Longing for spring teenage confusions of psychological

Phyl was born in a family, childhood and family atmosphere, known book knowledge, clever wit. Parents as her eye, doting. Phyl's second features more and more obvious, parents all shoulder heavy burden for many. Phyl was born in a family, childhood and family atmosphere, known book knowledge, clever wit. Parents as her eye, doting. Phyl's second features more and more obvious, parents all shoulder heavy burden for many. So he moved out of the "daughter", careful tutelage daughter: girls against boys not too close, or you will become bad; girls in school days on the boys have feelings, we must become bad girl ... Phyl firmly remember parents of instruction, carefully guarding the heart piece of the Holy Land will not be profaned.

A spring, a girl and she unwittingly enters a secret bushes, suddenly found hidden in the bushes gap distance with a man and a woman, one man is a woman white breasts to kiss on the line, touch.

Phyl stayed, but for the student's urging, almost forgot to leave. In return of the car, phyl was very bad. Back to home, a boring bathroom, want to take a bath, put those dirty scene clean. Phyl stood in the shower, and a soft, flowing water cleaning her own white and delicate skin. When her hands were inadvertently touched her breast, suddenly a shiver as "call" in General, a very wonderful feeling through my body, she couldn't help think of bushes "a curtain of spring", the hands are kept in their breasts, thighs and genitals touch up ... In the evening, phyl insomnia. She suddenly found chenzhu. Chenzhu is editor of the school of Humanities, phyl heart Prince charming. Phyl know chenzhu also like her, but have been afraid to move phyl that intimate thoughts. Can not you, who openly towards him, chenzhu rushes hold her, two men walked embraced, it calls the thrill of systemic perfusion again. Suddenly, a hand to her chenzhu pressure in the body, phyl fright barking ... She made a xingmeng.

The second day back at school, phyl body like a fish out of water, her eyes looked at the Blackboard, but also thinking about Bush's "Spring" and dreams.

"No! no!" Phyl at heart, she blamed herself too "dirty" and vowed to drive the delusions. However, she is depressed, the "spring scenery" more escalate in her mind "make waves". From then on all his fear of phyl fear and constant fear of parents, teachers, students see that she's "ugly soul", the attention is always set to learning, achievement has plummeted. Finally, parents finds a problem, who was sent to counseling room. The outcome of the consultation so that phyl and her parents were relieved, something far less terrible. In fact, male and female puberty, "longing for spring" phenomenon is the physiological and psychological development. Girls 12 years after the beginning of three, growing larger breast uplift, body fullness, hip variable round, body secretion of estrogen, libido began, and heterosexual contact desire generally enhanced, but more and more rich and varied forms of expression. For example, enjoys reading books of knowledge, like excerpt literary works for the love of wonderful description excerpt description of love poems and songs, and the resulting sexual associations. Also like on specific concerns, desires and heterosexual contact, like in specific display their appearance in front, body, hopes to win the favor of the opposite sex, and some even try to draw some teasing each other's attention. Psychologist put this period is called the "times" of the specific vision.

It is clear that let phyl and her parents worry that it's not that those "dirty phyl" idea, but the psychological obstacles. phyl

If one is in the developmental stages of adolescents, under the influence of traditional culture, to their normal physiological and psychological development as obscene, criminal behaviour, and to influence their own normal thought, emotion, behavior, it is psychological disorder. Therefore, young people should pay attention to their own psychological Paula Kim young women and men with regard to gender relations, experience and understanding of the behaviour and psychological changes in the development process is objective and existent, is normal. But must and society, living conditions of the individual, should focus on the pursuit of knowledge and understanding of the society, to enhance intellectual, less interest in sex. Girls during puberty sexual experience more sensitive than boys, often unknowingly place masturbation. Have the habit of masturbation can be taken to divert or take memories, thinking something meaningful things to reduce the interest for masturbation. Adolescents to correctly deal with the "longing for spring" phenomenon, parents and teachers should not be "longing for spring" as a sin, but we should appreciate their time to teach. To encourage coeducation, normal communication between children's sexual morality and sexual ability to smoothly through sexual development that critical period.

(Practice editing: what gold swallow)