so will not be able to understand that a man cannot be a pure enjoyment of love?

I have reservations about premarital sex, not because of the resistance, but is afraid and will eventually be folded and men occurred after the close relationship will be injured, and finally it is very difficult to leave.

So, I will say that every boyfriend, I'm going to marry before having sex with a woman, I'm very serious, I hope he will be in a position to respect me. But I also think that you can use this to test whether I really boyfriend. I have been with a man on for almost two years. He is my favorite one man, he also promised he would respect me. May unknowingly I found that he and his female subordinates have been stolen, is hitting me, he admitted that he did not like her, but she can meet him in me unsatisfied desire. Since then, I met the man of this class, I do not know what to do.

Premarital romantic marriage "nemesis"?

27-year-old Ms. FUNG

We got married in less than two years, but he was no longer on my urgent "monkey" impulse, and premarital condition, original stark "marrying" is the wrong decision? I became pregnant before marriage is a more passive, marriage become a no choice of retreat.

Although there have been contradictory and struggle, but he's saying, let me last and he walked into the marriage, he said: "we all have physical contact with, and with love, can't you see how much I need you?" Yes, I now realize, I was using the "he needed" to determine his love, and the "need" more of a "sexual". Because I now have no charm, or because of her marriage to him too much, so we have now "nemesis"?

Premarital wandering in the frontier zone

Fragrant Lotus 25-year-old

Safety edge behavior romantic four years a lot of people think that sex is sex, in fact, anyone who can bring sexual pleasure, the pleasure, orgasm acquired, achieve sexual satisfaction is sex.

I and my boyfriend is just cuddle, touch, touch safely spent four years, and naturally into another chapter: marriage — a few days I'm going to marry him. It was very strange that we expect to close all attachment, but it has never happened before sexual activity. In fact, we know the tricks of the trade only. We are taking a more subtle way of having sex, it is said that this is called the edge of sexual activity.

Lin Li 27-year-old recent MOM and trustee to I describes a man, is the in-school graduate.

Talk about a few times, we all feel that everything inside. But since he once told me mad Kiss, each meeting will have to move. I am puzzled, why, after marriage can not give you anything? in order not to lose him, for his marginal sexual frustration, I have always been strong grin and bear it, really painful.

【 Experts analyze 】

For premarital sex, female stubbornly refused or "responsive", or to judge the man you love is truly love you, I'm afraid this is not the most appropriate manner.

This is actually a marriage should be how women and men better coexistence issues.

If Clare really have to wait until found her 100% trust the boyfriend is only willing to sex, she may never get because of lack of confidence on love, it's hard to believe that someone else.

Premarital sex is not what the scourge, the key is to have a sense of safety, it is very necessary. Ms. FUNG, whether on a whim after marriage, the husband and his personal charm or his love of issues not directly related to, for most people, married may face are the two promosting sex life, then, to the Sunworld man, enjoy probably more than passionate sex and important. For reluctance to place premarital sex female, the appropriate edge of sexual behavior, such as sweet, hugging, kissing or even deeper touch, not only can you maintain premarital sexual norms, or you can give refuses to place the parties find a hunqianxing balance of fulcrum.

(Practice editing: Yuan-Kee)