Obesity can also blessed with "nature"

Lisa before marriage is a round than the "Pearl" than "Jade" Yun-girl, she says she never "too thin flat screen", from puberty is a round face, a pair of fat, however, pursuit of her boy quite many, Lisa left to pick the right selection, to select a small 30 had a return from the United Kingdom to study Bachelor of diamond knot.

Stay in a foreign husband one gentleman, bed room is cosy with, Lisa happy mess.

A year later, their son was born, was a happy man and the world is full of joy. Son growing up day by day, keli SA tummy but narrow, like there is no delivery of pregnant women. Puerperium, face has abstinence for several months, husband, Lisa, in any case is not willing to bare body ... She started looking shape recovery, but in the past half year, the situation has not improved. Her pills, increase the amount of exercise, diet, etc., but little success. More about the Lisa is every night, she is not a fool and his son, is doing the housework, or reading a book or watch TV, it is tried not to go to bed with her husband. There is no way to hide but lights, haphazard, no fun at all, no joy in the past. Lisa since build yixieqianli, never through beautiful clothes, summer is a great t-shirt, a big winter sweater, using her words: "I do not like to see myself in the mirror. ”

However the good years, Lisa spent like this?

Survey

As the tide advocates than normal human body thinness among, obese women more inferior.

According to a survey conducted by the United Kingdom: obese women generally believe that their shape is not only affecting health and self-confidence, but also seriously affect their social and even sex lives. The survey interviewed 2000 women, found that 80 per cent of women because of the damage caused the social confidence. 1/3 of people who apply for obesity not good posts, 76% of women were obese and resist making love, 40% of the people to turn off after having sex with your partner, 85% of people believed to have slim figure, helping to improve sexual life; 50% of people do not want to let partners saw their fat naked. In addition, 54% of people because of obesity and their family members, colleagues and friends laugh; 84% of people believe that weight loss, social life would improve.

Analysis

In fact, in life, women tend to exert pressure on yourself, they are willing to put the perfect body presented to her loved one, but regardless of the trend, real life has the perfect figure of the woman and not a lot, with age, physiological and structural changes, if not always very attention to maintenance, it is very difficult to resist the time zone to the physical changes.

Fat "nature" foo-how to get?

Countermeasures

Accept your body

From the psychological analysis point of view, each individual has a mental blueprint or self portrait.

And of all acts, emotions, behaviour, and so on, always consistent with self-image. You imagined himself into what kind of person, you will follow the person's mode to act. If you identify yourself as an ugly, you will often make escape, not afraid to show self down-behavioral response, which in turn makes you more finds themselves lack charm. Secondly, the views of the self, and often has a "migration", namely, love their own views onto themselves think of others for their opinions.

Therefore, you must first learn to accept yourself.

Like yourself, to make people like you.

Find a big mirror, you every day on it two minutes, and then in the mirror says "look, this is me, although some fat, but that's nothing.

"Over time, you will feel a sense of confidence and respect.

And his sincere communication

He is on your body, do you have a Groove by you needed to get his sincere answer.

In fact, the majority of men on fat wife and not be weary, on the contrary from they will think that's OK, don't be too concerned about.

A psychological experts investigated 30 man, survey shows: 5 man cannot accept overweight woman.

But if are just ordinary friend and a chubby girl down also does not matter, but once involves making love, man will feel uncomfortable. However, these men that if two people after the intercourse, female talent getting fatter, he would never abandon her, but to go with her, told her to healthy weight loss.

20 man does not care about women obese, unless a special peculiar temperament, poor health habits, they will reject the fat lady, as regards the fat level, he can tolerate.

There are five of the men that they particularly like fat women, why?

Fat snow Rainbow, a face of fuxiang, her husband is a very thin man, snow Rainbow said that "my husband will love me fat, I want to lose weight will not let him, I never lost in bed because he had confidence in my body has always been infatuation.

"Psychologists that plump round and even meat body, motherhood, embrace such body or by such a body hug, will feel at ease, a sense of security, but the devil is in effect will give men bring pressure and inferiority.

From the physiological point of view, fat women, generally are very delicate, the skin is soft, sense of touch for the most part, will give sex brings comfort, comfort makes men feel relaxed, this confirms earlier sense and no pressure.

Plump your heart

You may not slim, but this does not prevent you to become a happy, funny, energetic people.

If you lose weight, to spend time doing your own thing, at the same time learn to laugh at yourself, let yourself become a lovely person.

How fat is transformed into hormones?

Specialized study of hormonal Mills Ravi explained that constitute a fat

Chemical composition is the excess of cholesterol, cholesterol, and other chemical components, the body turns into steroid hormones, one is estrogen.

The experts also believe that elevated estrogen can not only increase the sexual desire, also can give you a more pleasant experience.

There is evidence that higher estrogen levels increase in vaginal intercourse and secretion of contraction. Moreover, accompanied by a more pleasant activities is the promotion of women to sexual activity.

On the contrary, anorexic, dieting or exercise too many people (in General, than average weight of 10%), stop the estrogen production, these people are usually subject to vaginal dryness.

Vaginal drying make sex becomes uncomfortable and even unbearable, greatly affect the woman's sexual desire.

Of course, this does not mean, sex and body weight.

If a woman's body weight to her own will not be able to bear, will greatly affect her as a woman's self-esteem, and thus affect sexuality — even libido levels are high.

Yes, we do not promote obesity, that would give women have other health problems such as heart disease.

Rich pretty

See, the fat model is pretty well-known moderator fat, never seen her wearing dark clothes, she always dressed colorful, so you have to be fat, fat nice personality, don't give up sexy element.

If I have a face fuxiang, cheerful and full of love, a sense of humor will dress up wife, I will put her in the Palm when a PO.

(Practice editing: Yuan-Kee)